Let's Talk Lit Crushes

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

I don't go looking. I tend to be a flight risk these days actually.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
Til they prove themselves uncrushworthy

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

I'm bi. Everyone is fair game. :D
Though I should note that #girlcrushing isn't the same as me actually having a crush on a girl. If I girlcrush it means I want you as part of my tribe.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Nastiness, dishonesty, drama

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
Level 1 crushes i can easily multitask because I see that as it being someone that I think is cute or funny, If it makes me smile to see you on the boards and flirt or banter then yeah I get those all the time. Level 2, can still be multitasked but usually wouldn't be. Maybe briefly? But if I'm interested enough to want to talk to you about stuff that isn't superficial, then I don't tend to like to multitask, too easy to hurt someone that way or get hurt yourself.
Level 3? No.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
I don't tell stories that aren't mine to share and some things are private. Level 1 crushes I never bother to mention. Level 2 get mentioned to maybe a close friend or 2. Level 3...depends on the situation. I still stand by my statement that people like to ruin beautiful things.


And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)


Maaaaayyyyyybeeeeeee and I won't give you a level for it though cause it's way more fun for people to be left guessing on that. LOL
 
:D

Can I choose noun 1. Could it be so close that I can feel something poking at my ass and someone groping at my breasts?

Still, I crush on someone here on Lit! The highs of it is addictive more than just seductive. :rose:
You can choose whatever you like!

Noun 1 does not appeal to me, however, as it reminds me of my years riding the subways of New York during rush hour. The body parts which were poked around during that mess were rarely appealing.
 
You can choose whatever you like!

Noun 1 does not appeal to me, however, as it reminds me of my years riding the subways of New York during rush hour. The body parts which were poked around during that mess were rarely appealing.

Oh, I hate rush hours too. But I can dream of seductive posking 🤔😉
 
I'm not the type people here crush on so I have nothing to worry about. :D
 
Not sure where I stand, friends-yes, crush or just one of the mob I'm not sure :( !
 
:D

Can I choose noun 1. Could it be so close that I can feel something poking at my ass and someone groping at my breasts?

Still, I crush on someone here on Lit! The highs of it is addictive more than just seductive. :rose:

I vote YES on noun 1 as well. Say where, and I'll meet on the train...
 
Crush is so teenager. Surely we adults use words like stalk, or obsess? :eek:

I prefer sweet on as in "I'm sweet on you." Well not you but you know what I mean.

It's infatuation if you want to put a more appropriate name to it, or lust if your all torn up about the other person. But sweet on is decidedly more of a Southern saying that's stayed around. And I agree, it does sound better. :)
 
I’ve been crushless since Cj and I parted ways. Nothing will ever hold a candle to that.
 
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