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[Endless_Night]

RL orgasm. I'd hold out for the possibility of an incredible, actual fuck.

Well, when you put it like that! Real life, all the way!

 

[walkawayrenee]

Life is so uncertain. I'd go with knowing that I brought pleasure to someone special. Take care of the relationships you have, take care of those who are there for you. Chasing a dream can be thrilling and exciting, but not at the expense of those who are with you every day.

I think that's close to what I said, only stated much better.

 

[8PointSika]

What I don't like:
1. People who are incongruous
2. Being ignored when I am being nice
3. Those that don't read your profiles and set themselves up with false expectations
4. Text language - just bone idle that is
5. Poor spelling and really bad grammar

What I do like:
1. Bare flesh - if you've a hot body I'll admire it and I'm not phased on which part of the 'scale' of sexuality you are on.
2. Good stories
3. Being engaged in banter or flirting
4. Women in lingerie
5. Polite people
6. Boobies AND lingerie

 

[GiggLeGasm]

To answer the question:

Part 1 - I don't think that I've ever had an online orgasm as strong as I've experienced in real life.

Part 2 - if I only have one orgasm for the rest of my life.. screw every one of you. I'm handling it myself.. on camera.. and I'm selling it for a gazillion dollars to every joe on the internet.. and then I'm going to retire.
(one orgasm.. have you ever heard of anything so silly.. I don't think I've ever had just one orgasm.. )

 

[BlueEyedGent]

To answer the question:

Part 1 - I don't think that I've ever had an online orgasm as strong as I've experienced in real life.

Part 2 - if I only have one orgasm for the rest of my life.. screw every one of you. I'm handling it myself.. on camera.. and I'm selling it for a gazillion dollars to every joe on the internet.. and then I'm going to retire.
(one orgasm.. have you ever heard of anything so silly.. I don't think I've ever had just one orgasm.. )

Would you offer a friend's discount ??? cant hurt to ask , right?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Would you offer a friend's discount ??? cant hurt to ask , right?

lol.. you don't want to be the camera man?

 

[BlueEyedGent]

lol.. you don't want to be the camera man?

I am not good at directing...besides..being a camera man, you really don't see much...too busy finding the right angle..either I am a direct participant OR...I am sitting comfortably on the couch while eating buttered popcorn....if there was any butter leftover...you know, you might have used it up already...

 

[GiggLeGasm]

*changing my name to KettleKornKegelKween*

 

[SweetSam42]

Well, when you put it like that! Real life, all the way!

Just my preference. I like what James and Renee said too, and they both make a lot of sense.

Sometimes I think I should probably keep my head in RL more than I do, so that's what I'd say. Especially if that certain someone is super fucking hot.

 

[makinmepurr]

Hey litiquettizans, I have finally caught up on the countless pages I missed lately and am ready to rejoin the conversation. And I love the topic du jour.
To answer the first part, I never imagined online sex and orgasms could be as or more intense than in RL. Happily surprised there.
As for the second part, I am so starved for actual sex that I would hold out, even for just a 50/50 chance. And hey, if it doesn't work out, well, we all know there are options.

 

[pfflyerhot]

Always wanting more........Nope, it's one of these two today. I suppose for you I could add in a third choice and make you chose between a guaranteed online orgasm, 50/50 real life orgasm, and the elusive dream orgasm for which you have no idea of when it might next happen.

I'd go for the 50/50 real life orgasm. As for the third choice, I've been living that one for what seems like forever... hasn't happened yet.

 

[rubydlite]

Did that feel good? Not quite orgasmic but it's good to shake things up every once in awhile. So speaking of shaking things up, what have you changed in your RL as a direct result of being at Lit? Are you more open sexually, do you listen for innuendo more, are you more confident? Or are just the same perverted person you always have been?

Hmmm....mostly just that I refuse to settle for less than what I want or what I need. If I'm not happy I'm not going to fake that I am. It's been just over a year since I joined lit and I suppose , most directly, it's changed the route I want my life to take and how I see myself in it as a sexual being. I've always been.perverted.....only I didn't really realise it until lit

Introspection has made me realize that I've asked this same question many different times, in many different ways. In light of this I offer an alternate Saturday morning topic.....******* orgasms, 2 parter. First, did you ever think that you could have online orgasms that were as intense as RL fucking? Second part, if you had but one orgasm to give, would you be with your favorite online partner experiencing the nirvana of online bliss, or would hold out for a 50/50 chance of RL sex with someone you've been wanting to fuck for a very long time?

