Lessons in Flirting

[Aeroil]

*takes stick out, and puts it up Aeroil's butt* Hey, I know you love that stuff, so don't go begging me to turn Domme for you. *walks away* hmph

lol, I do indeed, but a pokey stick may not be the best toy.

 

[graceanne]

i heard about one taunter...they called her "the antichrist of all subbies"...they say one day she vanished...rumour has it that betticus ate her

seems like a dangerous game for a good little sub like me.

*cough cough choke* A good little sub? Yeah, and I'm sweet and angelic.

I second marquis, be careful of dolf. She's tricky.

 

[Xelebes]

Let it be known that I suck at flirting, however there have been a few times I have successfully flirted enough to coax a positive response from the girl. However, once that positive response is blurted it all falls from there and becomes one hell of a mine field for me to tiptoe through. More often than not, my tiptoeing is not successful.

 

[babiesmiles]

i heard about one taunter...they called her "the antichrist of all subbies"...they say one day she vanished...rumour has it that betticus ate her

wow Dolf it seems to me such a compliment . I'd rather like somebody would say such a nice thing about me .....

*..... leaves stick where Killshandra put earlier and consoles herself going shoe shopping ..... Doooolf wanna join ? *

 

[Vixandra]

Try a confident, hopeful smile and ask them thier fav flogger/whip/crop/etc brand.


And then get something better then Pokey to stick them with. Little thin crackers covered in chocolate aren't that effective ya know.

 

[Marquis]

I think I'm actually a little TOO good at flirting. I think I start to sound like a used car salesman after a while.

I gotta get better at making things sound fresh, maybe even feigning some nervousness. I didn't even get to fuck a single damn spring breaker!

I would get them back to the crib and they'd be like "Damn, how often do you do this?"

"Uhhhhhh, just for you baby!"

 

[cellis]

I think being yourself is the best and of course telling them that you LOVE it when they use (PYW) on you....

 

[s'lara]

Hysterical that i found this thread ... auspicious timing.

Flirting obviously serves a purpose. Validation of attractiveness from others, exercising ability to engage anothers attention in a lighthearted and sexual way, etc. Or plain ol' inability to refrain from netting as much opposite sex/same sex opportunities. Whatever the case, the best kind of flirting is unique to the individual. Sexy vs. intelligent. Coquettish vs. blinding, in your face bravado. To pick the mode that suits you is really key. Anything else is constantly being "on."

Good luck shy.

lara

 

[dolf]

ok, shy eye contact...like he's too yummy not to look at but he makes you feel just a little bit nervous. if you can carry this of while still seeming confident you're there.

small intimacies...touching his arm occassionally as you speak.

smile! a smile makes you look open, freindly and fun. even if you barely speak to them if you smile they'll remember you.

oh, and flash your boobs
great boobs hon.

 

[shy slave]

So you're rebranding yourself as a good sub now?

Wow, you got some serious PR work ahead of you.

I second this opinion Dolf

 

[shy slave]

if you're interested he must be special...
if he's special you should make him feel special...

tell him you've taken a vow of non-bj...but if he meets you in the alley out the back in ten minutes you'll make an exception

Hey if this works Marquis then thats the first one i will try

And honey..there ALL special rofl

 

[shy slave]

Let it be known that I suck at flirting, however there have been a few times I have successfully flirted enough to coax a positive response from the girl. However, once that positive response is blurted it all falls from there and becomes one hell of a mine field for me to tiptoe through. More often than not, my tiptoeing is not successful.

Xelebes I know that story only too well.

I watched Dolf in action at a munch she had scary Doms all over her and she just smiled sweetly. If only they knew she could eat them up, spit them out and still have an innocent smile.
She is the AA equivelent of subbies.

 

[shy slave]

Hysterical that i found this thread ... auspicious timing.

Flirting obviously serves a purpose. Validation of attractiveness from others, exercising ability to engage anothers attention in a lighthearted and sexual way, etc. Or plain ol' inability to refrain from netting as much opposite sex/same sex opportunities. Whatever the case, the best kind of flirting is unique to the individual. Sexy vs. intelligent. Coquettish vs. blinding, in your face bravado. To pick the mode that suits you is really key. Anything else is constantly being "on."

