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tulip2lipservice
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Entertaining or Not?
Like, dislike, love, disdain.... It does not matter what you think of this person but several of you are getting off belittling her in an open forum. I will give credit for those that have stated their feelings of her, situation, and realized that it should not have gone this far. I would even agree that it made for a good read up until a point when it was such negative hatred behavior. We all are entitled to our own feelings for how others have treated us or what not. Does that give us the right to treat them with same regard. To turn it into a joke. For if that is true I know of a few I wouldn't mind returning the favour.
I do not know much about Dream at all. For that matter I do not know her. I do know that several do not like her. So be it. You have every right to your own opinion. Not my place to determine the reasons, but what gives you the reason to gang attack her in public forum with your words. Does it make you feel better about your own life?
I am not saying she deserves or does not deserve what is being written. What I do see is a bunch of people that are saying this is a porn sex chat site. That it is. For this reason she has problems if she takes it to heart? So why then are you writing and investing so much venom and time into your words and pms and what not? Are you truly that bored?
If she is pregnant that is her business. She might of mentioned it on threads out of happiness and you take a positive thing and turn it into negative. It is a choice she has made. Not you or I. None of us here will have to wake up and feed that child or comfort it. She will.
It is inevitable that people have taken to heart what others have written here. Why? I do not know, but people have. I have from time to time with people I have known. I am human like the rest of you and do not take this forum as a joke like others do. Ladybird came in here to express her concerns for a friend. She did not say you have to like her or not. She is only saying enough is enough. Since when is it a crime for sticking up for a friend or worrying about their feelings? I have seen several of you do such things the last couple of months towards people I do not hold high regard towards.
Ladybird as always you show compassion. I love ya for that sweetie. Many hugs.
To the rest of you flame away as I try to abstain from responding. Try to find something positive to write about for it is easy to get trapped in all of this negative crap on the boards as of late. Another thing I have fallen into myself.
Peace,
Tulip
Like, dislike, love, disdain.... It does not matter what you think of this person but several of you are getting off belittling her in an open forum. I will give credit for those that have stated their feelings of her, situation, and realized that it should not have gone this far. I would even agree that it made for a good read up until a point when it was such negative hatred behavior. We all are entitled to our own feelings for how others have treated us or what not. Does that give us the right to treat them with same regard. To turn it into a joke. For if that is true I know of a few I wouldn't mind returning the favour.
I do not know much about Dream at all. For that matter I do not know her. I do know that several do not like her. So be it. You have every right to your own opinion. Not my place to determine the reasons, but what gives you the reason to gang attack her in public forum with your words. Does it make you feel better about your own life?
I am not saying she deserves or does not deserve what is being written. What I do see is a bunch of people that are saying this is a porn sex chat site. That it is. For this reason she has problems if she takes it to heart? So why then are you writing and investing so much venom and time into your words and pms and what not? Are you truly that bored?
If she is pregnant that is her business. She might of mentioned it on threads out of happiness and you take a positive thing and turn it into negative. It is a choice she has made. Not you or I. None of us here will have to wake up and feed that child or comfort it. She will.
It is inevitable that people have taken to heart what others have written here. Why? I do not know, but people have. I have from time to time with people I have known. I am human like the rest of you and do not take this forum as a joke like others do. Ladybird came in here to express her concerns for a friend. She did not say you have to like her or not. She is only saying enough is enough. Since when is it a crime for sticking up for a friend or worrying about their feelings? I have seen several of you do such things the last couple of months towards people I do not hold high regard towards.
Ladybird as always you show compassion. I love ya for that sweetie. Many hugs.
To the rest of you flame away as I try to abstain from responding. Try to find something positive to write about for it is easy to get trapped in all of this negative crap on the boards as of late. Another thing I have fallen into myself.
Peace,
Tulip
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Re: Re: Unbelievable
You said this in a much nicer way than I was going to, but the sentiment is the same.
Neither Lit nor the posters on this thread or any other thread are responsible for Dream's well-being.
MissTaken said:Yes, she is.
However, I have to disagree with her. Anyone who takes lit so seriously that it places them at risk, really needs an extended lit break.
I hope Dream gets what she needs to get through whatever she is going through, but really don't believe lit is culpable for her welfare.
Yes, LadyBird is a wonderful lady and I don't believe anyone would disagree.
You said this in a much nicer way than I was going to, but the sentiment is the same.
Neither Lit nor the posters on this thread or any other thread are responsible for Dream's well-being.
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Re: Entertaining or Not?
first of all ladybird did not post to take up for a friend. She basically posted that the words of the people here will be the cause of harm to Dream.
