Lit taught me...

[FunLi]

LTM to keep the walls built and rebuild higher than before.

I never want to feel like this again. This is dumb.

 

[Xerxes82]

LTM to stay in my lane. And that sometimes when you see certain folks on the road it's best to move your lane as far away as possible.

 

[Lady2020]

LTM to think think most people on here are lonely and sexless.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

LTM that even here, actions can speak louder than words.

 

[cowboyup6977]

That you really can find true love on here
Right R

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

LTM that the "cult of (insert poster here)" only lasts so long. Pretty soon they move on to the newer, shinier object of affection. So if the current one annoys the heck out of you, be patient. A new one will be along shortly.

I *may* have experienced this myself. lol

 

[dkak001]

LTM that the "cult of (insert poster here)" only lasts so long. Pretty soon they move on...

That I'll never reach your level of posts. How the fuck did you do that???

 

[Lord Pmann]

LTM that the "cult of (insert poster here)" only lasts so long. Pretty soon they move on to the newer, shinier object of affection. So if the current one annoys the heck out of you, be patient. A new one will be along shortly.

I *may* have experienced this myself. lol

Wrong. My annoyance has staying power.

 

[Dom70]

LTM a LOT about people. NOT all good!

 

[Dom70]

LTM a LOT about people. NOT all good!

 

[RaineDrops]

Wrong. My annoyance has staying power.

Obviously.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

That I'll never reach your level of posts. How the fuck did you do that???

I started a thread and spent all my time here. Not so much anymore!

 

[dkak001]

I started a thread and spent all my time here. Not so much anymore!

Lucky you, having that much time to spend on anything!

 

[dreamysub]

Lit taught me theres still some kind people out there.. Gives me hope on days when I feel like shit.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Lucky you, having that much time to spend on anything!

LTM people can sound condescending even if they don't intend to.

 

[BadAmy]

Ltm that despite established boundaries, the vermin of the opposite sex still manage to infiltrate.
And because of established boundaries, I'll fight right the fuck back.
No woman should ever feel the need to remain silent when pressed, harassed and assaulted.
And if you're someone who does feel like that?
Just pm me.
There's an army here. And we all know one another. Yeah, we talk.

 

[dkak001]

Ltm that despite established boundaries, the vermin of the opposite sex still manage to infiltrate.
...
No woman should ever feel the need to remain silent when pressed, harassed and assaulted.

LTM: You all really must be dealing with some shit DMs and other crap at times. Apparently having a twig and berries of invincibility shields many from a similar barrage.

LTM: Maybe to not bother DMing anyone, despite having honest/friendly intent...

 

[BadAmy]

LTM: You all really must be dealing with some shit DMs and other crap at times. Apparently having a twig and berries of invincibility shields many from a similar barrage.

LTM: Maybe to not bother DMing anyone, despite having honest/friendly intent...

Here's the thing. Your need to comment on my post speaks volumes.
Do not mistake my expression of boundaries, as a call for your sympathy. Especially the end part where you are expressing your need for pity and that you" might as well not PM anybody." If that isn't passive aggressive I don't know what is.
Welcome to the list.

 

[dkak001]

Do not mistake my expression of boundaries, as a call for your sympathy.

No, Just honest surprise at how often shit happens here. It apparently this is shit that I don't see, or am not exposed to.
And no, not passive aggressive. Simply noting that if this environment is truly that hostile, it's most likely counterproductive to making any meaningful friends anymore. Certainly moreso than 10 or 15 years ago.

It is interesting that you feel my own personal "What LTM" revelations are a passive aggressive attack. That in itself tends to further my opinion that maybe this board is not a healthy place to be.

 

[Strixaluco]

No, Just honest surprise at how often shit happens here. It apparently this is shit that I don't see, or am not exposed to.

Men seldom see more than a fraction of all that shit that happen to women. Even those who are on our side. Even when it happens physically in the same room.

And I didn't need Lit to teach me this, I've known it for ages.

 

[BadAmy]

No, Just honest surprise at how often shit happens here. It apparently this is shit that I don't see, or am not exposed to.
And no, not passive aggressive. Simply noting that if this environment is truly that hostile, it's most likely counterproductive to making any meaningful friends anymore. Certainly moreso than 10 or 15 years ago.

It is interesting that you feel my own personal "What LTM" revelations are a passive aggressive attack. That in itself tends to further my opinion that maybe this board is not a healthy place to be.

This isn't an airport. There's no need for you to announce your departure.

 

[Biker_Faerie]

LTM that there is no such thing as ‘meaningful exchange’ when it comes to politics on here and that few Americans apparently want to live in a society where pluralism is seen as a positive thing

 

[LadyLascivious1]

No, Just honest surprise at how often shit happens here. It apparently this is shit that I don't see, or am not exposed to.

I’m surprised that you’re surprised. It makes me alternatively angry and sad, but never surprised.

LTM: Maybe to not bother DMing anyone, despite having honest/friendly intent...

And no, not passive aggressive. Simply noting that if this environment is truly that hostile, it's most likely counterproductive to making any meaningful friends anymore.

It is interesting that you feel my own personal "What LTM" revelations are a passive aggressive attack. That in itself tends to further my opinion that maybe this board is not a healthy place to be.

I can only speak for myself, but these statements are making someone else’s experience and post about you. And it’s not. Unless you are pressuring, harassing, or assaulting people, it has nothing to do with you.

Correlating the two, making unrelated assumptions, or publicly saying it’s the reason you would not try to make friends here or this place isn’t healthy for you does imply that someone else’s experience is now responsible for your own experience and highlights that the original point of the post was completely overlooked. I don’t think you intended it that way, but it’s important people are able to openly talk about their experiences without others putting their own unrelated feelings and baggage into the mix.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

LTM that some people will always judge and criticize. Guess it makes them feel better about themselves?

LTM that you can't trust anyone with your heart.

LTM that female friendships are worth staying around.

 

[AmberLGreen]

LTM the world isn’t round and there are corners. I have seen what happens in the other corners so I will just stay in mine