Leahaven

[naughty_stories]

The guy who did the engraving on my two little locks also polished them! And he didn't charge me any extra for it! He called me later in the day when I dropped them off and asked me if I would liked them polished. I thought he was just going to clean them up or something. I was like, "sure!" Although they looked perfectly fine to me as they were. But they now have a mirror finish! They look fantastic! The initials are beautiful! I can't believe how nice these turned out! I can't wait to see the look on Robbie's face when he sees all this. It will be all I can do to wait another week to use these and the new cage.

Honestly.. why are you waiting ?

 

[NancyPan]

Can't one of you out there make this frigid weather go away? I hate it! It was 17 degrees when I got up this morning. One morning when Robbie left for work, I checked my phone and it was 16 degrees. That was when I decided I wanted him to quit work. Although the idea of him quitting work was a seed Erin had planted in my head probably like a month before.

The new cock cage arrived yesterday. The box was sitting on the front stoop when I got home from work, and I didn't think about it being the cage. When I brought it inside and opened the box, I was shocked to think it had been sitting outside our house for God knows how long. Imagine if a porch pirate stole THAT! OMG! How embarrassing that would be!

It's a good thing Robbie has strong legs, because he's going to need them to carry this steel dungeon! This cage is weighty, and I like that! It's called, "No Escape," and just seeing it gets me a little aroused. I can't wait to put this thing to use! And by the way, in a dm someone said I should get the lock engraved with my initials. Done. I pick them up at lunchtime today (I got two engraved).

Also btw, in another dm a guy told me he has a 6.5 inch cock. I went and got a ruler to see what 6.5 inches looks like, and that looks huge! I told him that, and he said "no one has ever told me that before." I think those were his exact words. He said he wanted to see his wife enjoy a big cock. Isn't 6.5 inches already huge?

And one last thing. Quite a few people have said that I should tell Robbie he is not allowed to cum without my permission. In other words, he is not allowed to go hide somewhere and jerk off. I knew I could not tell him that in the normal course of the day, so I waited until he and I were having sex. In the heat of passion, he will at least admit to stuff. So two nights ago, we had our usual routine where he gives me oral and then I usually jerk him off (give him a handjob?). But on this night I told him to jerk himself and, per another person's suggestion, I told him not to cum until I said he could. He was naked, kind of propped up against the headboard with his legs straight out and spread, jerking away, and I leaned up to his ear and whispered, "If you cum, I'm going to tell Erin you cum too fast." (She already knows, but he doesn't know that.) I think what I said aroused him, because his face became so humble, and he looked at me like I was the supreme goddess of his world. I liked that!! He jerked a few more times, and then had to abruptly stop to avoid cumming. I gently stroked it, and he quickly pulled my hand away. "Wait! Wait!" he exclaimed with great urgency. He closed his eyes and laid there waiting for the sensations to subside. After a few seconds, I took hold of his erection, and he looked worried that he might cum, so I just held it. I did not move my hand.

"I tell you when you can cum, right?" I said. Robbie nodded. "And that's the way it is, isn't it?" Robbie nodded again. "So then you don't cum ever, no matter where you are, no matter what time it is, without my permission. Right?" Robbie's eyes widened, and he looked into my eyes like my words were the most wonderful things he had ever heard.
Then he nodded, "That's right."

"If you do," I said, "and if I find out, there will be a punishment. You understand?"

Robbie nodded like he was happy about it, and I got the biggest smile on my face. God, how that aroused me! I told him, "You can cum now, baby." He stared into my eyes while he jerked his cock and in all of 5 seconds, he ejaculated all over himself. I like that too. I am not sure why.

God! I am LOVING this!!

Have a nice day everyone! I will respond to posts and messages as soon as I can.

Good for you, and of course he should not ever cum without your permission. To reinforce this, I would suggest that you have him bring himself to the edge like this again, or you do it with a handjob, and then stop. Experiencing denial is an important step for submissive males like us, and establishes that You are in charge and orgasms should never be expected or taken for granted.

