Litiquette VI

[aussiegeekygal]

Fan of Brooks Brothers, eh?

When have I humbelbragged? I brag brag. That’s my style.

Humblebragging is when I accidentally flash my R8 key fob

 

[Lord Pmann]

Humblebragging is when I accidentally flash my R8 key fob

No one would see it with those awful jeggings, though!

I get what a humblebrag is, but I’ve never been accused of humble anything.

 

[85Ironman]

Fan of Brooks Brothers, eh?

When have I humbelbragged? I brag brag. That’s my style.

Brooks Brothers will do in a pinch, I suppose...

And your humblebrag point is well taken, sir.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Humblebragging is when I accidentally flash my R8 key fob

Cars are way more fun than clothes anyway

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Cars are way more fun than clothes anyway

And get you in to way more trouble (sometimes)

 

[SassySheDevil]

And get you in to way more trouble (sometimes)

haha yes. I'd say my clothes rarely get me in trouble. But that's not always true.

 

[Lord Pmann]

According to LegendaryAlt, guys have the upper hand in finding relationships. I can’t see that there is a huge bias one way or the other. I think, for different aspects, each gender has their own advantages.

This got me thinking of Lit hierarchy. I was just talking about this with a friend of mine last week. It is often said at Lit that girls have the upper hand. I think this is partly true. I think girls have the upper hand if they just want to talk and get off with someone. The problem is, these women also have feelings and they are actual people. So most of them aren’t just looking to immediately flash their tits at everyone who walks by.

I think, after you get past the initial “girls can always have a random if they want” stage, guys have the upper hand. You see girls here fighting over the same guy. A lot. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen with guys. But I feel like there are just a few guys that are desired by a lot of the women. Those guys are at the top of the food chain. You see women constantly trying to make sure no one else is getting a piece of their man.

What do you all think? Do you see a hierarchy at Lit? If so, who is on top? Who is having scraps?


Uptown Girl by Billy Joel

https://youtu.be/hCuMWrfXG4E

 

[Lonelywife1205]

According to LegendaryAlt, guys have the upper hand in finding relationships. I can’t see that there is a huge bias one way or the other. I think, for different aspects, each gender has their own advantages.

This got me thinking of Lit hierarchy. I was just talking about this with a friend of mine last week. It is often said at Lit that girls have the upper hand. I think this is partly true. I think girls have the upper hand if they just want to talk and get off with someone. The problem is, these women also have feelings and they are actual people. So most of them aren’t just looking to immediately flash their tits at everyone who walks by.

I think, after you get past the initial “girls can always have a random if they want” stage, guys have the upper hand. You see girls here fighting over the same guy. A lot. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen with guys. But I feel like there are just a few guys that are desired by a lot of the women. Those guys are at the top of the food chain. You see women constantly trying to make sure no one else is getting a piece of their man.

I hat do you all think? Do you see a hierarchy at Lit? If so, who is on top? Who is having scraps?


Uptown Girl by Billy Joel

https://youtu.be/hCuMWrfXG4E

I have no idea who you are talking about. I have no idea who the women are fighting over. Can you give names please?

As for me, most of the men I have had online relationships with, you probably wouldn’t know them. They are mostly randos who messaged me out of the blue...lurkers with fewer than 10 posts.

 

[Trekka]

Women Be Wise...

Women be wise, keep your mouth shut, don't advertise your man
Don't sit around gossiping, explaining what your good man really can do
Some women nowadays, Lord they ain't no good
They will laugh in your face, Then try to steal your man from you
Women be wise, keep your mouth shut, don't advertise your man....

Name names?! Dream on, Pmann.
Lol. *zips lips*

 

[SMNaughtywife]

^^^^ good morning sexy.

There’s always new shinny glitter that makes its appearance. It’s explored from head to toe, one might get a little enamored and drooley for a while.
And after some time, it’s not all that intriguing anymore. The beer goggles were deceiving and ones vetting process was a little off kilter.
Maybe they’re moved down the list or taken off all together.

Is there a hierarchy of the tastiest morsel, the Lit awards would say yes.
Whether you agree with that is a whole another story.

 

[Rapha1979]

I’ve not been engaging on the boards on Lit anywhere near long enough to answer today’s question. So I’m going to sit it out and hopefully pick up some tips on how to make it into this select club of Lit gents who have the ladies falling at their feet!

 

[StacyLeigh]

What do you all think? Do you see a hierarchy at Lit? If so, who is on top? Who is having scraps?

Sure there is a hierarchy, but who is part of it depends on your point of view and what you come here for.

I'm a bit like LW in that I tend to shy away from the "well known" ones, for the most part. In doing so I don't normally pay attention to who is with who or who is feverishly chasing who. I suppose the Lit awards are good indication and has actually proven to be a bit of a deterrent for me.

I agree with you that if a girl is looking for more than getting off, the guys here seem to have the upper hand. There are a lot of really lovely women on Lit, but....honestly.....great guys are much harder to unearth here.

But I do truly hope no one, man or woman, is settling for "scraps".... that's just ridiculous.

 

[parker77]

Ok, this question, you cannot begin to imagine the enormity of the fuck I don't give about any of that; and, I trust almost no one.

 

[Rapha1979]

I’ve just figured out where I’m going wrong with the ladies. I clearly need to be more like this guy...

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1522260

I so want to reply to his thread but I don’t think he’d take my brand of gently mocking politeness very well.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Ok, this question, you cannot begin to imagine the enormity of the fuck I don't give about any of that; and, I trust almost no one.

Pretty much.

