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[Little_Sister]

I am pretty sure we could take him May

 

[Lord Pmann]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

 

[Lord Pmann]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

Wow, interim thread leader, what am engaging and thought provoking question. You truly are magnificent.

Here's my answer:

Ultimately it doesn't matter to me. If I like a person, the number of people that they fucked is of no consequence. Perhaps I don't want a list of all of their names and I may not want to have tea with them, but it's not important to me. If I love someone I love them for who they are. Past experiences- good, bad or indifferent- make us who we are.

I've only had sex with one person, so I can't really say I have regrets that way.

 

[Little_Sister]

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

You're gonna get in trouble!! You're gonna get a spankin' and we are all gonna watch!! hehe

If I were starting a relationship now, at my age, it doesn't matter and I would prefer someone with a good bit of experience. Actually then maybe it does matter... I would not feel comfortable dating a 35 yr old virgin but I would feel comfortable dating a 35 yr old who has been with 35 women.

When I met my husband it was a huge deal. Had he been the town whore, I would not have dated him. I was dumb. Really dumb. lol

 

[BradBigBrain]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

Nope. Nope. Nope. And Nope.

I'm not the jellus type. Thankfully, neither is Gracie.

 

[Arianthe]

I think everyone on Lit is kinky.

I dunno... Once upon a time, I had a Litster refuse to talk to me at all because, he said, I'm "too hardcore" for him. This was the day after very my first BDSM play party, at which I remained fully (and modestly) dressed and didn't play with anyone!

 

[dutchrain]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

It would matter in a way. I would want to know if there is a history of STDs. (And darn, I do hope my offspring got that lesson imprinted!) I was old enough to start to have fun in the lucky time when AIDS was not a problem, but only a little while later those placative government adds -a girl meeting a guy, they kiss and suddenly shadowy figures appear behind them, and bold letters stating "If you have sex with someone, you are also having sex with all their previous partners"- scared the shit out off me.

Nope. There have been good and bad experiences in the distance and all made me wiser.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

I guess it really depends on the circumstances and the chemistry I'm feeling with that person. I definitely consider myself experienced. I've been with some people, had some plentifully great times and/or relationships and regret little of it. I don't really care much about their past, just where they're at now. I try to be cool and open minded and I'm interested in people that are also cool and open-minded.

I'll lose interest if it's clear they make a habit of banging around indiscriminately, though. Like if I'm just another dick, then forget it. Also it's a safety issue. I'd like to continue to be disease-free.

But if we're on the same page it's actually a lot of fun introducing each other to new things and/or sharing stories and experiences. When you keep an open mind there's a whole lot of fun to be had. If it's safe, consensual and honest? Fuck it, go nuts.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Like if I'm just another dick, then forget it. Also it's a safety issue. I'd like to continue to be disease-free.

Only those Magnum XXLs need to be ribbed for her pleasure, AMIRIGHT? No dick bumpies!!!

 

[Wide_eyed_Indulgence]

Since Chained is all tied up (see what I did there with that clever play on words?), I'll self appoint myself as thread king and make you all my serfs. Until the boss gets back, that is.

Anywho, I'll ask this question that I wanna know. I'll answer it too, I like that evasive Chain!!!

Here is the question:

Sexual history... Does it matter? Does the number of people or the actual people with whom your partner has bumped uglies (or pretties) matter to you? Do you care? How about for yourself? Does it bother you who or how many people you've forked?

Dear Thread King --

Good question. Like some others have mentioned, I think it is important to ensure that your partner is disease-free and some historical information is helpful in that regard. I like a man to be experienced, but I don't want too many details. I have some little jealous bones in my body and I don't want them poking out too much.
I believe that what happened before me is part of what made him attractive to me, but we Scorpios can get competitive which isn't always pretty.

As for my history, I would tell anything to make a guy comfortable health-wise for sure. And my past isn't so wild and crazy that it would make a guy creeped out, but then again, I might not be wild enough for some if they are measuring that by number of partners. I have had enough to indicate I am desirable and interesting; and few enough to indicate I am healthy and balanced.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have some little jealous bones in my body and I don't want them poking out too much.

Those are jelly boners. And if you're really jealous, super jelly boners.

 

[ChainedUp]

Anointing yourself thread King is like giving yourself your own nickname, it just shouldn't be done.

As far as answering the imitators question, sure why not.

It doesn't make a difference how many partners you've had. What makes the difference is what you've done with them. A lot of the Nella partner experience results and you been very good at vanilla sex. But having to do you were partners that continually test your boundaries take you to new limits, make you reached greater heights, those are things that are really really important.

 

[SweetSam42]

Well, I myself have had very few partners, and, looking back, should have had a little more fun in my late teens and 20s. Bygones.

