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[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Sunday morn, Sunday porn. That's a thing, right?

I assume that 100% of people here have watched porn, and that a very large percentage watch it with regularity. Even though the women are too beautiful, then men too well hung, the orgasms too fake. But yet when we watch we always put ourselves there, wanting to be in that scene, that moment. There's something about porn sex that we all want.

So, if all of us watch porn, most of us put ourselves into the scenes, why arent our sex lives more like that of porn? Or do we just like the fantasy?

Well I love watching porn, when in the mood... and yes, I love bad movies as well, so maybe there is a connection there But I am having a tough time with this question, because I don't insert myself in the scene. As someone who draws, I go to art museums. But my home doesn't resemble an art museum, and I don't come home and draw exactly what I have seen. The images do, however, feed my creative machine. I think that is how porn works for me, rather like a Rembrandt inspires the artistic

 

[Endless_Night]

< Can I put myself into *those* scenes? I'd like to....but it's the getting myself in that situation to ask for it that's the complicated bit. >

This ^. Though whether the situation or the asking part is more difficult is something of a conundrum.

 

[SmileyGirl]

Sunday morn, Sunday porn. That's a thing, right?

I assume that 100% of people here have watched porn, and that a very large percentage watch it with regularity. Even though the women are too beautiful, then men too well hung, the orgasms too fake. But yet when we watch we always put ourselves there, wanting to be in that scene, that moment. There's something about porn sex that we all want.

So, if all of us watch porn, most of us put ourselves into the scenes, why arent our sex lives more like that of porn? Or do we just like the fantasy?

I watch randomly, not regularly. I want to gag most of the women the whole fake moans and "oh yuh yuh" drives me nuts I want to slap them. There are some actors that make it good but I never put myself there or want it to be me. I think it makes my imagination run wild and puts ideas in my head, creativity, whatever you want to call it

 

[dutchrain]

Sunday morn, Sunday porn. That's a thing, right?

I assume that 100% of people here have watched porn, and that a very large percentage watch it with regularity. Even though the women are too beautiful, then men too well hung, the orgasms too fake. But yet when we watch we always put ourselves there, wanting to be in that scene, that moment. There's something about porn sex that we all want.

So, if all of us watch porn, most of us put ourselves into the scenes, why arent our sex lives more like that of porn? Or do we just like the fantasy?

I do watch porn, mostly the clips people link here though. A whole porn movie is too much (of a bad thing) often. The clips are just right, the best bits of whole movies I think. I do like so-called fan-porn. It makes me giggle and sometimes laugh out loud.

Sometimes I see myself in scenes, when the activity shown is especially alluring to me.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I watch randomly, not regularly. I want to gag most of the women the whole fake moans and "oh yuh yuh" drives me nuts I want to slap them. There are some actors that make it good but I never put myself there or want it to be me. I think it makes my imagination run wild and puts ideas in my head, creativity, whatever you want to call it

I have to admit, the fake, incessant moaning gets on my nerves... I realize it is an aural enticement for the guy, but STF up already or at least change it up a little!!

 

[ChainedUp]

Sidebar topic. If porn moaning is over the top, at what level should real moaning be? I realize no matter the level it should be natural. But what's worse, repressed silence or over exuberant moaning?

 

[Endless_Night]

I have to admit, the fake, incessant moaning gets on my nerves... I realize it is an aural enticement for the guy, but STF up already or at least change it up a little!!

Well crap! I'm a moaner. Now I'm going to be even more self conscious....

Oh, wait! I just need to make sure and not have sex with Collar!

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Sidebar topic. If porn moaning is over the top, at what level should real moaning be? I realize no matter the level it should be natural. But what's worse, repressed silence or over exuberant moaning?

No "correct" level, you're right. It should just be natural, which could be different for everybody, and every couple dynamic. Even given the fact that I complained, I would still vote for repression being worse than exuberance (unless somebody was in the next room that I didn't want to hear me ).

