Let's be honest, does SIZE really matter?

[greenffingers]

Seriously. But maybe she gets off on that severe pain?

I don't really like to think that I'd inflict pain

 

[Rassitter]

I would like to hear the women chime in more about what they like, maybe name comparable objects in size so we have something to go by if they don't know the measurements. Although the tp roll seemed silly, at least it was something to go by. Big ones and little ones is such a relative term. Also chime in what their thoughts on the TP roll saying is, I had never heard that until yesterday.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Rass, I found on another website about the TP roll as well. It says if you can't fit you're thicker than average.


Seems we're the only ones posting in this thread? lol

 

[Rassitter]

Too bad, it could be educational. Unfortunately as guys we have little to compare too. It is easier for women (I think, maybe I am wrong) but guys don't usually sit around saying how is your cock, what is your favorite technique to get a girl off, what is your best trick. *Laughs*

OK women, this is your chance to tell us men what you want what you like and dislike. I know it is different for everyone, but the more info given is the more knowledge gained, if the mind is the biggest sex organ, then it is in your best interest to educate as many men as possible about this stuff, their are plenty of eager listeners.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Rass, maybe start another thread, since the only that seems to be viewing this one is you and me

 

[Rassitter]

*Laughs*

Maybe it would still just be us two, or worse maybe you would not even come over to it. Then it would just be me. *Sigh*

No, there are lurkers here and any moment someone will chime in with all sorts of valuable info.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I"m still trying to figure out how I ended up in the playground in the first place


*scratches head*

 

[Rassitter]

Is that where we are? I thought I was looking in the personals. I am not sure how I got here either. *LOL*

Looked like an interesting topic to see what women really like, instead maybe all the men should have just lurked. Maybe the women do not like to speak freely with the men posting too. I don't know. *Shrugs*

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Is that where we are? I thought I was looking in the personals. I am not sure how I got here either. *LOL*

Looked like an interesting topic to see what women really like, instead maybe all the men should have just lurked. Maybe the women do not like to speak freely with the men posting too. I don't know. *Shrugs*

If you scroll up to the top of the page it says where you are.....lit personals then playground.....i never go in the playground or personals thread, so I'm not sure how I ended up here

haha, oh well, it was educating none-the-less

 

[Rassitter]

Well, maybe you could get things rolling and start being more educational.

What are some of your favorite positions, likes and dislikes. What to you is the perfect size and why, how do you prefer it? What gets you the hottest?

 

[SensualGent69]

Size??

matter for what?

<<<<<<<<<<<<I dunno, u tell me.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Does it matter in general?

Rass, I mentioned a few things a few posts back, but I'll try to answer some more.

I happen to like them big, THICK like yours or even thicker, tho I've not seen anyone much thicker than that, then again it's hard to say cuz it's difficult to judge by a picture, but anyway. I think around 6-8 inches is about perfect, 7 is good, anymore than 8 and that's just too much.

I enjoy the way a big fat cock feels in my hand and other places too

I am a very sensual person, I like lots of teasing, touching, foreplay, kissing, making out. Having a big hard cock rubbed all over my body dripping pre-cum that's fantastic!

If I were involved seriously with someone and they were average or less than average I could deal, doens't mean I wouldn't fantasize about big ones, tho

 

[Stryderthorongil]

Does it matter in general?

Rass, I mentioned a few things a few posts back, but I'll try to answer some more.

I happen to like them big, THICK like yours or even thicker, tho I've not seen anyone much thicker than that, then again it's hard to say cuz it's difficult to judge by a picture, but anyway. I think around 6-8 inches is about perfect, 7 is good, anymore than 8 and that's just too much.

I enjoy the way a big fat cock feels in my hand and other places too

I am a very sensual person, I like lots of teasing, touching, foreplay, kissing, making out. Having a big hard cock rubbed all over my body dripping pre-cum that's fantastic!

If I were involved seriously with someone and they were average or less than average I could deal, doens't mean I wouldn't fantasize about big ones, tho

Hmmmm, now do you use a tape measurer or just a ruler for this???

 

[Rassitter]

Does it matter in general?

Rass, I mentioned a few things a few posts back, but I'll try to answer some more.

I happen to like them big, THICK like yours or even thicker, tho I've not seen anyone much thicker than that, then again it's hard to say cuz it's difficult to judge by a picture, but anyway. I think around 6-8 inches is about perfect, 7 is good, anymore than 8 and that's just too much.

I enjoy the way a big fat cock feels in my hand and other places too

I am a very sensual person, I like lots of teasing, touching, foreplay, kissing, making out. Having a big hard cock rubbed all over my body dripping pre-cum that's fantastic!

If I were involved seriously with someone and they were average or less than average I could deal, doens't mean I wouldn't fantasize about big ones, tho

OK, so what do you like for teasing. I like to be in control myself but want to know what I am doing while in control. What are your favorite ways to be teased. Do prefer gentle stroking, do you like your breast squeezed harder? Do you like your ass squeezed or playe with, your ears nibbled, your legs stroked, your feet touched???? I know there are lots of questions

 

[handy_gal]

Wow, thanks for all the interesting replies.

Actually, I was once told .......

It's kind of like a wrench.........even if you've got a big one, you may not be able to do the job right if you don't know how to use it.

So I would think if you know how to use your 'wrench', you can finish any job

HURRAY FOR ALL WRENCHES

 

[Rassitter]

So tell us how to best use are tools. Not just are wrenches, are hands and mouths too. Where do you want them, what do you want them doing?

Curious minds want to know.