That is a bit more than posting to take up for a friend.
I am just pointing that out, not that I care about the outcome.
Dream is the author of her own problems, just as she is the one who has to solve them.
And it is funny, posts are only considered negative when they are in opposition to your own point of view. I am just tired of all the bleeding heart bullshit. There are others here who carry their own strife with grace and pride. This whining is just a bore.
Ebony
first of all ladybird did not post to take up for a friend. She basically posted that the words of the people here will be the cause of harm to Dream.
That is a bit more than posting to take up for a friend.
I am just pointing that out, not that I care about the outcome.
Dream is the author of her own problems, just as she is the one who has to solve them.
And it is funny, posts are only considered negative when they are in opposition to your own point of view. I am just tired of all the bleeding heart bullshit. There are others here who carry their own strife with grace and pride. This whining is just a bore.
Ebony
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Freya
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What a fucking joke. Ladybird, it's right honourable of you to defend your friend, but the fact is, blaming her actions on her disease gives her a convenient out every time she does something wrong. There are millions of bi polar people in the world, and I'd be willing to wager that very few of them act the way this woman does, nor do they consistently expect to be pardoned for their behaviour based on this disease. She's a grown woman, who delights in informing all how smart and stable she is - well then, she needs to learn to act it, and take responsibility for her actions.
She's a nutjob who is ruining the life of a nice young man, and quite possibly will cause harm to an innocent child, solely due to her selfishness. Either that, or the attention seeking miscarriage thread will be upcoming shortly in the future.
She's a nutjob who is ruining the life of a nice young man, and quite possibly will cause harm to an innocent child, solely due to her selfishness. Either that, or the attention seeking miscarriage thread will be upcoming shortly in the future.
MissTaken
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Re: Ebony
*chuckles*
The gent doth not know to whom he speaketh!
Get the strap on ready, babe!
Ya got a new playmate!
Starnolan said:I like your nickname
*chuckles*
The gent doth not know to whom he speaketh!
Get the strap on ready, babe!
Ya got a new playmate!
badasschick
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Re: Ebony
Ah, Geez!
Don't I know you from Dublin's on Sunset? Cause that game is tired.
Starnolan said:I like your nickname
Ah, Geez!
Don't I know you from Dublin's on Sunset? Cause that game is tired.
woody54
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Freya2 said:
Couldn't have put it better myself.
There is a lot of sickening drivel in this thread complaining about people being mean to ~Dream~.
Everyone has stuck pretty much to the facts; God knows there are plenty of them to prove the case. So why are her fuzzy friends so upset?
They make allowances for her nutty ways and expect everyone else to do the same. Sorry but this is the wrong forum for that carry on. Try a forum for the mentally disturbed, they are good at hand holding.
Lancecastor
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Ladybird said:
Ladybird;
Your backhand is as strong as ever I see.
Lance
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~Dream~ is not a well person.
No one, especially posters on a porn board, are responsible for her illness, her health or her choices in life.
No one, especially posters on a porn board, are responsible for her illness, her health or her choices in life.
Ladybird
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Freya2 said:
Freya, just a couple of points I'd like to take up with you.
Firstly, if you read my post, you'll see that I stated that Dream was not one of my favourite people. How you interperated that to mean she's my friend, I don't know.
Secondly, I'm bipolar myself, and I can assure you that a person with Bipolar Disorder in a manic phase does indeed act this way. And just to clarify that, mania's can last anything from hours to months... even with medication. This is something that I can speak with authority on.
I also hope that you've noticed I can disagree with you, and still post to you in a friendly and considerate way. I haven't used phrases such as 'fucking joke' when addressing you.
Flame throwers.... step this way.
Lancecastor
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Ladybird said:
Look!
Ladybird's Bi-Polar Disorder Information Clinic is open again!
Conveniently located next to Ladybird's ~Dreamhaters~ Inc.!
YaY!
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Hi Ladybird 
Are you in the Clique? I just thought I should warn you that you can't 'bushwack' Lance unless you're in the Clique - sorry, but them's the rules. The Clique has bought up all the Lance Licences, and only issues them to the Clique membership.
If you aren't already in the Clique, you can PM your application to KM (or for faster service fax it to the ferret).
Are you in the Clique? I just thought I should warn you that you can't 'bushwack' Lance unless you're in the Clique - sorry, but them's the rules. The Clique has bought up all the Lance Licences, and only issues them to the Clique membership.
If you aren't already in the Clique, you can PM your application to KM (or for faster service fax it to the ferret).
