Litiquette V

[LizVegas79]

Sometimes it's talent, sometimes it's just a willingness to do what needs to be done. One you can control, the other is a gift. And those that have both have few limits.

If you had talent would you work hard to maximize it or just go with the flow?

I worked hard to maximize it - exactly the same as Trekka did

 

[Lord Pmann]

I would like to take a moment to thank Aussie who once helped me, ahhh, maximize.

My BF thanks her as well.

You sucked Aussie's dick for 10k hours?

 

[ydahecnot]

Hope they can avoid sucking dick on the way to the parking lot

 

[Suz_anne]

Hope they can avoid sucking dick on the way to the parking lot

I don't even know what the question of the day is yet, but this response provides great hope that it's a doozy.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I have two main talents... one is music and one is a particular sport. I think I've definitely put in my time in for both to get rather good at them. I believe some of it comes naturally. I believe some of it comes from the work.
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Sitting on people and calling it Sumo is hardly a talent, fatty.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Sitting on people and calling it Sumo is hardly a talent, fatty.

You love it when I sit on your face.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

You love it when I sit on your face.

No I don't.

The amount of Benadryl I need to avoid the hives I get from your pubes makes me REALLY high. That's what I love.

 

[ChainedUp]

We all chat, flirt, and sometimes area little bit bad/naughty on threads. Sometimes we post pictures of ourselves that are provocative in the least, and pornographic in the most. And with all these public displays of our R - X-rated selves we are sure, if not hopeful, to illicit responses. In fact, we all actually crave those responses.

But that all comes with a price. The pricing being that at times we may get a response, in public or private, that we don't like. Maybe it's a troll insulting us. Maybe it's someone being a bit too sexually overt with their message. And sometimes an asshat will wander along and push one of our buttons that incites a response.

My question is, what is a fair price to pay for provocative posting? Should we just let the inappropriate responses we get, slide off our back, delete and move on? Should we engage and try to get the respondent to see the errors of their ways. Or should we go to one of the Dear Lister, Dear X, What Are You Thinking boards and post out our frustrations?

Or should we live a Puritan lifestyle and forego all this?

 

[AKentuckyLady]

We all chat, flirt, and sometimes area little bit bad/naughty on threads. Sometimes we post pictures of ourselves that are provocative in the least, and pornographic in the most. And with all these public displays of our R - X-rated selves we are sure, if not hopeful, to illicit responses. In fact, we all actually crave those responses.

But that all comes with a price. The pricing being that at times we may get a response, in public or private, that we don't like. Maybe it's a troll insulting us. Maybe it's someone being a bit too sexually overt with their message. And sometimes an asshat will wander along and push one of our buttons that incites a response.

My question is, what is a fair price to pay for provocative posting? Should we just let the inappropriate responses we get, slide off our back, delete and move on? Should we engage and try to get the respondent to see the errors of their ways. Or should we go to one of the Dear Lister, Dear X, What Are You Thinking boards and post out our frustrations?

Or should we live a Puritan lifestyle and forego all this?

This is like saying, "But she was dressed in a short skirt and her cleavage was showing, your Honor. She was asking to be raped."

There is no fair price to pay. Most people come here to have the freedom to express themselves. It doesn't absolve anyone from basic manners. But some take the freedom to express themselves as: "I can say anything I want because this is just online and no one takes it seriously"; and absolve themselves from the responsibility of what they do because: "Well they must WANT sex, otherwise why would they be on a sex site?"

I'm sure from talking to a lot of the women here that most of the silly crap we get in our inboxes is ignored. But there's a limit on that, and some days are worse than others. When you have one nerve left and someone stomps on it, it boils over and you lash back out in anger, frustration, and sometimes fear.

Should it be called out on the threads? Sure. If you think it's appropriate to say uninvited in PM, then expect an uninvited critique in public. I consider it a heads up to beware of that person in the future. If they will treat one person like that, they'll keep doing it to others.

 

[Aquagal]

My response usually includes a dick sounding picture. They are always turned off by that. I like to try and find a nice one, like with a rose shoved up a dick hole.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I don't accept PMs anymore but from a small handful of people.
If you want to address me out in the open, fine. Great. You've been warned.

