Lit addicted?? Why??

[Cipher]

I understand what you mean, but i guess if you're happy and that's what it took for you to feel good about yourself then so be it. I guess the stereo type of a bbw/plus sized woman is what "irritates" me..they see us as we're lazy women and all we do is eat junk foods, we're sloppy and we settle for anything that wants to "fuck" us..and that's a stereo type i would love to change.
I don't eat excessively..i'm actually a vegetarian, i walk on a daily basis, and i am far from sloppy, and i sure as hell don't "settle" for what ever i can get!! LoL Not this bbw..LoL and there's alot of us out there that aren't the "typical" stereotype.
Maybe one day things might be different..until then, i keep doin what i'm doin..LoL
I'm happy to hear you do feel better about yourself, that's always important.

 

[Freya]

I have a girlfriend like you. Bigger girl - absolutely and totally confident in herself. She is so beautiful - I love to watch her. She dresses to flaunt herself - it's wonderful.

 

[alwaysawake]

I have a girlfriend like you. Bigger girl - absolutely and totally confident in herself. She is so beautiful - I love to watch her. She dresses to flaunt herself - it's wonderful.

Besides the physical aspect...I enjoy having an intelligent conversation with a woman...I find it 'stimulating' and if I had a choice--the airhead who couldn't make up a coherent sentence without the use of a Thesaurus...would be left in the dust by an intelligent woman. I like a woman that has substance in body, mind, and emotions!

 

[Freya]

Besides the physical aspect...I enjoy having an intelligent conversation with a woman...I find it 'stimulating' and if I had a choice--the airhead who couldn't make up a coherent sentence without the use of a Thesaurus...would be left in the dust by an intelligent woman. I like a woman that has substance in body, mind, and emotions!

And you are a rare but needed species hun. I wonder if it'as an age thing - no offense - but men over 30 (for the most part) are less superficial than younger men.

 

[alwaysawake]

And you are a rare but needed species hun. I wonder if it'as an age thing - no offense - but men over 30 (for the most part) are less superficial than younger men.

That's true Freya...but when I look at the divorce rate of approximately 50%...how much would you like to bet that at least half of those were based on physical relationships? If one party or the other gains weight (which happens)...and if they haven't established good communication between one another--then straying eyes and affections will be strong temptations and divorce may ensue. Like I said...give me the WHOLE woman--once you know and learn her...you can satisfy her physically, emotionally, and mentally--and NOT just in the bedroom!

 

[Freya]

That's true Freya...but when I look at the divorce rate of approximately 50%...how much would you like to bet that at least half of those were based on physical relationships? If one party or the other gains weight (which happens)...and if they haven't established good communication between one another--then straying eyes and affections will be strong temptations and divorce may ensue. Like I said...give me the WHOLE woman--once you know and learn her...you can satisfy her physically, emotionally, and mentally--and NOT just in the bedroom!

Well, I've heard women on here tons of times saying how sex begins in the mind....and it's so true. I want a man who knows all parts of me - my dreams, my hopes, my fears and accepts them and me for what i am. I just hope all men on here listen to men like you and to all the women who say things like that.

 

[alwaysawake]

Well, I've heard women on here tons of times saying how sex begins in the mind....and it's so true. I want a man who knows all parts of me - my dreams, my hopes, my fears and accepts them and me for what i am. I just hope all men on here listen to men like you and to all the women who say things like that.

I hope you find that man Freya, I truly do! To find that man/woman that you desire will require some excavation...you know the old phrases: "In order to soar with eagles, you gotta fly with alot of turkeys!" and "Ya gotta kiss alot of frogs before you find that prince!" There are many here that have that depth of feeling...just not me!

 

[Freya]

I hope you find that man Freya, I truly do! To find that man/woman that you desire will require some excavation...you know the old phrases: "In order to soar with eagles, you gotta fly with alot of turkeys!" and "Ya gotta kiss alot of frogs before you find that prince!" There are many here that have that depth of feeling...just not me!