Good luck shy.

lara

LARA!!!!!!!!

I need specifics !!!!
I have no clue how to act sexy/intelligent (and that one scares them off!) coquettish or blinding.
Help a small shy sub in need here ..Pleeeeeaaasseeee

 

[shy slave]

Ok you lot
so far i have a sharp stick to poke them and all other Doms in the vicinity, once I have removed it from whoevers butt is is currently in)
saying no to bj's then giving in as long as its in an alley way
smiles of varying degrees ~hopeful, friendly, sweet, angelic,confident
small intimacies (I thought you said no bj's thats a small and intimate, well depending on the size of course )
Flashing my boobs ~but how much boob and when???????
Being myself (actually cellis thats where it goes wrong, so for one month NOT going to be myself! lol)

Is that the best you can do!!!!!

I am desperate here!!!

No-one has mentioned batting eyelashes and doing that Princess Di head tuck thing, which i have tried in the mirror and yes i looked stupid!

 

[dolf]

No-one has mentioned batting eyelashes and doing that Princess Di head tuck thing, which i have tried in the mirror and yes i looked stupid!

that's coz they look stupid

oh, and the walk...gotta bounce and bum wriggle.


hell, what am i saying? act like yuo've no interest in then and they'll persue you for the thrill of the chase...men are funny like that...get's really annoying when you honestly have no interest

 

[shy slave]

that's coz they look stupid

oh, and the walk...gotta bounce and bum wriggle.


hell, what am i saying? act like yuo've no interest in then and they'll persue you for the thrill of the chase...men are funny like that...get's really annoying when you honestly have no interest

Its difficult to act like your not interested when all you can think is about being on your knees taking their....

Oh oh getting carried away sorry

Ok taking notes ~Act not interested.

Hmmm but then what do you do if their NOT interested
This is hard work

 

[dolf]

Ok taking notes ~Act not interested.

at the same time as acting very interested.

 

[shy slave]

at the same time as acting very interested.

I going to cry if you dont start making sense soon.

Please dont tell me that dolf is the queen of flirting, or I really am going to cry.

So far I am acting uninterested yet i am interested
saying no to bj's but willing to give them anyway
dolf your making my head hurt!!!!!!!!!

Anyone any other ideas????

I have given myself f one month to flirt and be a slut, after that I may return to my usual self, then again I may not

 

[dolf]

Please dont tell me that dolf is the queen of flirting, or I really am going to cry.

urm...*hands you a tissue*

 

[graceanne]

Ignore Dolf, she's being a brat.

Ok, there's the hair flip. That lets them know you're interested. Don't stare or follow them around or anything like that. That screams 'desperate' and 'clingy'. Even if you are, you don't want them to know that. Eye contact is important, but don't stare at them, that's just creepy. Keep your eye contact to what you'd use on a friend. That combined with the hair flip will let them know you're interested. Their's also smiling and laughing. Don't ask me why, but that's important to flirting. And when you seem to have them hooked, go back and sit with Dolf again, and chat with her. Don't look over there a lot.

 

[shy slave]

I am NOT flirting when the Queen of flirting is there.
After all i could stand naked on a table and they would not notice me, if dolf was in the room!
This is strictly for when I meet people and dolf is not there to distract them lol

 

[dolf]

I am NOT flirting when the Queen of flirting is there.
After all i could stand naked on a table and they would not notice me, if dolf was in the room!
This is strictly for when I meet people and dolf is not there to distract them lol

that's sooo not fair...i sat in the corner and ignored almost everyone all night

 

[Betticus]

i heard about one taunter...they called her "the antichrist of all subbies"...they say one day she vanished...rumour has it that betticus ate her

seems like a dangerous game for a good little sub like me.

I'm going to oil up my leather just for you Dolfiepants!

 

[Betticus]

Xelebes I know that story only too well.

I watched Dolf in action at a munch she had scary Doms all over her and she just smiled sweetly. If only they knew she could eat them up, spit them out and still have an innocent smile.
She is the AA equivelent of subbies.

You girls haven't seen scary yet.

 

[dolf]

You girls haven't seen scary yet.

are you talking about me or you?