Lets Talk about Phone Sex...........

[bethyj32]

Where to Start......
New to the whole phone sex thing; but OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!The experience I've been having would rate 10,000,000 on the richter scale.................I feel more complete, alive then I ever have and SOOOOOOOOOO satisfied.......My Q is this:
If 2 people have very intimate phone sex that developes to really wanting to meet, how should a person go about filling the other persons needs? Keep the momentum going? I want to give this man APSOLUTELY EVERYTHING..........LOCK< STOCK<AND BARREL!!!!!!!!!Ladies your experience and expertise are truely needed............I'm pretty simple and I want to amaze my lover to be..........Sigh.....Simple country girl wants to satisfy a sexy city man..........Guys your opinions appreciated......Thanks again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[csm579]

hmmm dont know maybe we should have phone sex to see lol

 

[freakyone4u]

in most cases where i have had phone and then met the person i have found it to be rather disappointing truthfully. this is why.....

while your on the phone they can think and free anything they want to. when it comes to being in person it seems things dont go as smoothly and most of the time are more of a let down then anything. also while being on the phone their is a certain feeling of control you can place on how much you let out to a person. in person you are more for lack of a better term left "wide" open. the person can tell normally if your hiding or being shy about things. just alot of times more of a mess then keeping it on the phone.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Honey! As long as you are willing to please, and willing to learn with and from your man, there is nothing anyone else can tell you.
You don't need to try and impress him, because you obviously already have.
Just be an attentive lover, be quick to realize what he wants, and how he wants it...
I'm sure talking to him like you have recently, you would know what he likes already, so it's an advantage really. It won't be one sided, he wants to impress and amaze you just as badly, if he is interested in meeting.
I'm not a guy, but that's my opinion.
C'mon boys, help the lady out!

 

[Jack_Shriker]

as long as you can turn him on you know you got him if you want to impress him just make it hotter and better then usuall and make sure hes perfectally relaxed and ready and make sure he makes you feel it too cause ladies deserve good luving

 

[bethyj32]

thanks so much everyone!!!!!!

I really need the encouragement.......I'm walking into uncharted territory......And I want this so bad.....I plan on loving him right, all I can.....but fear sucks.....To my dear friend ms. Tricky..........I love your heart and charactor!!!!!!Thanks so very much for being such a dear friend........YOU ARE AN AMAZING WOMAN........God bless you and I'll keep you posted.....Everyone else thank you for the insight.......Your all special and kind.......

Beth

 

[Noor]

There are a couple of phone sex guys I would like to meet. I have always been real on the phone with them, and done things I would really do, I even can get distracted as I do in real life. If I were to meet them, one I know I would have no problem with once we got over just grinning at each other for a while. I guess if I had a problem with them, I would blind fold them, tell them not to move and starting talking to them like on the phone. I would actually be doing what I said and they could just talk until they could jump the gap.

I would not do anything super to impress them, being comfortable and oneself is the best thing one can be with a newish sex partner.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

just becareful on your own end to bethy dont wanna get your heart broken approach everything with thought

 

[wet faced lover]

Don't take it to seriously

Remeber sex is supposed to be fun. Yes it will be awkward at first - a real face to match the voice, sweaty palms, stuttering- As long as you both are comfortable and don't expect the rockets red glare right away, let the feelings flow. Perhaps if you both have seperate rooms in the hotel, or use a cell phone from another room to warm up? There are lots of ways it can go wrong (sorry to hear Freakyone) but if you just remember to have fun and be yourself, it will work out all in all.

 

[xxfactor]

In the words of Paris Hilton
That's hot!

 

[bethyj32]

just a thank you.......

Its been a long ass day......fuck........I do appreciate all the comments........Again you all are amazing........I'm reading the comments as we go.......So everyone enjoy.......


Beth

 

[MarchOfTheWee]

Just a word of warning about meeting after phone sex:

Sometimes you build up this amazing mental image of what sex *will* be like with this guy after incredible sessions on the phone and when the face to face finally comes, it sometimes won't live up to the phone sex arousal.

I am talking from experience as a male who had a really steamy phone sex relationship with a lady who lived 5 states away, we decided to finally get together, but in person, she was terrified and clammed up right off the bat. Then said she'd only make out after I drove 500 frigging miles.

So the point: Don't overhype yourself about this and go into it with an open mind. Just because he can moan into a phone for an hour doesn't mean he won't blow his load 2 seconds after penetrating you.

Still, go for it and have fun! Take it easy and just enjoy being together, without expectations.

 

[cryingalien]

There can be lots of pressure of meeting people that you have a connection with from afar, but you also have to let things just be.... Live for the later without the constraints of the former. Easier said then done... Good luck me lady.

Dr. CA

 

[SensualMale]

Just relax, don't expect too much, and be yourself! if it doesn't work, there's always the next number to try Good luck!

 

[bethyj32]

hummmmmmmm.....food for thought

I guess so.....and I will be myself.......I long to enjoy this with my lover.........I can't believe I'm doing this.......I haven't had another lover outside my hubby for 8 yrs.....Long story he's a prick.......But you better believe I'm gonna enjoy this...
Thanks again everyone!

