Lit addicted?? Why??

[1sexylady]

Yeah she sure is!! I didn't think you or anyone else hijacked my thread..i did it to meet more people, i mean i've been here since feb, and only talk to the ones i met back then, i think if you have seen my posts from awhile back, you'd know if something was on my mind, i'd speak it, i'm known for that..LoL I don't care..hell if you feel comfortable enough to kick it on my thread then so be it I will drop in yours as well
I know what dankei meant though as far as "hijacking", i used to post on the gb's and i saw intresting people saying intresting things, and BAM! Hijacked by ignorance and garbage, so i know what dankei was aiming at.
If you talk "gibberish" then that's on you..know what i mean?? i'm not going to not like you and not talk to you, i'm sure like with everyone you can be a great conversationalist, i look forward in chatting with you more as the days go by, as i'm looking forward to meeting and talking to everyone that stops here, and those that don't.

I understand what he means too.. I have been on threads that a question is asked and then all of a sudden someone is having sex.....well I just say excuse me and post what I want....or on a thread and not acknowledged at all...so it is like tv..you don't like it don't go back.... and the gibberish I am talking about is fun..***** is too short so have it now....

Oh and I came to lit from a friend...she tried for months for me to come here and then I did...and I have not left...

 

[alwaysawake]

And Cipher knows that she can tell me to shut up and leave....which I would do gladly if I got overzealous and destroyed the continuity of her thread.

 

[Cipher]

Hi fellow Lit mates...

I originally started exploring lit for the stories, I love erotica...then I started lurking on the boards....and then one day I completely connected with what someone had confessed. On that day I posted. From that day on, I have been hooked. I guess the big thing for me is that I can be very vulnerable here, but yet somewhat anonymous at the same time. I am able to express myself freely without the fear of judgement. I have made many friends, have had many laughs, and have had some very pleasurable moments *eg* as well here. But I would have to say that it is the "connection" that keeps me coming back.

*kisses to you all*

NG

Hello NG!!
See..expressing ones self without judgement is also something i find terrific. i know that some people can't talk about certain subjects with friends, family, and co-workers.
Everyone needs someone to chat with sometimes about something, lit has something for everyone, and if it doesn't, i'm sure laurel would do her best to accomodate. i have met people on here that come from sheltered lifestyles, or tiny lil towns where people can't just get freaky deaky..LoL so they come here to learn, discuss, and chat about sex and other issues that come up. i spent 3 hours one time on here with one person thru pms, and we talked about life, and all sorts of things..it was fun, and we speak often outside of lit.
Thanks for dropping by!!

 

[naughtygirl]

Anytime Cipher...and thank you for the welcoming words. *kisses*

 

[1sexylady]

I hope this isnt highjacking, but



Thank You, your compliments made my day!! Ive grown quite fond of you both!

Emerald_eyed..

 

[Guest]

 

[Cipher]

And Cipher knows that she can tell me to shut up and leave....which I would do gladly if I got overzealous and destroyed the continuity of her thread.

AA,
I highly doubt i would ever say that to you, we've chatted before, and you know i'm pretty much always goofy and content..i admit it doesn't take much to irritate me, but only trolls do that, and you my dear, are far from a troll!!


NG,
U are most welcome

 

[Jewelz]

*takes her position at the front of the class and wide eyed scans the room as all eyes are on her. nervously she smiles at some friends who wink at her and nod. she begins her speech....not giving a damn if it is gibberish or adolescent to role play this or not*

..........Good wee hours of the morning to ya'll...Most of you know my name...its like "Cheers". Im Jewelz. I came to Lit in August 2001 to read the stories. I lurked around the boards but never posted. January 2002, I wanted to join the playful banter. Or adolescent gibberish if you will. I posted throughout the days. I was a bored housewife with no real life. But I soon faced some real life problems and drowned myself on Lit. To cover the slaps that reality so rudely was giving me. Yes. I was addicted. Hence my upcoming 10k posts.

