Let's Talk Lit Crushes

[coffeelover5]

I have a royal crush happening right now

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
It's very organic.... Sometimes it's just from a post or AV/picture, but most of the time crushes come through random interactions that spark into something else.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely? It totally depends. Some are short lived, others last months and years.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
They make me laugh. Common interests help.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Intelligent. Good grammar. Sense of humor. All those are good. Turn off? Unsolicited dick pics and empty profiles with no posts.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
It totally depends. And there are levels of crush. I may have one major and a couple of minor ones going or just one major one.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
I keep it close to me, although the other person often knows, but not always

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)
I crush <3 <3 <3

 

[NeonSubtlety]

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[PeteHulbert37]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
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How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
Interacting with other people.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
Undefined.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
She has to be nice. Mean people suck.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Confidence, good sense of humor. Turn offs are being mean or disappearing.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
There are varying levels of crush.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
I have been at times, but I again I have multiple levels. Most know if I like them. There might be a few that are unsure.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

I absolutely love to interact with people. It feeds my soul. It's a big part of why I enjoy this board so much. There is a lot of silly banter, sideways humor and down-to-earth discussion. In those interactions we find people that we want to get to know better. So, we do. Some take off and become great friendships. Some reveal both parties want more. Some can develop into a meaningful relationship. On all levels there seems to be some connection. That's what makes it great.

I have many whom fascinate and intrigue me to no end such as Smileygirl (always has), Aquagal (makes me laugh), Black Cashmere (sweetness x infinity), Corbal (hilarious) and Daymaker (bow chika wow wow).

I have some that I call or called friends such as Gigglegasm (she gives great advice), Mindseduction (amazing woman!), Perky_t (miss her so much), Kat73 (she always been one of my closest friends), JennyNo1 (completely adore this woman!), BeachBaby (always makes me smile) and MamaBlu (pure awesomeness), Aussiegeekygal (swoon).

Then, there are the secret crushes. I'm not sure if they know I like them. I'm not talking about jump in the sack like. I mean, I just wish I could get to know them better like them. ]Leigh, Ponydriver, Little Sister, Shelbybubbles, Rainshine, LACandy, Aphroditiac, Suz anne, Lidar, PattiJolene and Firecracker

There are some that are special to me. I speak to them either every day or quite often. A couple that I have known for a long, long time. I value what we have. The relationship is meaningful.

One is far more than a crush.

Then, then there is Wild_Honey who is the OP for this thread. I adore her. She knows. Our connection has never been "hot", but we have a connection and that works.

I know, I know. I named names and we're not supposed to do that ever. I am sure I forgot someone. That's not intentional. Remember, this is all about fun. Have a little fun with it. Mrs H taught a lot of us a long time ago that it is ok to have a crush on someone and tell them about it.

 

[IhateClowns]

Corbal likes to pull my hair on the playground from time to time. I have asked her to stop, but she doesn't listen.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have a crush on bubble gum boy for bumping some of teh fun threads.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I have a crush on bubble gum boy for bumping some of teh fun threads.

I crushed on him pretty hard too there for a while for the same reason

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Someone asked me last night whether I ever crushed. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

That's a big 10-4, good buddy.

 

[DarkSimian]

Sometimes, there's just a moment when you click.....

 

[curvyangel1969]

Many times

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

.....

 

[Pantyboy74]

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
It depends on if I fall for someone or not, I don't go looking.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
I still crush on one person since day one on lit.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
They must be kind.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Mean people.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
I can multi task but not often.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
Most I've kept to myself or close friends. I rarely tell the person I like either though.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)
Yes I do have a crush it's................

 

[Sexybritches69]

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
I don’t go looking. I don’t usually contact first unless I’m sure it won’t be intrusive. I find it really difficult to make the first move.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
Some last a very long time and others end very quickly.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
I’m an equal opportunity crusher.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Excessive drama is a turn off. Being pushy, mean, dishonest are red flags.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
Depends. I have had many at once and other times I’ve had just one at a time.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
I see nothing wrong with it being known that I think someone is awesome and sexy.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)
Lit is full of clever, attractive, exciting people. I have a number of crushes that range from casual to...more than casual . Some are people I know well and some are people I’ve never spoken to.

 

[BadAmy]

I have a few crushes...a couple of lads and lasses. I think crush in levels..
1- excellent friend and fun poster..and yeah I'd cyber with them if they wanted to
2-3...really turn me on...let's swap pics
4- gets a dirty video and Skype
5...we gonna meet for coffee.

As far as emotionally into anyone? I am every time, every level..
Because they deserve my honest attention, though our interactions are playful and electronically platonic. We are here to have fun

Fuck. That was deep.
I need to go masturbate now, come back to reality. where's Dave?

 

[Browneyedlady34]

Hmmmm think i need a crush cus i don't have one right now.

 

[pvt_addiction]

I don’t know if I’ve ever officially crushed on anyone from here. I definitely enjoy some more than others. Everyone’s situation is different, but I feel like a Lit crush is going to do nothing but fuck with your mind in the long run.