 

[Daddydomtex48]

Good for you, and of course he should not ever cum without your permission. To reinforce this, I would suggest that you have him bring himself to the edge like this again, or you do it with a handjob, and then stop. Experiencing denial is an important step for submissive males like us, and establishes that You are in charge and orgasms should never be expected or taken for granted.

Absolutely

 

[LeaHaven]

Honestly.. why are you waiting ?

I don't want to wait. It is killing me. But when I put the new cage on him, I want to keep it on him for two days, but I don't want to send him to work while he is wearing it. He's working Monday thru Saturday right now, so I won't have that two-day opportunity until next Saturday, Feb 1. Also, I want him to start his new duties (grocery shopping, cooking, etc.) while wearing the cage. His new duties can't start until Feb. 1.

 

[LeaHaven]

In a dm, someone said, "I wonder if Erin has some good stories to tell." I chuckled when I read that. It is kind of strange that she and I have become such close friends, because our personalities are polar opposites. She is outgoing, outspoken, flirtatious, daring, unapologetic, and the way she dresses is always very alluring. (She is always telling me, "You need to kick it up a notch," talking about the way I dress.) The guys at work eat out of her hand, and she does everything she can to keep them that way. And do you remember the good looking older guy I talked about (have I talked about him in this thread?), the client in her group? I am almost certain there is something going on between those two. I think she could get fired if the company found out. And that brings up a whole other group of things I want to tell you about. One of the things is what happened at a Christmas party Robbie and I attended at this guy's house.

But I can't write all that now. I am about to leave the house.

OMG...it's 19 degrees outside. Great.

 

[9to5]

lol I got 20 degrees this morning , so much better than yesterday.
and I cant wait to hear more

 

[subdudeme13]

Can't one of you out there make this frigid weather go away? I hate it! It was 17 degrees when I got up this morning. One morning when Robbie left for work, I checked my phone and it was 16 degrees. That was when I decided I wanted him to quit work. Although the idea of him quitting work was a seed Erin had planted in my head probably like a month before.

The new cock cage arrived yesterday. The box was sitting on the front stoop when I got home from work, and I didn't think about it being the cage. When I brought it inside and opened the box, I was shocked to think it had been sitting outside our house for God knows how long. Imagine if a porch pirate stole THAT! OMG! How embarrassing that would be!

It's a good thing Robbie has strong legs, because he's going to need them to carry this steel dungeon! This cage is weighty, and I like that! It's called, "No Escape," and just seeing it gets me a little aroused. I can't wait to put this thing to use! And by the way, in a dm someone said I should get the lock engraved with my initials. Done. I pick them up at lunchtime today (I got two engraved).

Also btw, in another dm a guy told me he has a 6.5 inch cock. I went and got a ruler to see what 6.5 inches looks like, and that looks huge! I told him that, and he said "no one has ever told me that before." I think those were his exact words. He said he wanted to see his wife enjoy a big cock. Isn't 6.5 inches already huge?

And one last thing. Quite a few people have said that I should tell Robbie he is not allowed to cum without my permission. In other words, he is not allowed to go hide somewhere and jerk off. I knew I could not tell him that in the normal course of the day, so I waited until he and I were having sex. In the heat of passion, he will at least admit to stuff. So two nights ago, we had our usual routine where he gives me oral and then I usually jerk him off (give him a handjob?). But on this night I told him to jerk himself and, per another person's suggestion, I told him not to cum until I said he could. He was naked, kind of propped up against the headboard with his legs straight out and spread, jerking away, and I leaned up to his ear and whispered, "If you cum, I'm going to tell Erin you cum too fast." (She already knows, but he doesn't know that.) I think what I said aroused him, because his face became so humble, and he looked at me like I was the supreme goddess of his world. I liked that!! He jerked a few more times, and then had to abruptly stop to avoid cumming. I gently stroked it, and he quickly pulled my hand away. "Wait! Wait!" he exclaimed with great urgency. He closed his eyes and laid there waiting for the sensations to subside. After a few seconds, I took hold of his erection, and he looked worried that he might cum, so I just held it. I did not move my hand.