But while I became so absorbed into Lit...I met some of the greatest people that I would ever hope to meet in my life. I consider myself truly blessed for presence in my life. Some people are mere acquaintances, some are good friends and some are my very best friends. I love to laugh with them, cry with them, play with them and yes, *gasp* ask them "how are you doing today". Being a friend means that I care about them and their well being. They are real people behind those typed messages. Sure you have some stuffy assholes that have nothing better to do then pretend their ass doesnt stink, you have your teenage mutants who believe they are so self righteous, you have your average joe that gets off on making people feel like shit.....BUT I have found for the most part that the people that I have been so lucky to know are absolutely caring and wonderful people who I want to be around.

I am a stay at home mommy. I cook, I clean, I play with my children. I read to them, we dance to music. and dont you dare look cuz *another gasp* ...i email my husband through out the day too!! Imagine that!!

Life is about choices, Life is about change, nothing ever stays the same. While I am very much addicted to Lit......I am even more so addicted to the love and friendship that draws me back here day after day. I cherish the friendship I make. I enjoy childlike banter from time to time...its actually really fun to forget my responsibilities and my problems and PLAY. Hey, call me what you will as long as you call me loved and one who loves.....

May all your journeys be those of love, hope, happiness and inspiration.......cuz that is what I have taken away from this little journey on lit.......

Be well, be happy, be safe and BE FREE!!!!!!!!!

 

[Cipher]

...And you see people..the gem of lit has spoken!!
x 24

I know your RL name, you know mine. We have chatted gibberish we have chatted about real problems. And i once mentioned on another thread that behind these typed words, were people with lots to offer, so i agree with that. i carry myself on lit as i do in real life when i'm in the clubs, hangin with my friends and family. i do not change. i was actually kinda nervous to start a thread..the infamous Cipher nervous..imagine that.
I'm glad i did though, truly.
And now that i actually think about it, most of the friendships i've made here, started with a simple gibberish "hello, how are you"..imagine that.

Thanks for passing by, and gf, you know ME. i am always the same day after day, just because i can't see any of you in RL doesn't mean i don't care or have no intrest to know you or learn anything about you.
I guess i rather meet and befriend someone that speaks gibberish, than not to meet anyone at all.

 

[redelicious]

Well, not trying to beat it to death, but . . .

Wouldn't r/l be so boring if everyone went around staying focused "on topic" without making emotional connections? In my mind that's what all the gibberish or "hi," "how are yous" are for. Yes, it's a bit monotnous at times. Ignore it, if it doesn't suit you, and post on topic. Or don't, and move on.

My $.02

to you Cipher

Red

 

[Cipher]

Well, not trying to beat it to death, but . . .

Wouldn't r/l be so boring if everyone went around staying focused "on topic" without making emotional connections? In my mind that's what all the gibberish or "hi," "how are yous" are for. Yes, it's a bit monotnous at times. Ignore it, if it doesn't suit you, and post on topic. Or don't, and move on.

My $.02

to you Cipher

Red

Hey red!! How goes it?

..I'm thinking that to some folks the "on topic" sort of talk is what suits them, and is what they find intresting. I guess to each thier own, and like i have seen from some people on the gb's..they put it straight..don't like it here, it's not your forte, leave. No one is obligated to stay here..and laurel isn't making anyone stay, like i said, she's pretty open minded to any suggestions..she was taking them the other day, maybe dankei could make a thread and name it "Real life sex stories only"..and i'm very certain it would get alot of replies, it'd be a big thread i'm sure., and laurel would be more than willing to help.
Good day!!

 

[knightstalker]

I cum here for the friendships I have made over the months..There are somedays when I need someone to talk to and I know I can come here and find that person..I love to post and read others who have posted ....I used to just cum in here to read the stories but I really have not looked at them in awhile and I also used to lurk in here but them days are long gone now..I like to come here also because it is like your favorite place where everyone knows your name I always feel welcumed here ...Sorry if I am rambling the meds are kicking in

 

[Cipher]

I cum here for the friendships I have made over the months..There are somedays when I need someone to talk to and I know I can come here and find that person..I love to post and read others who have posted ....I used to just cum in here to read the stories but I really have not looked at them in awhile and I also used to lurk in here but them days are long gone now..I like to come here also because it is like your favorite place where everyone knows your name I always feel welcumed here ...Sorry if I am rambling the meds are kicking in

Ah yes! the meds!