I think that we all hold some personal responsibility for our actions ( ex. If you post certain things, be prepared to deflect unwanted attention. If you are unwilling or incapable of dealing with the dredges of society, then you can always become a prude like me and take the "fuck off you imbecile" approach, which really works, by the way...)

That said, I'm not absolving anyone from their rude actions.

I, personally, don't deal with stupid very well, so I took out the possibility of communication altogether. If you want to talk to me, by all means, find me in a thread. Earn my trust, and I might talk to you off the boards.

It's just what works for me.

Of course I think we're all stupid for various reasons.

 

[Trekka]

I welcome all inappropriate PMs.

 

[vibes]

I welcome all inappropriate PMs.

Looking for trouble?

 

[ydahecnot]

My response usually includes a dick sounding picture. They are always turned off by that. I like to try and find a nice one, like with a rose shoved up a dick hole.

You mean a picture of a nick, or a flick, or a pick?

 

[Aquagal]

You mean a picture of a nick, or a flick, or a pick?

Just for that, you don't get the rose.

 

[dacoach44]

Hmmmm

My response usually includes a dick sounding picture. They are always turned off by that. I like to try and find a nice one, like with a rose shoved up a dick hole.

How does he like that, up his cock?

 

[Aquagal]

How does he like that, up his cock?

Apparently he likes it a couple inches up his dick.

 

[dacoach44]

Kentucky is right

We all chat, flirt, and sometimes area little bit bad/naughty on threads. Sometimes we post pictures of ourselves that are provocative in the least, and pornographic in the most. And with all these public displays of our R - X-rated selves we are sure, if not hopeful, to illicit responses. In fact, we all actually crave those responses.

But that all comes with a price. The pricing being that at times we may get a response, in public or private, that we don't like. Maybe it's a troll insulting us. Maybe it's someone being a bit too sexually overt with their message. And sometimes an asshat will wander along and push one of our buttons that incites a response.

My question is, what is a fair price to pay for provocative posting? Should we just let the inappropriate responses we get, slide off our back, delete and move on? Should we engage and try to get the respondent to see the errors of their ways. Or should we go to one of the Dear Lister, Dear X, What Are You Thinking boards and post out our frustrations?

Or should we live a Puritan lifestyle and forego all this?

There are risks, and idiots. Most people here have manners, at least when sober. But if you are insulted for no reason, call his dumb ass out and shame him. I have seen hateful comments here, and fortunately none directed to me. As a retired 1SG of MP's, I dont take well to a slap. Nobody should expect that they can get away with being rude.

 

[dacoach44]

Well...

Apparently he likes it a couple inches up his dick.

Love new ideas on Lit!

 

[LWulf]

There are no guarantees in life. I believe in that. There is always the possibility of something backfiring.

Its normal to hope for the best possible outcome, but to expect on it not going south is foolish.

Yes, we should just let the inappropriate responses, slide off our back.

Keeping your head buried in the sand might be a way to exist, to protect yourself, but it isn't a way to live.

 

[Aquagal]

Love new ideas on Lit!

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[vibes]

Just for that, you don't get the rose.

That is just so ... wrong

 

[dacoach44]

Ha ha

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So hilarious, bet not his cup of tea?

 

[dacoach44]

Right..

There are no guarantees in life. I believe in that. There is always the possibility of something backfiring.

Its normal to hope for the best possible outcome, but to expect on it not going south is foolish.

Yes, we should just let the inappropriate responses, slide off our back.

Keeping your head buried in the sand might be a way to exist, to protect yourself, but it isn't a way to live.

Ignore a bully or fight back, either way, but dont just take it.

 

[LWulf]

Ignore a bully or fight back, either way, but dont just take it.

a retaliatory response isn't always the best way to go, and ignoring it tends to build up frustration that usually leaks out and has repercussions on innocents around us. Getting pissed off at the rain (things that you have no hope to control) is a foolish waste of energy.

*shrugs* You don't have to believe in my ways.