"I tell you when you can cum, right?" I said. Robbie nodded. "And that's the way it is, isn't it?" Robbie nodded again. "So then you don't cum ever, no matter where you are, no matter what time it is, without my permission. Right?" Robbie's eyes widened, and he looked into my eyes like my words were the most wonderful things he had ever heard.
Then he nodded, "That's right."

"If you do," I said, "and if I find out, there will be a punishment. You understand?"

Robbie nodded like he was happy about it, and I got the biggest smile on my face. God, how that aroused me! I told him, "You can cum now, baby." He stared into my eyes while he jerked his cock and in all of 5 seconds, he ejaculated all over himself. I like that too. I am not sure why.

God! I am LOVING this!!

Have a nice day everyone! I will respond to posts and messages as soon as I can.

Enjoy! I am sure you will. It is a wonderful road you have chosen and it is obviously you and him.

 

[naughty_stories]

I don't want to wait. It is killing me. But when I put the new cage on him, I want to keep it on him for two days, but I don't want to send him to work while he is wearing it. He's working Monday thru Saturday right now, so I won't have that two-day opportunity until next Saturday, Feb 1. Also, I want him to start his new duties (grocery shopping, cooking, etc.) while wearing the cage. His new duties can't start until Feb. 1.

Good reason.. Has he seen it yet? Maybe show him and tell him that as of Feb 01 he will be locked in it for his own good. The anticipation will kill him too.

 

[naughty_stories]

From the thread, "Cunnilingus while she is watching porn"

This is so my marriage... minus the porn

 

[LeaHaven]

Good reason.. Has he seen it yet? Maybe show him and tell him that as of Feb 01 he will be locked in it for his own good. The anticipation will kill him too.

He does not know I have it, and he will not find out until Saturday morning. Although I am kind of debating Friday evening. If he is tired when he gets home from work on Friday, I will wait. If he has had a light day, I may put the cage on him Friday evening. I like the idea of him waking up caged on Saturday morning.

Btw, when the cage arrived and I took it out of the box, it was very cold. It made me wonder if there might be some kind of fun to be had by putting it in the refrigerator before he puts it on sometimes.

 

[9to5]

I have put mine on in while cold but not refrigerated. not that I have not thought of it. it does warm up quick when its on .
maybe test it and see how it feels in your hand? then again it should not be a punishment he should enjoy putting it on for you

 

[LeaHaven]

Sometimes I post comments from people's DM's. I always thought it would be OK to do that since I never disclose anyone's username. I apologize if I have embarrassed anyone or made you feel like I violated your privacy. I would never intentionally do that. But sometimes what you say or ask in DM's is something I feel is highly relevant and timely to this discussion. I apologize. I was just trying to keep everyone informed.

 

[Artfan2]

Sometimes I post comments from people's DM's. I always thought it would be OK to do that since I never disclose anyone's username. I apologize if I have embarrassed anyone or made you feel like I violated your privacy. I would never intentionally do that. But sometimes what you say or ask in DM's is something I feel is highly relevant and timely to this discussion. I apologize. I was just trying to keep everyone informed.

That seems like a fair approach. Many people bring things into the threads that are going on behind the scenes in messages.

 

[wouldloveto]

Btw, when the cage arrived and I took it out of the box, it was very cold. It made me wonder if there might be some kind of fun to be had by putting it in the refrigerator before he puts it on sometimes.

Oh yes... do it. It is brutal (ask me how I know) but it certainly gets a point across.

 

[SmokingFap]

Sometimes I post comments from people's DM's. I always thought it would be OK to do that since I never disclose anyone's username. I apologize if I have embarrassed anyone or made you feel like I violated your privacy. I would never intentionally do that. But sometimes what you say or ask in DM's is something I feel is highly relevant and timely to this discussion. I apologize. I was just trying to keep everyone informed.

Even the mods will sometimes publicly post especially heinous messages or sections of chats. As long as you aren't outing anyone in particular, I think it's fine to share some of the dumbassery you see on here.

Have a great day!

 

[LeaHaven]

I am sorry it has taken so long to post an update. It makes for a busy weekend for me when Robbie has to work the Saturday.