How are you my dear?? i wasn't expecting you to come back so quickly I take it all went well?? very good.
Nice to see you drop by knight!!
..altho, unlike you..LoL i GOTTA have my story dosage..LoL
I love erotica too much to not read it..LoL
"Welcome back"!!

 

[redelicious]

Hey red!! How goes it?

..I'm thinking that to some folks the "on topic" sort of talk is what suits them, and is what they find intresting. I guess to each thier own, and like i have seen from some people on the gb's..they put it straight..don't like it here, it's not your forte, leave. No one is obligated to stay here..and laurel isn't making anyone stay, like i said, she's pretty open minded to any suggestions..she was taking them the other day, maybe dankei could make a thread and name it "Real life sex stories only"..and i'm very certain it would get alot of replies, it'd be a big thread i'm sure., and laurel would be more than willing to help.
Good day!!

I think you're right and there is absolutely nothing wrong with just wanting to read the on topic stuff - I get in those moods too (believe it or not). I guess I am just echoing what everyone else is saying about getting to know people.

We are all here for different things.

There is room for all.

Red

 

[Cipher]

I think you're right and there is absolutely nothing wrong with just wanting to read the on topic stuff - I get in those moods too (believe it or not). I guess I am just echoing what everyone else is saying about getting to know people.

We are all here for different things.

There is room for all.

Red

We all get in or moods where all we want to do is just observe.
Sometimes i'm not in the mood for small talk, or no talk at all, so i come and lurk and read stories, and when the mood passes, i continue to post. Sometimes i'll post like a mad woman all over the boards, then for awhile i won't..lurking, observing..whatever people wanna call it is fun to do too..LoL
See ya later!!

 

[alwaysawake]

We all get in or moods where all we want to do is just observe.
Sometimes i'm not in the mood for small talk, or no talk at all, so i come and lurk and read stories, and when the mood passes, i continue to post. Sometimes i'll post like a mad woman all over the boards, then for awhile i won't..lurking, observing..whatever people wanna call it is fun to do too..LoL
See ya later!!

Amen cipher...sometimes I learn much more by observing! I post alot, but read alot too...I learn more that way!

 

[Cipher]

Amen cipher...sometimes I learn much more by observing! I post alot, but read alot too...I learn more that way!

Heck yeah you learn alot by being observant!!
*shaking head* the things i've "observed"...LoL

I was going to comment about ur av yesterday but i got so busy with rl and instant messages, i'm glad you put up a "real face av"..i'm working on a few myself at the moment

 

[alwaysawake]

Heck yeah you learn alot by being observant!!
*shaking head* the things i've "observed"...LoL

I was going to comment about ur av yesterday but i got so busy with rl and instant messages, i'm glad you put up a "real face av"..i'm working on a few myself at the moment

Thanks--I felt like the other one was false advertising...this one is me--if anybody doesn't like...too bad; so sad! LOL

 

[Cipher]

Thanks--I felt like the other one was false advertising...this one is me--if anybody doesn't like...too bad; so sad! LOL

LoL Right on AA!! Great attitude!! Honestly.
That's how i feel..and in my profile it says i'm bbw..don't like it, don't look..LoL The av's i pick out never advertise anything false..my trademark av's are usually the lil goth cartoon dolls..and gothlike av's..that's my style, that's who i am and that's how i see myself and when i get my av's just the way i like them people will see..if they're that curious..they can ask to see me..LoL

 

[alwaysawake]

LoL Right on AA!! Great attitude!! Honestly.
That's how i feel..and in my profile it says i'm bbw..don't like it, don't look..LoL The av's i pick out never advertise anything false..my trademark av's are usually the lil goth cartoon dolls..and gothlike av's..that's my style, that's who i am and that's how i see myself and when i get my av's just the way i like them people will see..if they're that curious..they can ask to see me..LoL

To use a trite phrase...Right on--you go girl! If people are shallow enough to want just the wrapping paper on the package, yet not give a damn what's inside--I have little use for that type of person. The physical is good, but mental and emotional are the things that give any relationship/friendship it's bond and long term aspect. The depth and scope of the person inside is infinitely more desirable to me...the anorexic Calista Flockhart look-alikes in body/attitude/shallowness have zero appeal to me.... (Now that I have pissed people off--shuttin' up!)