Well crap! I'm a moaner. Now I'm going to be even more self conscious....

Oh, wait! I just need to make sure and not have sex with Collar!

We're good again, I just worked through it all

 

[Endless_Night]

We're good again, I just worked through it all

Now cut that out!

 

[Mindfondler]

Sidebar topic. If porn moaning is over the top, at what level should real moaning be? I realize no matter the level it should be natural. But what's worse, repressed silence or over exuberant moaning?

It's not any issue of level; it's purely a question of authenticity. I'd regard repression as "worse" (although I'm uncomfortable with that adjective), in the sense that I'd rather see my partner attempting to express their feelings rather than hold them back.

My wife is shy about allowing her moans to escape, and one of the ways that we're working through that is for me to encourage her to exaggerate them deliberately (even though that makes us both giggle!) just to get her comfortable with the idea of being louder.

Well crap! I'm a moaner. Now I'm going to be even more self conscious....

No... go for it! It's what I'd want to hear.
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[Endless_Night]

No... go for it! It's what I'd want to hear.
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Good to know there's somebody who won't shun noisy chicks!

 

[Miasorrow]

If I had to choose I would go for loud instead of silence but suppressed sounds are the best. When you try not to be heard..so much it hurts..

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

lol.... Good thing for you and me both..

I watch porn.. Sometimes to have a visual to go with that first contact, most often, though, for the sounds. I recently read about how typical porn is filmed from angles to capture what essentially amounts to the facial expressions, sounds emitted, and absolute enthrallment of a woman under the sexual spell of a man...

In other words, the filming is not so much about the act, rather it's geared toward tapping into the male brain on a more primal level. That primal level being a man's deep-seeded desire to sexually enrapture his female.

Apparently... This want of being "the one who brings her to wantonness" is such a powerful and universal need in the males of our species, that much of porn is filmed to precisely amplify that fantasy.

I hadn't really paid attention to it before, but you'll notice that rarely are the men's faces the focus.. Its usually the woman and her either.. Hungry..slutty..."please fuck me now because you've overpowered my socially acceptable prudiness and I can't leave without feeling your cock" expression or the "I love you so much.. Do anything you want with me...I accept you for the manly man that you are and your urges are my urges...expression...



There are porn developed for women, but you'll notice a marked difference in the emphasis.


That's not to say that " male porn" isn't a turn on to women, or that "female porn" doesn't turn on a man.

It's just the way our brains or wired.

 

[ChainedUp]

So that's why they always show the woman's face for the money shot!

lol.... Good thing for you and me both..

I watch porn.. Sometimes to have a visual to go with that first contact, most often, though, for the sounds. I recently read about how typical porn is filmed from angles to capture what essentially amounts to the facial expressions, sounds emitted, and absolute enthrallment of a woman under the sexual spell of a man...

In other words, the filming is not so much about the act, rather it's geared toward tapping into the male brain on a more primal level. That primal level being a man's deep-seeded desire to sexually enrapture his female.

Apparently... This want of being "the one who brings her to wantonness" is such a powerful and universal need in the males of our species, that much of porn is filmed to precisely amplify that fantasy.

I hadn't really paid attention to it before, but you'll notice that rarely are the men's faces the focus.. Its usually the woman and her either.. Hungry..slutty..."please fuck me now because you've overpowered my socially acceptable prudiness and I can't leave without feeling your cock" expression or the "I love you so much.. Do anything you want with me...I accept you for the manly man that you are and your urges are my urges...expression...



There are porn developed for women, but you'll notice a marked difference in the emphasis.


That's not to say that " male porn" isn't a turn on to women, or that "female porn" doesn't turn on a man.

It's just the way our brains or wired.

 

[Endless_Night]

So that's why they always show the woman's face for the money shot!

Watch a lot of porn, do you?