I wanted to tell you about what happened this past December, but first let me remind you that Erin's personality is the complete opposite of mine. She is also older than me, 35, and she is divorced. Robbie tries to be Mr. Macho whenever she is around, but in reality, he becomes a simp. I really look up to her. She is the most trusted confident I have ever had, because she is not so quick to condemn people for their ways. She encourages me to be more "adventurous" and to live life the way I want to live, not the way my parents want me to live. She says I don't have to be so "good" all the time.

One day, late afternoon, she and I were sitting in my office after work talking. Everybody else had left the offices, the sun was going down, and it was very quiet. We were talking about my "clumsy" sex life, and I told her about how Robbie makes comments about me with other guys. She said, "So what are you waiting for?"

I was like, "Erin!!"

Then she said something like, "Hey, if he's OK with it, I'd go have fun. Sounds like he wants you to. Why fight it?" Then with a smirk, she added, "You want to be a good wife, right? You're just giving him what he wants." I looked at her through the tops of my eyes.

"Well...think about it," she said. "You've already got somebody waiting in the wings."

"Like who?"

"Jack," she replied.

God! My heart took a leap. He is the good looking older guy that is a client of ours. (Not his real name.) But he is the guy who I think has something going on with Erin! He does flirt with me, but I never thought too much of it. One day I played it all down to her, and she said, "Pfft...he'd crawl naked through 2 miles of briar patch to get to you." God, how I wanted that to be true!

That was months ago...like spring or early summer. Then in August, she invited Robbie and me to Jack's birthday party at his house. (He has a very nice house!) While we were there, Jack came over to talk to us, and while Jack was engaged in a conversation with me, Erin asked Robbie to come help her open a bottle of wine. I knew she had done it on purpose, and as she and Robbie walked away, she looked back at me with a mischevious grin. Then it was just Jack and me, and my heart was beating a hundred miles an hour. After we had been talking for a while, and I knew that Robbie had had plenty of time to open a bottle of wine, I glanced around wondering where he was. I found him standing alone in the crowd, intently watching Jack and me from across the room. It felt so strange and illicit. I couldn't help but to think, "My husband is watching me with another man." It made me want to break away from Jack and hurry to Robbie, but then in that moment, I noticed Erin, a little ways behind Robbie with a group of other women. She was watching everything that was going on, and she gave me a look that said, "It's OK. Just let it happen."

All of that took like a split second, but I decided to "just let it happen," and I turned back to Jack. I had not looked away long enough for him to think I was not listening to what he was saying, but when I turned back to him, he gave me like this slight smile, and I wondered, "Does he know what just happened?" My whole body blushed 10 shades of red.

I didn't know this was going to become such a long story! I am sorry! I have to go for now. I will finish this later. Have a nice day everyone!

 

[LeaHaven]

Even the mods will sometimes publicly post especially heinous messages or sections of chats. As long as you aren't outing anyone in particular, I think it's fine to share some of the dumbassery you see on here.

Have a great day!

The moderators read my DM's?

 

[LeaHaven]

The moderators read my DM's?

Nvm. someone explained. My inexperience shows again

 

[LeaHaven]

Robbie and I were quiet for like the first half or our drive home that night, and then he said, "Jack's a nice guy."

"He is," I replied, and we went back to being quiet. At least maybe 10 seconds had passed, and then I thought I might push things a little further. I casually looked out the passenger window and added, "Very nice."

Robbie looked over at me. I wanted what I said to have an effect on him, and I got one. I am not sure why I wanted it. I guess I was hoping to make him feel jealous. Whatever. He didn't say anything.

We tried to have intercourse that night, but after literally like 3 strokes, Robbie had to pause. He closed his eyes and was breathing kind of slow and heavy. When he opened his eyes he found me staring him straight in the eye with a judgemental look on my face. And then I did something kind of mean. I opened my legs wider, and whispered, "Can you fuck your wife, baby?" Robbie's eyes...I am not sure how to describe it...it's like his eyes got this sense of wonder and humility. Like he couldn't believe what I had just said. I started moving against him, still staring at him with attitude, and I said, "Come on, baby, fuck your wife. Can you do it?" His eyes got big. "Can you fuck your wife like she needs it?" His eyes got even bigger, and he ejaculated right then. I knew he would. I caused it on purpose.

