Litiquette

[ChainedUp]

Seems like a veiled attempt at a free for all. Motion denied

 

[sereneone4u]

Seems like a veiled attempt at a free for all. Motion denied

Have you been here the last two days?

Hope you had a good weekend, CU.

 

[KalIsBack]

Seems like a veiled attempt at a free for all. Motion denied

Not at all. I've got self-restraint.

I'm curious. It's the scientist in me. I'm almost down to make a thread for it, if it wouldn't die.

*waving thought away*

At any rate. Litiquette question: What do you do when you have a benign stalker? One of those awkward folk that are always nice and pleasant, but always just a little bit off centre? Post-stalker, constant PM'er. How do you deal with that?

 

[wyshes]

Seems like a veiled attempt at a free for all. Motion denied

Fuddy Duddy

 

[jack80]

I can so see Chained_up in a black robe and gavel in hand....

 

[wyshes]

I can so see Chained_up in a black robe and gavel in hand....

*smacks jack* get it out of my head

 

[NotHisLady]

Self restraint is no fun at all!!
That's a game for two at least, don't you think?

As for what to do if someone hangs about rather more than you'd like, my mother always said to be polite.

 

[KalIsBack]

Self restraint is no fun at all!!
That's a game for two at least, don't you think?

As for what to do if someone hangs about rather more than you'd like, my mother always said to be polite.

Self-restraint can be fun when you finally let go.

Always. but doesn't it tend to be a little awkward?

 

[NotHisLady]

Self-restraint can be fun when you finally let go.

Always. but doesn't it tend to be a little awkward?

Maybe but it's a "do unto others" situations isn't it? Plus there's this to consider--what if NOBODY were hanging around, wanted or unwanted?
There's a world of difference between encouraging someone and just being nice. How would you want someone to respond to you if they sort of didn't want as much attention as you were giving?

There are times this place reminds me of the worst parts of high school--the cliques and the cool kids and finding a place to sit at lunch. That may be why I so often disappear for months on end, I just get tired of all that. There's a lot of good stuff too though, and a lot of really good people. Sometimes that stuff is really difficult to find through all the BS but it is there.

 

[sereneone4u]

Maybe but it's a "do unto others" situations isn't it? Plus there's this to consider--what if NOBODY were hanging around, wanted or unwanted?
There's a world of difference between encouraging someone and just being nice. How would you want someone to respond to you if they sort of didn't want as much attention as you were giving?

There are times this place reminds me of the worst parts of high school--the cliques and the cool kids and finding a place to sit at lunch. That may be why I so often disappear for months on end, I just get tired of all that. There's a lot of good stuff too though, and a lot of really good people. Sometimes that stuff is really difficult to find through all the BS but it is there.

Isn't that the truth?

It is good to take breaks from Lit. I do. Sometimes long ones.

 

[KalIsBack]

I sat by myself at lunch. Clique-less.

You see it everywhere.

But for the record, I kind of like those people. They're always the most fun to talk to.

 

[mamasota]

Maybe but it's a "do unto others" situations isn't it? Plus there's this to consider--what if NOBODY were hanging around, wanted or unwanted?
There's a world of difference between encouraging someone and just being nice. How would you want someone to respond to you if they sort of didn't want as much attention as you were giving?

There are times this place reminds me of the worst parts of high school--the cliques and the cool kids and finding a place to sit at lunch. That may be why I so often disappear for months on end, I just get tired of all that. There's a lot of good stuff too though, and a lot of really good people. Sometimes that stuff is really difficult to find through all the BS but it is there.

*You took the words right out of my mouth
Thanks for voicing what I feel, I could not express it as well as you just did, and making so much sense of it all.
But I also feel some people are just not honest with their approach or about the sort of "friendship" they really want, and others are very good at leading astray, playing the sort of mind games that can result in creating havoc with peoples' hearts and minds, from words that can be a double-edged sword, and some are quite skilled at wielding it.

You are a gem, NotHisLady

 

[sereneone4u]

*You took the words right out of my mouth
Thanks for voicing what I feel, I could not express it as well as you just did, and making so much sense of it all.
But I also feel some people are just not honest with their approach or about the sort of "friendship" they really want, and others are very good at leading astray, playing the sort of mind games that can result in creating havoc with peoples' hearts and minds, from words that can be a double-edged sword, and some are quite skilled at wielding it.

You are a gem, NotHisLady

And so are you, Mama.

I LOVE your AV.

 

[NotHisLady]

I sat by myself at lunch. Clique-less.

You see it everywhere.

But for the record, I kind of like those people. They're always the most fun to talk to.

confession time--
I was in the marching band (if you dare tell ONE SOUL!! ) LOL
I remember hearing someone say that "these are the best years of your life" when I was in high school. I pity anyone that's really true for.

 

[mamasota]

I can so see Chained_up in a black robe and gavel in hand....

What is this reading of the minds over here

Just please tell me he's either wearing those form-fitting soft almost transparente white boxer briefs, or the buff option one

I saw no reference to the complimenting of OPs or just drooling over fantasías of fellow Litsters, Litiquette, any infractions?

 

[jack80]

What is this reading of the minds over here

Just please tell me he's either wearing those form-fitting soft almost transparente white boxer briefs, or the buff option one

I saw no reference to the complimenting of OPs or just drooling over fantasías of fellow Litsters, Litiquette, any infractions?

I don't think Wyshs wants us to add more to her tormented mind already.

(But I bet he is naked under that robe.. not a stitch on him!)

 

[wyshes]

I don't think Wyshs wants us to add more to her tormented mind already.

(But I bet he is naked under that robe.. not a stitch on him!)

GET IT OUT !!!

 

[mamasota]

And so are you, Mama.

I LOVE your AV.

And so are we three then, serene linda

TY, just making sure Betty looks good

 

[jack80]

GET IT OUT !!!

I can ... always paddle the nasty thoughts out

 

[mamasota]

I don't think Wyshs wants us to add more to her tormented mind already.

(But I bet he is naked under that robe.. not a stitch on him!)

Wishing Wyshes well


But this enquiring mind wants to know, thanks for that heads up, jacko, good man!

 

[wyshes]

I can ... always paddle the nasty thoughts out

Oh Baby....talk to me !!

 

[Thandi]

At any rate. Litiquette question: What do you do when you have a benign stalker? One of those awkward folk that are always nice and pleasant, but always just a little bit off centre? Post-stalker, constant PM'er. How do you deal with that?

Damn, I knew I shouldn't have sent so many PM's!

 

[Thandi]

There are times this place reminds me of the worst parts of high school--the cliques and the cool kids and finding a place to sit at lunch. That may be why I so often disappear for months on end, I just get tired of all that. There's a lot of good stuff too though, and a lot of really good people. Sometimes that stuff is really difficult to find through all the BS but it is there.

Absolutely! Also why I have left many times....and then return.

 

[ChainedUp]

Have you been here the last two days?

Hope you had a good weekend, CU.

I'm pretty sure that any control I think I have is a not so veiled attempt at living in fantasy-land

 

[ChainedUp]

And I'm not completely naked under the gown.... Socks and ??????