 

[Cipher]

To use a trite phrase...Right on--you go girl! If people are shallow enough to want just the wrapping paper on the package, yet not give a damn what's inside--I have little use for that type of person. The physical is good, but mental and emotional are the things that give any relationship/friendship it's bond and long term aspect. The depth and scope of the person inside is infinitely more desirable to me...the anorexic Calista Flockhart look-alikes in body/attitude/shallowness have zero appeal to me.... (Now that I have pissed people off--shuttin' up!)

Yeah u probley did just piss someone off with that statement..but it's soo ironic when a skinny person get's shafted..all hell breaks loose..but when a non skinny person gets shafted..it's no big deal..we get laughed at.
I personally don't give a damn on a person's size, color, religion, etc..if someone respects me, i do the same to them..i have a feeling this thread is going to take a sharp turn..LoL

 

[redelicious]

Thanks--I felt like the other one was false advertising...this one is me--if anybody doesn't like...too bad; so sad! LOL

My sentiments exactly!

 

[Freya]

Yeah u probley did just piss someone off with that statement..but it's soo ironic when a skinny person get's shafted..all hell breaks loose..but when a non skinny person gets shafted..it's no big deal..we get laughed at.
I personally don't give a damn on a person's size, color, religion, etc..if someone respects me, i do the same to them..i have a feeling this thread is going to take a sharp turn..LoL

That's because everyone is supposed to want to look like a Calista Flockheart doll, so therefore if you insult them you are insulting the "final goal". What they don't understand is that, No, not everyone does want to look like a skeleton with skin, nor does every man want a woman who looks like that.

The more people with attitudes like yours, and the pride to be a confident BBW, the quicker that stupid concept will be buried and people can finally learn to be happy within themselves and with themselves.

 

[Cipher]

That's because everyone is supposed to want to look like a Calista Flockheart doll, so therefore if you insult them you are insulting the "final goal". What they don't understand is that, No, not everyone does want to look like a skeleton with skin, nor does every man want a woman who looks like that.

The more people with attitudes like yours, and the pride to be a confident BBW, the quicker that stupid concept will be buried and people can finally learn to be happy within themselves and with themselves.

Hi Freya!

Yeah the public's image of a beautiful woman is tall, long legged, lean, and fit, with a bust size most bbw's don't even have, and a size 2 waist. It's unfortunate that so many people have eating disorders because of that image. I do wish there were more confident bbw's out there, and what i wish for most of all are more people out there that truly don't give a damn about size, looks, and images.

 

[Freya]

Hi Freya!

Yeah the public's image of a beautiful woman is tall, long legged, lean, and fit, with a bust size most bbw's don't even have, and a size 2 waist. It's unfortunate that so many people have eating disorders because of that image. I do wish there were more confident bbw's out there, and what i wish for most of all are more people out there that truly don't give a damn about size, looks, and images.

Funny - we had this conversation one night in a bar. My girlfriend is blonde, about 5'5", skinny as fuck (110 pounds maybe?). I'm 5'11", probably 175 or 180, but really not anywhere near outrageous for my height - my pics are posted, you might have seen me. When we walk into a bar, men will 9 times out of 10 go after her. So although women are ultimately responsible for tearing down society's stereotypes on this, the men play a huge role in it as well. As long as they feed into this "small must be better" bullshit, women will never have a chance to allow themselves to be totally free of it either. I hear men say that they prefer women with meat, they don't like the idea of having someone they think will break if they are too rough...but then thye go after that exact type of woman when they see them. So as long as that happens, unless a woman is as confident as you, they may still feel that they are not good enough unless they are skinny. It's so stupid, but the fact is, most of us fall for that idea. Even me, since I have lost weight, I feel I look better and am more confident - even knowing that I am the same person I was last year at this time...I have also sort of bought into that skinnier = better nonsense.