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[BradBigBrain]

Im suga r and spice amd all things nice

I. Also wasted hehe

Yay!! Time for nekkid pix!!

 

[greyjim]

Yay!! Time for nekkid pix!!

Behave.....

 

[SmileyGirl]

Yay!! Time for nekkid pix!!

Im drunk not sgupid

 

[greyjim]

Im drunk not sgupid

Smart lady...

 

[JoyDyan]

Finally, it's Friday. It's been an interesting week around these parts which by all accounts is better than boring. Nothing worse than meeting someone that appears to be interesting only to find out they're quite the bore. My hunch is that many Litsters try and elevate themselves away from their more boring RL. Which makes some sense to me. I'd say it's true for me, too until I look back at my posts and realize they tend to be rather pedestrian. Maybe I need to spice things up......do you?

I'm exactly who I am here as in RL...I suppose if you don't like me here, you probably wouldn't be thrilled to know me anywhere else.

So no..I won't be spicing anything up lol

 

[ChainedUp]

And for the record maybe some of us play nicer in front of the doors than behind them

 

[GiggLeGasm]

And for the record maybe some of us play nicer in front of the doors than behind them

leave the door cracked a little.. we'll let you know

 

[JoyDyan]

And for the record maybe some of us play nicer in front of the doors than behind them

What have you heard??

*squints*

 

[ChainedUp]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

 

[PanamaJaxxx]

Wait...people play behind the doors? Who knew!

 

[ChainedUp]

What have you heard??

*squints*

Maybe it's what I've seen (you may wants close the shades a little tighter)

 

[ChainedUp]

Wait...people play behind the doors? Who knew!

Some may in front, those naughty minx

 

[Miles Long]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

I think it's the fact that I don't have to wear pants. Local establishments in my city are really fucking prudish about that sort of thing.

 

[JoyDyan]

Maybe it's what I've seen (you may wants close the shades a little tighter)

Where's the fun in that??

 

[ChainedUp]

Where's the fun in that??

Certainly not as much fun as getting caught watching

 

[Paul_Chance]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

For me, it is a combination of the above. It is a relatively anonymous site, so there is freedom of expression there that can be difficult to find in other venues. It's definitely the good people, and there are a lot of them. Sex does play a role (though, as you say, sex sites are pretty common). Though there are exceptions, I find the ratio of judgmental people is fairly low, which is nice. Finally, at least for me, there is the chance to meet and engage with people I would otherwise never meet, in a venue that allows them to be open about who they are, if they choose to take advantage of it. Finally, there is the sex - that is the ability discuss sex openly, which is, frankly, not common IRL. A lot of factors bring me back - oh, and I forgot to mention the stories. It was the stories that brought me here and when the boards are quiet - then I can browse the stories at will. A nice constellation of things.

 

[shmily]

Interesting reading here tonight. Sure do miss my computer and being on daily to stay up on the current events.

 

[dutchrain]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

For me, it is a combination of the above. It is a relatively anonymous site, so there is freedom of expression there that can be difficult to find in other venues. It's definitely the good people, and there are a lot of them. Sex does play a role (though, as you say, sex sites are pretty common). Though there are exceptions, I find the ratio of judgmental people is fairly low, which is nice. Finally, at least for me, there is the chance to meet and engage with people I would otherwise never meet, in a venue that allows them to be open about who they are, if they choose to take advantage of it. Finally, there is the sex - that is the ability discuss sex openly, which is, frankly, not common IRL. A lot of factors bring me back - oh, and I forgot to mention the stories. It was the stories that brought me here and when the boards are quiet - then I can browse the stories at will. A nice constellation of things.

Paul took the words out off my fingers.

 

[ChainedUp]

Good morning Litiquette-izans. Hopefully you have the perfect Saturday ahead. Or any day for that matter. If you could make a lit wish come true, what would you wish for your fellow Litsters. How would you make time spent here even better?

 

[SweetSam42]

Good morning Litiquette-izans. Hopefully you have the perfect Saturday ahead. Or any day for that matter. If you could make a lit wish come true, what would you wish for your fellow Litsters. How would you make time spent here even better?