 

[Davesmith42]

I have a few crushes...a couple of lads and lasses. I think crush in levels..
1- excellent friend and fun poster..and yeah I'd cyber with them if they wanted to
2-3...really turn me on...let's swap pics
4- gets a dirty video and Skype
5...we gonna meet for coffee.

As far as emotionally into anyone? I am every time, every level..
Because they deserve my honest attention, though our interactions are playful and electronically platonic. We are here to have fun

Fuck. That was deep.
I need to go masturbate now, come back to reality. where's Dave?

Always here for you

 

[AnhedonicDementic]

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
Came across in threads, wait for their message. I don't go looking. I want things unplanned.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
It would be better to have them do their thing, if they decide to stick around, then better.

They say crushes usually lasts only for about 4months, anything after that would be deeper affection and intimacy.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
I get attracted to gents older than my age, articulate and expressive. With good body, toned dad bod is enough. To sum it up: naughty and intelligent.

But more often than not, I fall for kind and respectful, genuine and sensual gents.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
He or she must be genuine with his/her feelings, real with who he or she is.
He: facial hair, confident with his body.
She: toned body, medium size breasts, lovely hair.

Arrogance and profanity turns me off.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
Sometimes I multi-task. Sometimes I focus on one unique individual.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
If they drop the bomb and let me know they feel the same, then I tell them how I feel.
Superficial crushes might know I like them.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)
Serious crush? Yes I have one. He is a very sexy, intelligent, handsome, horny, moody, pessimistic and private gentleman. So I'm afraid, name is not allowed.

 

[BadAmy]

AD said...
"They say crushes usually lasts only for about 4months, anything after that would be deeper affection and intimacy."
Well....now i'm fucked. Xxo

 

[tallladiesman]

I have had a few over the years
I have a couple at the minute, one moreso than the other
Its the interaction with other people that keeps me coming back, I suspect that applies to a lot of us

 

[KarenB59]

]How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
No, I don't go looking and I don't wait for them. They just happen.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
A time limit for what? To develop into something more? To stop crushing on that person? I've never noticed a time limit.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
Of course I have standards. I don't see myself crushing on some arrogant asshole.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Again, I don't look for crushes. I'm more likely to crush on a guy who is easy to talk to. Makes me laugh and think.

Turn offs- Fakes, Mean spirited

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
I like several people. I crush one at a time.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
If lightning struck and they told me they had a crush I would tell them too. But otherwise I wouldn't tell anyone

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)
That's something I'm keeping to myself

 

[PrettyLilPussy]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
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How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
I have never gone looking. The best feeling is when something grows naturally out of shared interest or humor or attraction. I very rarely initiate PMs. I always feel like a bother but that moment certain people's names show up in my inbox... I grin.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
Haha, I always get the boot! Nah, some people just fade or find someone else. Some people i carry close to me and like to check up on. For me, it's hard to turn off caring about somebody... if it goes beyong sex.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
I'm picky. Funny, kind, private. I like a certain type of guy but am not limited by that. Girls.... it's different.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Turn offs - arrogance, being pushy, being a snarky asshole.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
I'm a multi tasker and I'm honest about that.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
Depends on the person. But I certainly don't advertise. Few people on the boards will ever know who I'm actually playing with.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

Haha, he/she/they know (hopefully!) And that's all that matters.


*** I will say this is how I operate but I've really enjoyed reading these responses.

 

[Eisranac]

What I look for in a Crush is that orange flavor in a carbonated beverage whenever I am in the mood for a soda — although I did not realize that it comes in quite a few other fruit flavors.

If I were to answer the questions seriously, I first need to know what others consider to be the specific definition of a crush to ensure that I am on the same page and not assuming anything — but there is no formula as to what interests me. I could have two seemingly identical women in front of me; and inexplicable, I could be very interested in one and not interested at all in the other.

I do have my eye on a few members of Literotica for various reasons; and I did not go looking for them. I do not know if they would be considered “crushes.”

Whether or not anything will happen is another story.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

AD said...
"They say crushes usually lasts only for about 4months, anything after that would be deeper affection and intimacy."
Well....now i'm fucked. Xxo

(Ftr, my comment is not directed at AD, but rather at the topic up for discussion. )

Ya can't pick an arbitrary number out of the air and say that's the point at which all crushes cross over into bla bla bla...

Every couple is different, every crush is different. I have serious hearteyes for one guy *cue swooning and dripping panties* and a serious best friend crush on another guy, who has hearteyes for some delightful angel of a woman. I've known both of them far less than four months, but the connection was immediate and real.

Same with Amy. I knew from the time we met that she was going to be a special friend (and no, that's not code for something naughty). Some connections blossom slowly, over time, and some skip over the whole Intro To Friendship 101 and dive straight into Partners In Crime - Lecture and Lab, or Kindred Spirits 400.

The only people who get to decide where that line is are the two in the relationship. Errbody good now?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

AD said...
"They say crushes usually lasts only for about 4months, anything after that would be deeper affection and intimacy."
Well....now i'm fucked. Xxo

Also, you're not fucked til I say your fucked! Now bend over, you dirty slut, and spread those cheeks like a good girl!