Let's be honest, does SIZE really matter?

[Guest]

size

Im only an inch, look at my pics to prove it but never had any problems....lol
ok I lied but still Im not like hung or anything, just the average 5 to 7 1/2 incher depending on arousal, but never had a problem my response usually is a 'moan'. I just think its sad for a woman to judge on size alone technique has a lot to do with it to......

 

[dreamingjeanne]

Had both, have opinion

As I told some friends, size does matter. If it's too big, it won't fit. If it's too small, it won't be felt. But it is all subjective. Too big for one woman may be just right for another. Look at Goldilocks!

 

[Exciteher]

Want honest? Here is honest.

Average is perfect. Yeah, there are some bigger girls that fit and perfer bigger guys, and some gals that have a fetish... but for all other women, average is perfect. For really small women...average is big.. and can be too big even!

And for anal... bigger than average is a total drag for most women... here average seems like almost an upper limit in my experience.

AND... there are plenty of women who actually perfer smaller sized cocks.

One more time, all together now.. Average is perfect.

But don't take my word for this, slowly back away from those porn tapes, put down those tape measures and go out and play with a lot of real women... at least a semi-representative sized sample... and find out for yourself.

And here is something very few people seem to know about. The angle of a cock...and the angle of a womans vagina vary from individual to individual. Having a good angle matchup with your partner is WAY more of a factor that cock size ever will be. Why is this still such a mystery? Because so far in this society, so many people have had so few sex partners in their lives that this phenomonia has gone right under the radar screen of most people...even some sex researchers. But this info has been well known for centuries in a few other cultures...even ritualized in terms of mate selection/marrage rites... and it is now known about in the west.

Want to worry about your cock? Worry about the angle. Otherwise..just go out and use it!

 

[rakastuja]

I have experience only with average sized so I dont know if it really does the difference. But I find big cock far more appealing and attractive.

Big cock, standing rock hard, with couple thick veins running all the way to shiny, well formed head... looking masculine and dominating... as a thought it does make my knees weak.

 

[greenffingers]

I find it matters if you buy the wrong size shorts!

 

[greenffingers]

Only kidding


I'm Mr Average too

 

[Exciteher]

IF a man's cock really could "push your cervix open" you'd be in a lot of pain, not pleasure.

There's a reason why women dilate during labor and not every other day of the year.

Indeed!

I'm older..active.... I swing.. and lost count of the number of women I have been with, have accidently "bumped" a few cervixs (not in years though! Something I avoid at all costs!) ...and NOT ONCE was it a good thing, talk about a mood changer! Perhaps there are a few women that can take sort of pain??... Never been with one myself, that is for damn sure.

 

[Exciteher]

I have experience only with average sized so I dont know if it really does the difference. But I find big cock far more appealing and attractive.

Big cock, standing rock hard, with couple thick veins running all the way to shiny, well formed head... looking masculine and dominating... as a thought it does make my knees weak.

Yes, there is a visual and mental "turn-on" related to size for some women , that is for sure... but as for real physical "preference" with women that have experience, on the average its a whole other story.

And there are women that really like the "stretched wide open feel"... but again most guys have enough girth that sensation can be easily accomidated with technique.. only about the first third of the vagina is enervated you know, and the g-spot is not that far in. Knowing how to work that and how to keep the clit happy is a hell of a lot more important that size...

 

[rakastuja]

And there are women that really like the "stretched wide open feel"... but again most guys have enough girth that sensation can be easily accomidated with technique.. only about the first third of the vagina is enervated you know, and the g-spot is not that far in. Knowing how to work that and how to keep the clit happy is a hell of a lot more important that size...

Probably yes. Average size feels just good already and at least I usually never get orgasm without clitoral stimulation. For me its way more important that guy knows how to move so that clit gets something too, or has skilled fingers.

 

[BedtimeStories]

Indeed!

I'm older..active.... I swing.. and lost count of the number of women I have been with, have accidently "bumped" a few cervixs (not in years though! Something I avoid at all costs!) ...and NOT ONCE was it a good thing, talk about a mood changer! Perhaps there are a few women that can take sort of pain??... Never been with one myself, that is for damn sure.

Actually, I do enjoy having my cervix hit/bumped during sex.

It is something entirely different to claim a man's cock can PUSH PAST the cervix to enter the womb, though.

 

[greenffingers]

Probably yes. Average size feels just good already and at least I usually never get orgasm without clitoral stimulation. For me its way more important that guy knows how to move so that clit gets something too, or has skilled fingers.

I have found so many times that actual fucking, is just a small part of love-making with orgasm for me and partner almost already starting for us both when she wants me inside her. Some positions for sex to are better for continuing to caress clit and other places whilst fucking. I suppose a very small cock would limit the possiblities for some positions.

 

[SallyIsHere]

who cares

A guys who is creative, sensual, communicative and open makes me want HIS dick, big or small. The only really big one I have had was attached to guy who learned everything from watching porn. He was just not very much fun to be with.
If you are dumb as a box of rocks a big cock wont save you. Let's stop treating each other likes pieces of meat and work on being creative and exciting. If I want something really big, I know where I can buy it.

Sally

The opening of the cervix is about the size of a soda straw. I never met anyone who found having their cervix dialated an erotic thrill.

 

[greenffingers]

A guys who is creative, sensual, communicative and open makes me want HIS dick, big or small. The only really big one I have had was attached to guy who learned everything from watching porn. He was just not very much fun to be with.
If you are dumb as a box of rocks a big cock wont save you. Let's stop treating each other likes pieces of meat and work on being creative and exciting. If I want something really big, I know where I can buy it.