The older I get, the more I realize how important cultivating my circle and only letting certain people in.
You can be open, honest and real while still understanding that not everyone deserves a seat at my table.
This is my solid gold thinking right here.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’ve just figured out where I’m going wrong with the ladies. I clearly need to be more like this guy...

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1522260

I so want to reply to his thread but I don’t think he’d take my brand of gently mocking politeness very well.

He's a peach

 

[Trekka]

Ok, this question, you cannot begin to imagine the enormity of the fuck I don't give about any of that; and, I trust almost no one.

Bahahaha - Parker! We agree again!
What. Are. The. Odds.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

According to LegendaryAlt, guys have the upper hand in finding relationships. I can’t see that there is a huge bias one way or the other. I think, for different aspects, each gender has their own advantages.

This got me thinking of Lit hierarchy. I was just talking about this with a friend of mine last week. It is often said at Lit that girls have the upper hand. I think this is partly true. I think girls have the upper hand if they just want to talk and get off with someone. The problem is, these women also have feelings and they are actual people. So most of them aren’t just looking to immediately flash their tits at everyone who walks by.

I think, after you get past the initial “girls can always have a random if they want” stage, guys have the upper hand. You see girls here fighting over the same guy. A lot. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen with guys. But I feel like there are just a few guys that are desired by a lot of the women. Those guys are at the top of the food chain. You see women constantly trying to make sure no one else is getting a piece of their man.

What do you all think? Do you see a hierarchy at Lit? If so, who is on top? Who is having scraps?


Uptown Girl by Billy Joel

https://youtu.be/hCuMWrfXG4E

I see that, too.

It's the decent guys from a couple of years ago who were respected by both the girls and the guys who everyone fell over to get to know better. I don't see it in action nearly as much anymore. Lit kinda fizzled about five years ago.

I think the guys who figure out how to play alongside the girls have it made here. They get to be choosier than girls if they want. I don't invest nearly enough energy to pay attention anymore, but back in the day I loved watching harems flock around the place. It was so freaking entertaining

 

[tnman03]

*snip*
What do you all think? Do you see a hierarchy at Lit? If so, who is on top? Who is having scraps

The level of obsessing and constant harping on this question sours my opinion of the person or persons promoting it. If by now anyone here isn't adult enough to realize that people are going to talk or interact with whoever they choose to do so with then what turnip truck did they just fall off of?

How about just being an adult and not obsess over who's not interested in talking to you or vs. versa? This place is a chat forum, albeit more of a porn forum consisting of adults with to much free time on their hands most of the time. Instead of lamenting life and Lit's unfairness how about working on not taking a forum more seriously then RL?

 

[SassySheDevil]

I see that, too.

It's the decent guys from a couple of years ago who were respected by both the girls and the guys who everyone fell over to get to know better. I don't see it in action nearly as much anymore. Lit kinda fizzled about five years ago.

I think the guys who figure out how to play alongside the girls have it made here. They get to be choosier than girls if they want. I don't invest nearly enough energy to pay attention anymore, but back in the day I loved watching harems flock around the place. It was so freaking entertaining

They still flock around.

But I would agree with both Pmann and this. I think it totally depends on the situation/people involved. But the guys who interact more, have a better advantage.

 

[Guyblue82]

I see that, too.

It's the decent guys from a couple of years ago who were respected by both the girls and the guys who everyone fell over to get to know better. I don't see it in action nearly as much anymore. Lit kinda fizzled about five years ago.

I think the guys who figure out how to play alongside the girls have it made here. They get to be choosier than girls if they want. I don't invest nearly enough energy to pay attention anymore, but back in the day I loved watching harems flock around the place. It was so freaking entertaining

From an initial look, supply/ demand would say the ladies have the leverage.... but there are so many guys looking for physical/visual stimulation only.... and a much smaller group of guys who invest the time in lit, aren’t a troll, have a personality and aren’t hiding / lying about things that matter in personal connections.

Me, well, I fall within this category:
https://media.tenor.com/images/cd9552ce64ef63c9b51b19fb2a6f8e93/tenor.gif

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Pretty much.

The older I get, the more I realize how important cultivating my circle and only letting certain people in.
You can be open, honest and real while still understanding that not everyone deserves a seat at my table.
This is my solid gold thinking right here.

*Nods*

 

[rubydlite]

I have no idea what's happening in here but wanted to say
hi and tackle pounce many of you !

 

[aussiegeekygal]

From an initial look, supply/ demand would say the ladies have the leverage.... but there are so many guys looking for physical/visual stimulation only.... and a much smaller group of guys who invest the time in lit, aren’t a troll, have a personality and aren’t hiding / lying about things that matter in personal connections.

Me, well, I fall within this category:
https://media.tenor.com/images/cd9552ce64ef63c9b51b19fb2a6f8e93/tenor.gif

The way I saw it play out was the girls all climbing over themselves for the same guys. That's obviously a female centric perspective.

I was way too new to dive in and so I just sat on the fringes and watched.

Have you seen the movie Mean Girls? There's a scene at the mall where all the teenagers turn into wild animals near a water fountain... That's how I picture this place

What I will say is judging a poster by his questions, it seemed pmann may not have emotionally graduated high school...

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Pretty much.

The older I get, the more I realize how important cultivating my circle and only letting certain people in.
You can be open, honest and real while still understanding that not everyone deserves a seat at my table.
This is my solid gold thinking right here.

I get this, but I’m also a little bit different in that, I’m open to opening myself up to new people and offering them a seat at my table if we click in that way. That’s what I love about this place, you just never know when you’re going to meet someone who unexpectedly wows you in a good way.