Beth

 

[faultytower]

enjoy...

just wish you the best of luck in general!

 

[luvs_it_bald]

phonesex

I find it can be great fun. If that is not taken to seriously and if mutual satisfaction is what you want. Go for it if you can.

 

[WillHere]

phone sex meeting

Where to Start......
New to the whole phone sex thing; but OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!The experience I've been having would rate 10,000,000 on the richter scale.................I feel more complete, alive then I ever have and SOOOOOOOOOO satisfied.......My Q is this:
If 2 people have very intimate phone sex that developes to really wanting to meet, how should a person go about filling the other persons needs? Keep the momentum going? I want to give this man APSOLUTELY EVERYTHING..........LOCK< STOCK<AND BARREL!!!!!!!!!Ladies your experience and expertise are truely needed............I'm pretty simple and I want to amaze my lover to be..........Sigh.....Simple country girl wants to satisfy a sexy city man..........Guys your opinions appreciated......Thanks again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmm I agree w all I've read here except people I've chatted w have related meetings that were really hot. Not all but some. Sadly when the fantasy world becomes real you have to wory about safe sex. But I say if you meet a man you want to satisfy, put him at ease right away by lettinhg him know he can have you. Maybe tell him you're wet and let him finger you. Nothing beats giving him some oral sex. By the way if you want to chat about this and maybe about trying some phone sex w me, let me know.

 

[bethyj32]

love the info...keep it coming..........

I so appreciate the comments.......I think it really depends on the 2 people involved.....If there's the right chemistry, heart, determination......2 complete strangers can find real magic & passion.....But there really needs to be somthing unique between the two people.........I love to hear my lover as his voice gets thick with need & passion........Hearing his breathe coming in ragid grunts and moans......To hear his hand slide across his slick thick cock.........OH MY GOD!!!!!! Just thinking about it sends my body into convulsions.........I know what he needs and wants........I am myself with him and him me........I'm greatful for knowing him........And so greatful for the kind people on this bord who have replied.......And IF my special friend reads this bord...*WINK* and *SIGH*.........You know who you are...........Your pleasure is my pleasure........
Knowing you as well as I do, I know the voyuer in you is enjoying me bragging about our little tryst......Perhaps you'll make an appearance.....You've got bragging rights after all..........grin

Beth

 

[pao 13]

I so appreciate the comments.......I think it really depends on the 2 people involved.....If there's the right chemistry, heart, determination......2 complete strangers can find real magic & passion.....But there really needs to be somthing unique between the two people.........I love to hear my lover as his voice gets thick with need & passion........Hearing his breathe coming in ragid grunts and moans......To hear his hand slide across his slick thick cock.........OH MY GOD!!!!!! Just thinking about it sends my body into convulsions.........I know what he needs and wants........I am myself with him and him me........I'm greatful for knowing him........And so greatful for the kind people on this bord who have replied.......And IF my special friend reads this bord...*WINK* and *SIGH*.........You know who you are...........Your pleasure is my pleasure........
Knowing you as well as I do, I know the voyuer in you is enjoying me bragging about our little tryst......Perhaps you'll make an appearance.....You've got bragging rights after all..........grin

Beth

What a passionate approach in phone-sex? I have tried twice and i relly felt great...I am 23 years old,from Greece studying in UK at the moment and i would love to chat with you about phone-sex, fantasies and other topics....I have many pics of myself if you want to check on me, just ask for them. What do i have to do in order to qualify for some phone sex? I would do anything....just try me....

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Just be yourself, and it'll be great.

But also, please be careful. You've only known this person via phone and computer, you have no idea who he really is or what he's really up to. Take precautions and use common sense.

I wish you all the best!

 

[bethyj32]

Your sooooooooo right........

I'm being very careful.........And cautious........There are people out there who will hurt and use you......Physically and Mentally.....Women can't be careful enough.....Thats why I keep my phone partners down to just a couple....My hubby and my friend........It can be so Dangerous......I'm not going to have phone sex with anyone else.....For procautions sake......Again thanks people......This thread is getting bigger then I thought it would.......Women & Men; I repeat: PLEASE be careful......Phone sex and meeting can be dangerous........Cover all your bases; BE SURE, be safe........But don't forget to be happy......Fill your life with joy.........Incredible sexual fullfillment comes from
making the right decision for YOU!!!!!!! Don't base it on others ideas of right and wrong.......
Thanks again.....
Beth

 

[swtcum]

Yes, phone sex can be a hugre turn-on. I have actually came 3-4 times while having phone sex- that doesn't happen too often during RT sex. Maybe bacause with phone sex your mind just takes over and your body just follows. HAVE FUN!!

 

[wet faced lover]

Looks like you've got a good head about this tryst. I really hope you enjoy it as much as he does. Be cautious but relaxed and keep things light. Good luck.

 

[bethyj32]

Hello & Good Morning!

I was giving everyone a HUGE hug this morning...........Hope everyone slept well........Long day yesterday.....draining....Much better this morning............Again thanks to everyone who's been putting forth they're opinion.......Keep em coming......I'll try to interject occassionally........Have a great day!!!!!!

Beth