Sally

The opening of the cervix is about the size of a soda straw. I never met anyone who found having their cervix dialated an erotic thrill.

But I guess some people (not me) do go in for extremes that cause pain. I am much more into learning and sharing every inch of the path to ecstacy.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I've been with a lot of guys, seen ALL SIZES, shapes, angles, and I have to say, I get off on a bigger one, the thicker the better, not so much length, I have a 9 incher, that wasn't so good, but a good fat 7 incher is just about perfect, however, that's not to say average hasnt' worked for me, it has witht he right guy.

i agree, technique IS important, i'd take an average guy with skills over a big one with no skills ANY DAY.

but sorry to say, no matter how good you are, a small one just doens't do it for me, it's a turn off.

I dont mind having my cervix massaged, if I'm horny enough, btw, the shape of a woman vagina changes when she's aroused, the cervix dips down to try to meet the cock, so even an average sized cock can reach the cervix at the right angle

ANgle, good point, excite, the angle can make a difference

 

[pleasingsue]

follow up...

Anyone know much about the variance in length and girthfor any given guy? I'm curious how much variance is normal. When I masturbate, my cock sometimes feels small, I've measured it as short as 5 1/2"...yet, when I get real turned on, as much as 6 3/4". The girth seems to vary as well. I know this has to do with stimulation, but...how much is normal? Any one taken to measuring? A former lover of mine whipped out a ruler once, and since then I've been intrigued.

Also, what is the perfect sized cock for giving head?

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Anyone know much about the variance in length and girthfor any given guy? I'm curious how much variance is normal. When I masturbate, my cock sometimes feels small, I've measured it as short as 5 1/2"...yet, when I get real turned on, as much as 6 3/4". The girth seems to vary as well. I know this has to do with stimulation, but...how much is normal? Any one taken to measuring? A former lover of mine whipped out a ruler once, and since then I've been intrigued.

Also, what is the perfect sized cock for giving head?

interesting website here, but dont know that it says much about variance in size....but only look if you want to look at lots of different cock, haha

http://www.erectionphotos.com/frames_index.htm

 

[greenffingers]

Anyone know much about the variance in length and girthfor any given guy? I'm curious how much variance is normal. When I masturbate, my cock sometimes feels small, I've measured it as short as 5 1/2"...yet, when I get real turned on, as much as 6 3/4". The girth seems to vary as well. I know this has to do with stimulation, but...how much is normal? Any one taken to measuring? A former lover of mine whipped out a ruler once, and since then I've been intrigued.

Also, what is the perfect sized cock for giving head?

Mine gets hard, then as orgasm approaches harder still and noticeably larger, I think that's not unusual?

 

[YKnotinDC]

Anyone know much about the variance in length and girthfor any given guy? I'm curious how much variance is normal. When I masturbate, my cock sometimes feels small, I've measured it as short as 5 1/2"...yet, when I get real turned on, as much as 6 3/4". The girth seems to vary as well. I know this has to do with stimulation, but...how much is normal? Any one taken to measuring? A former lover of mine whipped out a ruler once, and since then I've been intrigued.

I've noticed this as well. I'm sometimes much larger than at other times, usually when I'm MORE stimulated. I don't know that I've ever been able to get a "maximum size" measurement since actually measuring means removal of said increased stimulation. (I've measured myself at 6.75" long and 5.5" around.)

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Mine gets hard, then as orgasm approaches harder still and noticeably larger, I think that's not unusual?

true, it gets all throbby and fat when close to cumming.....

not that I would know

 

[greenffingers]

true, it gets all throbby and fat when close to cumming.....

not that I would know

You've been peeping!

 

[Rassitter]

*Laughs*

Well, I still have know idea if size matters. It appears that beauty is in the eye of the beholder (Or the person holding the old one eye for you)

Someone brought up a good point earlier, perhaps Ladies should be telling their perfect size, not just big or small.

I am not pornstar long, but have been told I am pretty thick and the perfect size to sit on. (Course that was my GF and I hardly expect her to say anything bad at the time)

I still would be curious to know what women do like though. I get that no matter what, the guy has to be able to use it, I am just curious all other things being equal.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Rass, THICK is gooood, I don't know about inches, but big enough it won't fit in an empty toilet paper roll is a good comparison, I've always heard.

I like dirty talking and saying outloud to a guy that's not so well endowed "fuck me with your fat cock" just doesn't have the same ring to it

 

[Rassitter]

Rass, THICK is gooood, I don't know about inches, but big enough it won't fit in an empty toilet paper roll is a good comparison, I've always heard.

I like dirty talking and saying outloud to a guy that's not so well endowed "fuck me with your fat cock" just doesn't have the same ring to it

*LOL* No, I guess it does not have the same ring, but it sure would be nice to hear.

OK, I admit it, I had to go look at a toilet paper roll, honestly I don't think anyone could get the head of their hard cock in their, maybe soft, so if that is the measurement I think we are all safe. *Whew*

Never heard that before, but I had to go look. Too funny.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

*LOL* No, I guess it does not have the same ring, but it sure would be nice to hear.

OK, I admit it, I had to go look at a toilet paper roll, honestly I don't think anyone could get the head of their hard cock in their, maybe soft, so if that is the measurement I think we are all safe. *Whew*

Never heard that before, but I had to go look. Too funny.

uhm, you've obviously NOT seen a lot of cock? the average sized male WoULD fit.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I also remember hearing something about a dollar bill to measure girth, but I can't remember how it was supposed to go?

Seems lengthwise that wouldn't work, and width is awfully big, but then again, i'm not looking at a dollar bill, how long is a dollar bill anyway? I always thought anything over 5 inches girth was pretty thick

maybe im wrong?