1. I didn't expect anything from online and was surprised at how intense it could be.
2.right now...*******....if I looked at my current real life option (ugh) it'd be OL. If OL were turning into a potential RL I'd go for that...as everyone said....there's always tomorrow.

ps....dream orgasms....ahhhhh. ..yes please....

 

[ChainedUp]

Slips into a quiet Sunday morning. Hoping that you all were able to get the orgasm you wanted yesterday

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Slips into a quiet Sunday morning. Hoping that you all were able to get the orgasm you wanted yesterday

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

and I'm curious to know how many think of their RL partners while having sex in the virtual kingdom. I'm guessing that you either let your mind wander during that particular moment.. or you don't.

 

[ChainedUp]

My hunch is that very few do that. This is an escape for a lot of people. A fantasy. I can't see people thinking about RL when engaged in fantasy.

and I'm curious to know how many think of their RL partners while having sex in the virtual kingdom. I'm guessing that you either let your mind wander during that particular moment.. or you don't.

 

[BrokenRomantic]

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

This is an interesting question. I have a feeling that gender might be the defining mark in the sand. I imagine that more women would be the ones to fantasize of a LIT partner while being with someone in real life, while men would go the other way. Men are stimulated by visuals. I don't think it would be easy for men to imagine a LIT partner during a RL encounter. Think of a different RL partner? That's probably a lot easier to do. This just seems to make practical sense to me.

I also think it's more likely that women would engage in cyber encounters, due to lack of real life satisfaction from their RL partner, than men do. I may be stereotyping a bit and I apologize for that. I'm also not saying every woman does that or that every woman even has erotic cyber encounters. Everyone is here for different reasons and acts based on their own needs. I assume men just seem more likely to have cyber encounters when there's none to have in real life or they've got an erection. When in Rome, right? In this respect, it makes sense that more women would imagine a LIT partner during a real life encounter.

Would someone imagine a real life partner during a cyber encounter? I'm sure it's happened. I'm also sure that discussion of real life encounters is probably the leading cause of cyber encounters.

There's my two cents for the day.

 

[dutchrain]

Slips into a quiet Sunday morning. Hoping that you all were able to get the orgasm you wanted yesterday

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

I had fantasies about Sean Connery while I had sex with a real life partner sometimes long before there was a thing called the internet.

 

[Bitesback]

Sorry for such a lengthy catch-up.... I keep missing the juicy bits!

...... what have you changed in your RL as a direct result of being at Lit? Are you more open sexually, do you listen for innuendo more, are you more confident? Or are just the same perverted person you always have been?

Still the same perverted person, yes. I've always been 'open' but, since coming here, I'm more attune to what I want, and what I can perhaps do about that. I flirt much more here than in real life which doesn't afford many safe opportunities. However, I was approached by a young man in a pub today, who is more than twenty years younger. I'm not sure I would have sustained that flirtatious exchange for as long six months ago, I'd have been more dismissive because of his youth.

...******* orgasms, 2 parter. First, did you ever think that you could have online orgasms that were as intense as RL fucking? Second part, if you had but one orgasm to give, would you be with your favorite online partner experiencing the nirvana of online bliss, or would hold out for a 50/50 chance of RL sex with someone you've been wanting to fuck for a very long time?

I would never have expected an online orgasm to be as intense as actual sex. I think I have been fortunate to have had a couple of astronomically intense online orgasms that I consider to have been more intense than any in my real life. The chemistry between us, if such a thing could be said to exist between people online, at those times was mutually recognised to have been extraordinary.
The second part is more challenging to answer. Given that my usual chances are pretty slim, 50/50 sounds like odds too great to pass up. However, I'd quite like to experience those astronomical online orgasms again.....with him.

........Take care of the relationships you have, take care of those who are there for you. Chasing a dream can be thrilling and exciting, but not at the expense of those who are with you every day.

Once, someone, not from here, excitedly told me he'd turned down his wife so we could have online fun. While flattering, I couldn't help thinking that he had his priorities wrong.

Hey! No ignoring the constraints of the question. It's the limits that make it interesting.....

Few here could ignore constraints, disregard, maybe...but not ignore
And, yes, the limits do make it interesting.

.........I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

You can wonder all you like, but I suspect few will admit to it. I'm curious about the effect of thinking of other Litsters during sex with a RL partner. If you have, was it a pleasant distraction, an extension of the fantasy or did it genuinely enhance the experience?