I just read 2 posts by different people about marriages they felt "trapped" in. The way they described the marriages was, frankly, heartbreaking.

I know that many (most?) of us on here aren't fully happy in our relationships, so my wish for my fellow Litsters is for the courage to make positive changes in their lives, whatever those changes may be. I realize there are 100s of different situations and circumstances for people here, and that there are a near-infinite number of reasons people stay in unhealthy relationships, but I refuse to believe that we are incapable to effect changes to at least make life a bit more bearable. Life's short. Let's try to make the best of it.

That's my heavy Saturday morning response. And I have a lovely beach day planned with my daughter today - a perfect Saturday indeed.

 

[BradBigBrain]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

I got here from another wacky site called fucked company and my own forum. Both of those kinda died for me. I like the on-line interaction with a bunch of folks especially the flirty kind. It also provided an outlet for my stories when I decide to write.

People still judge and have expectations, though, so that's not it, to me.

And I've made some pretty good friends here, so there's the keeping up with what they're doing.

That and FakeASmile's drunken nekkid pictures that she sends to me, then forgets about sending them cuz she was wasted.

 

[BradBigBrain]

Good morning Litiquette-izans. Hopefully you have the perfect Saturday ahead. Or any day for that matter. If you could make a lit wish come true, what would you wish for your fellow Litsters. How would you make time spent here even better?

I'd wish for them Whirled peas.

http://www.cruisersforum.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=15781&d=1272728407

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I got here from another wacky site called fucked company and my own forum. Both of those kinda died for me. I like the on-line interaction with a bunch of folks especially the flirty kind. It also provided an outlet for my stories when I decide to write.

People still judge and have expectations, though, so that's not it, to me.

And I've made some pretty good friends here, so there's the keeping up with what they're doing.

That and FakeASmile's drunken nekkid pictures that she sends to me, then forgets about sending them cuz she was wasted.

*pouts*

How comes I didn't get any drunk nakkie pics from YOU????


On topic ( I know, shocking.. )
I really am "me" here and IRL. It gets me into trouble, simply because I don't "fit into the socially acceptable box", so to speak. I push my boundaries (OK.. I push everyone's boundaries)... both here and IRL. My sexuality has evolved a bit since embarking on "The Great RA Self-Love Project"

As for the Saturday topic.. I can echo SweetSam a little. Everyone's circumstances are different. For me, my choice was infinitely better than the alternative. I understand, however why some choose to force a continuation of a relationship. The key is to really think about all the consequences prior to making any decisions. My opinion is moot, but offered up if anyone wants to ask.

I do not think my thoughts on certain things makes me judgemental, rather I'm mindful of what I've experienced, and I am aware of which lines I won't cross. I can have a "to each there own" attitude and still disagree .. Doesn't make me judgmental... Just means I don't agree with you.

 

[Thandi]

Time for a Friday night topic. We all have a Lit addiction, you can try and deny it if you want but we love our time here. What about this place is so addicting? I don't think it's necessarily the people, as people do come and go (clearly they have a stronger hold on their addiction), I don't think it's the sex, as sex sites are fairly common. What I think it is, is Lit provides us the freedom to be what we really want to be. Without judgement or expectations. Am I right or are there other reasons...

BINGO!

Good morning Litiquette-izans. Hopefully you have the perfect Saturday ahead. Or any day for that matter. If you could make a lit wish come true, what would you wish for your fellow Litsters. How would you make time spent here even better?

I wish there wouldn't be such schoolyard antics at times, but there is in RL as well I suppose. I haven't been around for a bit, so I don't know if there's any drama being played out. Hurt feelings are never nice.

 

[Paul_Chance]

BINGO!




I wish there wouldn't be such schoolyard antics at times, but there is in RL as well I suppose. I haven't been around for a bit, so I don't know if there's any drama being played out. Hurt feelings are never nice.

I haven't noticed any drama lately, but I was considering doing Shakespeare on Ice...in my electric blue leotard.