It's been almost 2 decades since I've had a new partner, but were I to do it now, I'd like an experienced partner (wouldn't be tricky to find someone with more past partners than me). I do get a little jealous, so wouldn't need to hear all past escapades, but as long as they prove they're into me at the moment, and can bring forward the tricks of the trade they've learned along the way, it's a win-win.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Anointing yourself thread King is like giving yourself your own nickname, it just shouldn't be done.

Well then my thread overlord, what will thou have us do whilst thou art chained up in thy sex dungeon? Shall we wait around with our peasant thumbs up our arses? Shall ye anoint another thread king? What then, overlord?!?

 

[Bitesback]

As far as answering the imitators question, sure why not.

There, now. That wasn't too bad, was it? And we can ignore the typos if you'll post again.

Thank you.

(Breathes a sigh of relief. Pulls head back in, heeds May-I-Please's warning.)

 

[ChainedUp]

Strolls in, surveying the place. Maybe it's time for a remodel, although the homey feel is nice, it does get a bit cramped in here when there's lots going on.

What change have you made since you started posting at Lit? I suspect we are all more selective in what, how and to whom we post. Was it a conscious decision or is it evolution?

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Only those Magnum XXLs need to be ribbed for her pleasure, AMIRIGHT? No dick bumpies!!!

EXACTLY! OHHHH!

And the thing is the numbers doesn't matter, it's the experience you get from them.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Strolls in, surveying the place. Maybe it's time for a remodel, although the homey feel is nice, it does get a bit cramped in here when there's lots going on.

What change have you made since you started posting at Lit? I suspect we are all more selective in what, how and to whom we post. Was it a conscious decision or is it evolution?

I interact with people more and don't just look at the boobs gifs. That's about it really. Lol

 

[Lord Pmann]

What change have you made since you started posting at Lit? I suspect we are all more selective in what, how and to whom we post. Was it a conscious decision or is it evolution?

I used to post all over the place and talk to a lot of people. These days my posts are confined to a few threads only. And my conversations are limited to a handful of people. It might be more if there is a particular thread going on. But my time here today is for a very different reason than when I first came here.

I would say that mine was more a conscious decision than an evolution. But I suppose it would be a hybrid of the two.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

What change have you made since you started posting at Lit? I suspect we are all more selective in what, how and to whom we post. Was it a conscious decision or is it evolution?

I still like the "game" side of threads and will play when I have time. Mostly, I'm more likely to engage in (or follow) a couple of threads than I used to be. I have gotten to the point where I would rather check in for ten minutes to see if there is any growth in something I'm following than sit here for an hour and wait for something to happen.
evolution.. decision.. a little of both.

 

[BradBigBrain]

Strolls in, surveying the place. Maybe it's time for a remodel, although the homey feel is nice, it does get a bit cramped in here when there's lots going on.

What change have you made since you started posting at Lit? I suspect we are all more selective in what, how and to whom we post. Was it a conscious decision or is it evolution?

I used to play more games, I think. And I used to have a game thread (the Separation thread). Those have mostly died down, especially if they take any time. I've kinda cut my time back because I don't have a lot of time to spare, so I just hit a few threads.

Most of the people I started here with are not hear anymore and a lot of them had their own vanity threads. I don't hit AmPic as much as I used to. Just a few threads there, too.

 

[SweetSam42]

I'm now REALLY selective about who I invite to IM. I used to be more carefree about it, but a stalker situation made me delete just about everyone. And I find chatting to be quite intimate, and I just don't feel comfortable opening myself up like that anymore. (Rule #1 of using an IM app: Figure out how to block people.)

I have talked to the same (very) few people for ages now, and it pretty much stays that way. I now have a very lengthy vetting process, and I usually just don't bother with anyone new anymore.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

I'm now REALLY selective about who I invite to IM. I used to be more carefree about it, but a stalker situation made me delete just about everyone. And I find chatting to be quite intimate, and I just don't feel comfortable opening myself up like that anymore. (Rule #1 of using an IM app: Figure out how to block people.)

I have talked to the same (very) few people for ages now, and it pretty much stays that way. I now have a very lengthy vetting process, and I usually just don't bother with anyone new anymore.

I'm the same way, actually. Like I have a select few friends that have always been around forever, and people on the boards I like bullshit ting with. But for new people, if we PM or IM there's a vetting process to prove you're VIP worthy. I've just had one too many bad experiences. And that scared me off the boards for awhile.

 

[SmileyGirl]

I'm the same way, actually. Like I have a select few friends that have always been around forever, and people on the boards I like bullshit ting with. But for new people, if we PM or IM there's a vetting process to prove you're VIP worthy. I've just had one too many bad experiences. And that scared me off the boards for awhile.

Oooooo I'm a VIP

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Oooooo I'm a VIP

Well, MAYBE you are