 

[Endless_Night]

Slips into a quiet Sunday morning. Hoping that you all were able to get the orgasm you wanted yesterday

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

This question led me off on a mental tangent. Don’t they all.

I actually do fantasize during sex more often than not, though it tends to be situational rather than individual oriented, though the latter does happen occasionally. My real life sexual experience has been vanilla. My actual sexual tastes run to kinky. Kink that I’ve had a hard time being open about. So, I’ve almost alway engaged in some type of situational fantasy to get excited enough to reach orgasm.

Is that odd?

Possibly not ideal, at the very least. Definitely something that needs to change. Perhaps an early New Year’s resolution is in order?

Less vanilla, more kink!

 

[dutchrain]

This question led me off on a mental tangent. Don’t they all.

I actually do fantasize during sex more often than not, though it tends to be situational rather than individual oriented, though the latter does happen occasionally. My real life sexual experience has been vanilla. My actual sexual tastes run to kinky. Kink that I’ve had a hard time being open about. So, I’ve almost alway engaged in some type of situational fantasy to get excited enough to reach orgasm.

Is that odd?

Possibly not ideal, at the very least. Definitely something that needs to change. Perhaps an early New Year’s resolution is in order?

Less vanilla, more kink!

I knew I missed to mention something in my answer. You differentiating between situational and individual orientation of the fantasies pointed it out to me.

As I said before, I fantasized about other men during sex with an RL partner a long time before the internet gave me the possibility to explore my wants, and it almost always was more about what those men would do rather than who they were and/or how they looked.

 

[All_4_Love]

So, I’ve almost alway engaged in some type of situational fantasy to get excited enough to reach orgasm.

Is that odd?

I don't need to fantasize to reach orgasm. Orgasm is very much a physical thing for me. I don't have to be there mentally to get there physically. But, to close my eyes during vanilla sex and fantasize about kinky sex... nothing odd about that at all.

 

[Endless_Night]

I knew I missed to mention something in my answer. You differentiating between situational and individual orientation of the fantasies pointed it out to me.

As I said before, I fantasized about other men during sex with an RL partner a long time before the internet gave me the possibility to explore my wants, and it almost always was more about what those men would do rather than who they were and/or how they looked.

Exactly! If I do fantasize about another partner, their behavior is the integral part of the experience.

Why is that so difficult to move to real life, do you think? For me it's quite the hurdle, yet I have nothing to hold me back from achieving my desire. Could it be fear the reality won't hold up to the fantasy? Or that I won't be able to hold up my end? Or could it just be that it's my nature to overthink and make things difficult?

*sigh* Nobody answer that last part, please.

 

[All_4_Love]

Exactly! If I do fantasize about another partner, their behavior is the integral part of the experience.

Why is that so difficult to move to real life, do you think? For me it's quite the hurdle, yet I have nothing to hold me back from achieving my desire. Could it be fear the reality won't hold up to the fantasy? Or that I won't be able to hold up my end? Or could it just be that it's my nature to overthink and make things difficult?

*sigh* Nobody answer that last part, please.

EN, you do seem pretty apprehensive about your kink. But, I'm confused when you say, why is that so difficult to move to real life. Why is what so difficult?

 

[pfflyerhot]

I'm curious, and you certainly don't have to incriminate yourself, but I wonder what percentage of the people here think about other Litsters while having sex with a RL partner? My hunch is at least 50%.

Ha ha ha ha ha. I laugh, not at you ChainedUp, nor the question... I laugh uncomfortably at myself.
I think about other Litsters when I pleasure myself, but ...what's this having sex with a RL partner you mention? I think if I ever have real live sex with a real life person again, I'll just be thinking, "Whoa. I'm having sex" or something like that.

 

[All_4_Love]

Ha ha ha ha ha. I laugh, not at you ChainedUp, nor the question... I laugh uncomfortably at myself.
I think about other Litsters when I pleasure myself, but ...what's this having sex with a RL partner you mention? I think if I ever have real live sex with a real life person again, I'll just be thinking, "Whoa. I'm having sex" or something like that.

If it has been that long, and you ever have sex with a real-life person again, I am almost certain that your thoughts are going to be much, much dirtier than "whoa, I'm having sex"... just sayin'

There is no substitute for real-life sex, although I can't say I have ever experienced cybering, I would hold out for the real life any day. There is nothing, in my opinion, that could even compare to touching another and feeling another's touch...nothing.