He laid against me, panting, and I stared at the ceiling and felt guilty for what I had done, since I had probably embarrassed him. But I was feeling like life had been terribly unfair, and I was kind of angry. I had extracted from him the answer I already knew. My husband was never going to be even adequate in bed.

When I was talking with Jack earlier that evening, he made a joke about how he and his wife would never divorce. "The sex is too good," he said.

My life couldn't have been more different.

 

[naughty_stories]

He definitely needs to learn control, and that the lady always cums first. Permission and denial is a great teaching tool

 

[Artfan2]

... I told her about how Robbie makes comments about me with other guys. She said, "So what are you waiting for?"

I was like, "Erin!!"

Then she said something like, "Hey, if he's OK with it, I'd go have fun. Sounds like he wants you to. Why fight it?" Then with a smirk, she added, "You want to be a good wife, right? You're just giving him what he wants." I looked at her through the tops of my eyes.

"Well...think about it," she said. "You've already got somebody waiting in the wings."

"Like who?"

"Jack," she replied.

God! My heart took a leap. He is the good looking older guy that is a client of ours. (Not his real name.) But he is the guy who I think has something going on with Erin! He does flirt with me, but I never thought too much of it. One day I played it all down to her, and she said, "Pfft...he'd crawl naked through 2 miles of briar patch to get to you." God, how I wanted that to be true!

... I glanced around wondering where he was. I found him standing alone in the crowd, intently watching Jack and me from across the room. It felt so strange and illicit. I couldn't help but to think, "My husband is watching me with another man." It made me want to break away from Jack and hurry to Robbie, but then in that moment, I noticed Erin, a little ways behind Robbie with a group of other women. She was watching everything that was going on, and she gave me a look that said, "It's OK. Just let it happen."

All of that took like a split second, but I decided to "just let it happen," and I turned back to Jack. I had not looked away long enough for him to think I was not listening to what he was saying, but when I turned back to him, he gave me like this slight smile, and I wondered, "Does he know what just happened?" My whole body blushed 10 shades of red.

Hmm, these thoughts of yours, and Robbie's, of you with another man definitely opens up some possibilities of adding some additional things to what's going on between the two of you.

 

[LeaHaven]

Hello everyone. I apologize for my absence. I have the flu, and I have been very sick. I have never been this sick before. I will be back as soon as I can. I hope all of you are in good health and enjoying all the good things in life.

 

[Domwoolf]

Get well soon, flu is no fun.

 

[cascadiabound]

Hello everyone. I apologize for my absence. I have the flu, and I have been very sick. I have never been this sick before. I will be back as soon as I can. I hope all of you are in good health and enjoying all the good things in life.

The flu is no joke. Take care. Hydrate, give yourself the time you need to recover.

Edit: 2/1/2025
Thinking of you Leah and hoping you are feeling better. I know you had big plans for this weekend and not feeling good probably really cut into that. Sending healing vibes.

 

[LeaHaven]

This past week with the flu was the worst sickness I have ever had. I hope I never go through anything like that again. I am still not 100%, but I am much better than I was.

But the weirdest thing happened while I was so sick. At like 2:00 AM on Friday morning, I could not sleep (again) because I felt so bad. In the middle of that misery, while laying on the couch in our family room, I remembered an image I saw on here. It was a picture of a guy standing and a 20-ish girl sitting on a couch in front of him, and she had her mouth wrapped around the head of his huge and very attractive cock. There was a somewhat older woman sitting next to the girl. It is a picture that stuck in my head from the moment I saw it, and I still think about it often. But I never thought I would be feeling that kind of envy while I was miserably sick! In the middle of my flu, while feeling so incredibly bad, I was terribly horny! I kept wishing I could be that girl. And that feeling lingered for quite some time! Is that not the weirdest thing ever?

I am back, and I apologize for being away. Everything with Robbie got pushed back, but do know that he woke up this morning in his new cage. I am working from home today, so I will write about that later. I hope all of you are in good health.

I am so glad to be back! I have so much to tell you!