 

[Miasorrow]

Well I love watching porn, when in the mood... and yes, I love bad movies as well, so maybe there is a connection there But I am having a tough time with this question, because I don't insert myself in the scene. As someone who draws, I go to art museums. But my home doesn't resemble an art museum, and I don't come home and draw exactly what I have seen. The images do, however, feed my creative machine. I think that is how porn works for me, rather like a Rembrandt inspires the artistic

Now to the main topic. (Chained you are an expert at side tracking )

I so much relate to Collar_N_Cuffs about not inserting myself into the scene. I do not even use porn for inspiration. I think I am the watcher type. I watch porn (not just sex scenes, mostly certain focused scenarios..like men masturbating or other big boobs being sucked, lesbians or gay men) as I would secretly stare through a keyhole .. Also I pay close attention to sounds, moaning and the true arousal.
(I cannot believe I just typed all that).

 

[Suz_anne]

I like porn, but primarily amateur porn. I love the imperfect bodies, the messy room, the real positions that people get themselves into to get off as opposed to the best camera angle. I love the moaning, the lip biting, the cuddlefucking, the reveal of a cute little butt plug that you didn't realize was there, the jiggly bits, the things that real people say to each other when they fuck... I love all of that.

It is really difficult to achieve that kind of authenticity with professional porn. But I do watch professional porn on occasion and when I do, it tends to be vintage (70's or early 80's). I love that they actually had story lines, however cheesy.

 

[SmileyGirl]

Sidebar topic. If porn moaning is over the top, at what level should real moaning be? I realize no matter the level it should be natural. But what's worse, repressed silence or over exuberant moaning?

It's nothing to do with the level. I was talking about the fake "yuh yuh" ugghhh I can't stand it. Plus I quite like actually being able to hear the guy

I think you should express yourself how you wish as long as it's authentic and natural. If you moan, moan like you mean it

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

It's nothing to do with the level. I was talking about the fake "yuh yuh" ugghhh I can't stand it. Plus I quite like actually being able to hear the guy

I think you should express yourself how you wish as long as it's authentic and natural. If you moan, moan like you mean it

<========moans like she means it...

 

[Aquagal]

Cum oozing out of a twat after he shot his load should be the new money shot.

 

[dutchrain]

Sidebar topic. If porn moaning is over the top, at what level should real moaning be? I realize no matter the level it should be natural. But what's worse, repressed silence or over exuberant moaning?

Fake moaning is awful.
It doesn't matter how our it is, it is just off-putting to me, that is why I love the clips here, there is no sound!

I like porn, but primarily amateur porn. I love the imperfect bodies, the messy room, the real positions that people get themselves into to get off as opposed to the best camera angle. I love the moaning, the lip biting, the cuddlefucking, the reveal of a cute little butt plug that you didn't realize was there, the jiggly bits, the things that real people say to each other when they fuck... I love all of that.

It is really difficult to achieve that kind of authenticity with professional porn. But I do watch professional porn on occasion and when I do, it tends to be vintage (70's or early 80's). I love that they actually had story lines, however cheesy.

Yes! The glamour and the fantastic story-lines in '70 and 80' porn is wonderful! The actors really try to act often too!

It's nothing to do with the level. I was talking about the fake "yuh yuh" ugghhh I can't stand it. Plus I quite like actually being able to hear the guy

I think you should express yourself how you wish as long as it's authentic and natural. If you moan, moan like you mean it

I want to hear the guy too, his sounds are more arousing to me than those of the females.

Yes: moan only if you feel the need, and then do it in whatever way you feel the need to do it.

 

[SmileyGirl]

<========moans like she means it...

Hell yeahhhh Nothing wrong with being vocal

 

[ChainedUp]

Show me the money! (Somebody had to say it )

Cum oozing out of a twat after he shot his load should be the new money shot.

 

[SmileyGirl]

Show me the money! (Somebody had to say it )

http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lyfgp9nvdp1qb9pa3o1_500.gif

 

[ChainedUp]

And here I expected you'd post AG's money shot.