I'll find that guy - I'm pretty confident in that.

 

[1sexylady]

Hi Freya!

Yeah the public's image of a beautiful woman is tall, long legged, lean, and fit, with a bust size most bbw's don't even have, and a size 2 waist. It's unfortunate that so many people have eating disorders because of that image. I do wish there were more confident bbw's out there, and what i wish for most of all are more people out there that truly don't give a damn about size, looks, and images.

Well Cipher.... I am a tall...long legged woman... But damn wish my waist was size 2... I am not one of those skinny lanky tall things with no shape...I am a tall shapely girl...with a little too much shape to the butt area... Oh and my bust size is a 40 DD...so no small boobs here...

I accept people for who they are....and I try to be kind to all....

 

[Freya]

Well Cipher.... I am a tall...long legged woman... But damn wish my waist was size 2... I am not one of those skinny lanky tall things with no shape...I am a tall shapely girl...with a little too much shape to the butt area... Oh and my bust size is a 40 DD...so no small boobs here...

I accept people for who they are....and I try to be kind to all....

That's the only way to make this work. No, maybe we aren't exactly BBW's...but we are certainly not images of this stupid pipedream people have about how being a size 2 is the only way to happiness.

I think Cipher, that the reason people feel that way about larger women is because for so long it was so very hard for them to find clothes that made them look/feel attractive. Thank God, they've finally realized that larger women do not want to dress in their husbands hand-me-down plaid shirts and baggy jeans, and have started designing clothing to make them look as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside.

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

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[Cipher]

I accept people for who they are....and I try to be kind to all....

..and i believe those were my same exact words too..so i hear ya..wish i was long legged..LoL..Sometimes being 5ft gets rough..LoL

I have friends that are all sizes, shapes, and races, like i said earlier..i don't give a damn about pettiness and shallowness..i don't benefit from it, and quite frankly it's a waste of time.
Wish there was more people like us out there sexylady!!

 

[Cipher]

Re: Hi, Not to hijack the thread but I thought I would answer the original question

Why am I here.

I could say exactly what you said Cipher abd it would be true but not original.

I could just be original by not being original, but that's an old idea.

So I will try something that is original to this thread and say
I Blame Jewelz!

So there I am reading the erotica and loving it. Out of curiosity I click on the personals and look around. The playground didn't exist yet and was part of personals.

So I am just poking around answering some polls and avoiding the real personals. I'm happily maried and don't want to start something I can't finish. So I happen to click on this thread called Jewelz Playhouse . I say to myself hey this person is posting some fun word associations. So I try one.

Well the next thing I know Jewelz is there with open arms, spread legs and sucking me in. Not much later she takes my cherry and made me really experienced. Since then I have met some really wonderful people, read posts by people I want to get to know better and actually had my friend ShiningEyes get me to write a story (Follow link in sig line.) I still have more to write and hopefully I will.

I stay here because I enjoy the people and conversations so much, that I spend almost no time at Comics.com.

I love it here. I tend to keep personal stuff to PMs. I do like to offer advice when appropriate, and I really don't mind volunteering to be a boy toy for the ladies.

Well I think that's enough for this post. I'll also throw in a "Hi, glad to meet you" as we have crossed paths, but not necessarily talked.

Finally, Greeting to everyone else I know and those I don't.

BEM

BEM,
Hello! and thanks for droppin in, i would first like to say, you aren't hijacking the thread..LoL I don't mind who comes in here, and posts and introduces themselves, that was why i started this thread just as long as people don't bring thier ignorance and stupidity in here and start to harrass me and my fellow posters and make it seem like thier right and we're wrong..it's all good...LoL I have a low tolerance for ignorance.
Once again thank you for passing thru, and it was a pleasure meeting you as well *shakes hands*I'll look forward to seeing you again

 

[RetroGrounder]

bumpitty bump

 

[done_got_old]

bumpitty bump

come on retro, you know more than two words

not any more