Forty-something woman seeking solid friendship and HOT phone sex

In_Mars_Orbit

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Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
 
Sent you a PM and thought I would give this a bump for you to that way if you decide I'm not the one for you, you'll get some more attention.
 
Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
Wonderfuly thought out and written post. I would enjoy connecting with you if you are still searching. If not then have a great time!
 
I find having a connection to another makes the sexy stuff even better and that’s physical, sexting and even phone. It’s nice to know who is enjoying what you’re doing.
 
My apologies for barging in, aero2nite. Apologies to you mainly, dear lady who posted this ad!

But some men do post similar thoughts as IMO does. YOU are one of them, and I am another. But of course a woman with this kind of post receives far more attention. ..... Anyway, good luck to both of you, aero2mite and In Mars Orbit!
Damn I have been looking for the same from man's point of view for a longtime now. Unfortunately its always location location and time zones not to mention finding the right match. Wish you all the best luck and any females looking for the Canadian connection, please let me know!
 
Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
I've always wanted to try this. Never done it before though. I'm a 22 yr old m. Hit me up if interested.
 
Ahhh... I stand corrected.......

She is back.
 
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APRIL 15th 2019 was the last post by In_Mars_Orbit.
She was a VIRGIN with 13 posts
Let this thread SINK!!

Pad Foot, If you clean your spectacles really well, you can discover she posted her FIRST personal ad in April of 2019, not her LAST. And indeed this ad that everyone is responding to, is only her SECOND one.

Now is there anything wrong with posting two ads in three years, I ask you? And may I ask, what business is it of yours, to audit how many ads somebody is posting, and then complaining about that number?
 
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Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
PM me if you’re up for some good phone sex now thanks
 
I can’t wait for you to talk dirty to me! What turns you on?
 
Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
48 married male. absolutely love what you had to say. what can
 
Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
Exactly what I am looking for hope to hear from you, if you are still looking.
 
Hello so in looking at this thread , my question is how do you choose?
not a guy on here would not be game for someone that is open and NORMAL, then to light that extra fire sexy and not afraid of showing it
 
Hello fellas,

Let’s talk about phone sex, shall we? (And then, let’s have some.)

That’s the short version of what I’m looking for by posting this. If you’re interested, keep reading the longer version. Trust me when I say it will save us both some time.

I’ve been on Lit for a while now. I’ve met some amazing men on this site. (You know who you are, hello again, I hope you’re well!) I posted a personal waaaay back when, so feel free to read it for reference and a taste of my personality. But life has changed a lot since then and now I’m looking for something different.

Openness is my policy. My partner is well aware that I’m posting and encourages me to do so. (All he wants are the naughty details, and I’m more than happy to oblige.) He’s a fantastic lover but my sex drive is much, much higher than his. He wants me to get what I need, so here we are.

So if you’re looking for a life partner, this is not the ad for you.

What I’m looking for: I want to find a few very select men who are up for phone sex on a regular basis. But not just phone sex… anybody who is really good at phone sex knows that it takes more than the dirty talk to get things going. It takes actually getting to know the person you’re playing around with. That means that yes, I want to get to know you, and that means talking about (gasp!) things other than sex.

I want to be able to ask about your day. Tell me about your dreams, what you had for dinner, the funny thing your kid did today, and the very not-funny thing your boss did today. I want to hear about the beautiful things you’re grateful for. And then – only then – do I want to fuck you silly.

What you get: Great conversation, an optimistic outlook, someone who actually cares to listen, and a woman with the filthiest, dirtiest and most open-minded sexual attitude you’ll ever find. You want it hot? For the right man, I’m a volcano.

My sex drive is high. (Did I mention that yet?) By “high” I mean “this woman might kill me before she’s through” kind of high. Consider yourself warned.

A few caveats: I don’t mind if you’re single, married or attached. You’re a big boy – you make your own decisions. However, I am looking for someone who can actually speak with me on a regular basis. By that I mean a few times a week (at least, though daily would be awesome). Not just a wham-bam but an actual discussion. If your situation doesn’t allow for the freedom for phone calls, then this won’t work out.

I want a man who has enough experience to be confident but maybe not enough experience to be cocky. If you understand what I mean by that, you’re mature enough to be a strong contender.

And finally, if you haven’t figured it out already, I’m looking for a long-term kind of thing. I want to get to know you. I want a solid friendship with you. I want the kind of friendship that makes all the hot, steamy, nasty phone sex a delightful bonus, not the main event.

If this sounds like what you want, get in touch. Thanks for reading! :)
Hey babe just read your post from start to finish (why wouldn’t I? It was hot! I’m actually looking for the same thing and I can totally relate to you when you talk about wanting a deeper experience over the phone. Several years ago I had the good fortune of having someone fantastic phone sex with a wonderful woman that was ongoing for about a year. We’d meet up on the phone several times a week!

What I loved about having phone sex with Jules is that there was lots of good conversation that went with it. Sometimes we talk for an hour before she would even start cumming, and often times after I’d had my orgasm we‘d sit and talk for an hour as well! That’s what I would love to find again!
 
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