 

[plesmone]

Too bad, it could be educational. Unfortunately as guys we have little to compare too. It is easier for women (I think, maybe I am wrong) but guys don't usually sit around saying how is your cock, what is your favorite technique to get a girl off, what is your best trick. *Laughs*

OK women, this is your chance to tell us men what you want what you like and dislike. I know it is different for everyone, but the more info given is the more knowledge gained, if the mind is the biggest sex organ, then it is in your best interest to educate as many men as possible about this stuff, their are plenty of eager listeners.

Like a nice straight dick - I don't know what a guy does when his dick has a big curve in it - surgery or something?
Like cumming inside me - that doesn't mean the back of my throat
Like when he spends time exploring my body using heis hands, fingers, lips, tongue.. I work hard keeping my shape so I want a lustful reward.

is this the kind of things you wanted to know?

 

[Moon Dragon]

Average is best for me. Biggest I had was 12 1/2 by 2 1/2 and that really hurt allot of times. Smallest was maybe 3-4 inches and I was bored senseless. I wouldn't want less than 6 and no more than 9 max. Anything in between there is good. Easier to explore all the options that way. There are limitations to a monster and the small ones just aren't worth my time. Best sex I ever had he was between 7-8, but it really does make a difference when a man knows what he is doing. Skills are much more important than an inch or two of difference.

As for girth, I don't want a real fatty. That can hurt too. I like them thin and thick ... doesn't matter much there because I will squeeze anyway.

 

[Rassitter]

Like a nice straight dick - I don't know what a guy does when his dick has a big curve in it - surgery or something?
Like cumming inside me - that doesn't mean the back of my throat
Like when he spends time exploring my body using heis hands, fingers, lips, tongue.. I work hard keeping my shape so I want a lustful reward.

is this the kind of things you wanted to know?

OK, some good input. *Smile* I feel like Johhnie 5 in that movie with ally sheedy "Input need more input" *LOL* ok, maybe I was the only one that loved that movie.

So it sounds like you like to be ravished, you want the man all over you kissing, fondling, stroking, licking all over your body as he is overcome with lust. Is that accurate?

Are their any women that feel differently? That strongly dislike that.

Are their any types of signals women send when they do want to be ravished?

 

[Rassitter]

Average is best for me. Biggest I had was 12 1/2 by 2 1/2 and that really hurt allot of times. Smallest was maybe 3-4 inches and I was bored senseless. I wouldn't want less than 6 and no more than 9 max. Anything in between there is good. Easier to explore all the options that way. There are limitations to a monster and the small ones just aren't worth my time. Best sex I ever had he was between 7-8, but it really does make a difference when a man knows what he is doing. Skills are much more important than an inch or two of difference.

As for girth, I don't want a real fatty. That can hurt too. I like them thin and thick ... doesn't matter much there because I will squeeze anyway.

Could you elaborate on skills? What are some of the things that set one guy apart from another? What dose one do to be classified as skilled?

 

[Rassitter]

BUMP......"Need more input" *LOL* OK a johnny 5 imitation may not work when writing.

 

[Moon Dragon]

Could you elaborate on skills? What are some of the things that set one guy apart from another? What dose one do to be classified as skilled?

Sorry for not replying earlier. It is getting difficult to find threads on such a busy forum. hehe

I don't know how it is for you, but long before sex even takes place I have usually discussed the things I like with him and he as shared his turn ons too. Or, if that doesn't happen, if he is willing to allow me to guide his hands and mouth to the places I want to be most touched, or allows me to guide his hips with my hands and the motion of my own hips then that is just as good.

I don't expect the first time to be "perfect" although sometimes it is, but it is the repeat performance that determines if he is a giving and caring lover ... the desire to learn my body and play it like a master ... this is skill to me. A skilled lover knows when I want to be thrown down on the bed and pounded without foreplay and when to make slow, sweet love to me. He knows more than one position and he knows how to vary the angle and the rotation of his hips during penetration to make me gasp. He knows just the right moment to do something unexpected: lean down to nibble my neck, thumb a nipple, etc. He is inventive and spontaneous and does not blindly follow a routine time and again.

He tells me how to please him and is honest when something isn't really doing it for him. He is obviously pleased by me and obviously desires to please me.

Ideally, no matter who plays the role of submissive or dominant, good sex is something done between equals. A good lover does not demean me or belittle me ... he revels in the experience and makes me believe that I am the most beautiful woman on the planet with his actions, (and sometimes with sweet words.)

There really isn't a set form you can follow or a particular skill that you can learn ... it is a mindset that seperates the good from the bad.

 

[Rassitter]

Awesom input Moon Dragon,

This is great. I really think your second time around rule is a good one. THe first one their needs to be some exploring to see what your partner likes. All women are different and some want differnet things so it is great that you kind of lay out the roadmap the first time, and if he is a good driver, he will get there on his own the next.

 

[peanutsx39]

Oh Yeah!

My Husband isn't large, I would say average, But I have been with larger men in my life, And Yes.Size does Matter! At least for me. There's nothing like playing with a cock that is larger than normal and feeling inside me or my mouth,..as for myself,...YES I Think IT'S HOT!!

 

[Rassitter]

My Husband isn't large, I would say average, But I have been with larger men in my life, And Yes.Size does Matter! At least for me. There's nothing like playing with a cock that is larger than normal and feeling inside me or my mouth,..as for myself,...YES I Think IT'S HOT!!

So for you are you saying it is more of a visual thing being able to play with it than a physical thing? Or do you really feel the difference when he enters you?