Levels of consent

[windar]

If you feel like there are stories you want to write that Literotica doesn't want to publish, you can go elsewhere to publish them.

It's quite the opposite. I don't want to post them (it's NOT publishing) on Literotica. Even in the unlikely event that they were to change their rules and/or decide to apply them in some rational consistent fashion I have no further interest. Been there, done that, as the saying goes.

Let's be clear, I understand perfectly well that Literotica isn't going to listen to its authors. They don't care about them even though the site wouldn't exist without them. And I'm not asking that they change that. But I will reserve my right to make fun of them.

After all, they claim to be about free speech and being uncensored, so the criticism should be welcomed. And honestly I do enjoy some of the discussions on this forum. So I don't see the problem or the need of some people to get snippy (not you, by the way..).

This is fiction, folks. It's fantasy. Have fun, and let others have their fun, even if their idea of fun is different from yours.

Up above, you said this, which I agreed with. Quite so.

 

[KeithD]

I think I'm going to start counting the times Windar informs us he isn't going to post any stories to Literotica. I think it must have run into three digits by now.

 

[windar]

I think he wants attention and found that annoying people is the way to get it.

You have 11,736 posts so you don't seem to mind getting attention. Anyway, we are getting far from the topic of consent or the lack thereof and personal attacks are technically forbidden on the forum so perhaps you should desist if you are a stickler about rules.

 

[ElectricBlue]

You have 11,736 posts so you don't seem to mind getting attention. Anyway, we are getting far from the topic of consent or the lack thereof and personal attacks are technically forbidden on the forum so perhaps you should desist if you are a stickler about rules.

Folk here contribute to the Lit community either by submitting content (which you say you will no longer do), or by amicably contributing to the forums. All you seem to do is attack the site, which by most definitions is trolling.

If you don't like the site, why are you here? It gets really tedious.

But hey, with the new forum format, Ignore is brilliant. You no longer see anything posted by those on Ig, and even better, you no longer see their drivel when someone else replies to a post.

It's like reverse solipsism - someone on Ignore no longer exists in my world. You're not there yet, but getting closer.

 

[Agiel]

The point is that the other users have nothing to do with this and this whining goes on incessantly. Could you two just stop flaming the other board users irrelevantly about it? Your kick is with Laurel. She shows little evidence of reading the discussion board--or in caring what the users wish, for that matter. And this has nothing to do with the other users of the board other than making them grind their teeth over the tediousness of it all.

Okay.

 

[Salacious_Scribe]

I operate under the principal that unless he/she says no, consent is implied. At least for my stories, except the CNC ones. Of course all my stories take place in a universe where
no is accepted and respected,
STD's & unwanted pregnancies dont exist
no one is too timid, anxious, or unable to voice concerns.

If only the real world was like that. Le Sigh

 

[Lovecraft_Lore]

I try to always include a verbal or non verbal consent.


Many of the stories on here don't. It feels off in some cases. The person is drunk, the other party is their boss, they don't feel safe saying no. The point being it is important to include it, otherwise the story feels about as real as those stories where the guy's 14 incher shoves right pass her cervix directly into her ovaries and she loves it.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

I did one or two hard non-consent tales a while back at the request of a couple - it was her personal fantasy.

Not judging and it’s just fantasy from either side, but I found that I didn’t like what writing them did to me emotionally. Since then I’ve turned down requests for more and work hard to bring out the consensual aspect, whether or not it’s explicit.

To each their own.