Ladies, Your opinion please

[KinkStevens]

I wrote this in another post and wanted to get more opinions

Women who enjoy bi men are hot. However, in a relationship, the dynamics are different. I can't help to think a woman involved w a bi man will at some point desire an all out alpha male w no bi or homo tendencies. I guess its ok for a guy who likes the idea and perhaps fantasizes cuckolding. But will she REALLY respect you if she has watched u suck cocks like a whore? My friend accepts my sexual desires as a friend (and occasional fuck buddy) but she has told me that she would view her hypothetical bf in a different light if he were too a cocksucker. She's only one person, what do the other ladies think?

 

[sunandshadow]

I think she's only one person - while there are some other women who think like her, there are some that don't. Seems like you have some misconceptions here. First of all being an alpha male or not has nothing to do with what gender(s) someone is attracted to, it's just whether someone has a dominant personality or not. Second some women, including me, don't find the alpha male personality to be attractive. There are a somewhat higher percentage of female submissives and male dominants than the other way around, but it's not a huge majority. Third, sucking cock is not an inherently submissive activity, it can be done in a dominating or egalitarian way. Finally, there are bisexual men who prefer to dominate both male and female lovers and bisexual men who prefer to be submissive to both genders of lovers; it's only guys who happen to be both bisexual and switches who are likely to coincidentally end up with a more submissive female partner and a more dominant male partner due to the relative shortage of female dommes and societal stereotypes that dominance is masculine. Don't be fooled into thinking dominance and masculinity actually have anything to do with each other. That stereotype is just cultural baggage we've inherited from past cultures where men were the only wage earners, inheritors of property, and people able to vote. If a woman thinks sucking cock shows a man to be unattractively submissive, that is either because she is buying into these stereotypes or because he is choosing to act more submissive toward his male love than he does toward her.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Basically, your friend is saying that being the receptive partner is shameful.

Most women are receptive by default.

How does she feel about her female friends who like to suck cock?

Maybe she's just a prude.

 

[KinkStevens]

hmm

interesting perspectives. Can't say i agree with it all. nonetheless, interesting

 

[Kitkat103]

I hate nothing more than a duplicate thread. Kind of like beating a dead horse, but its worse because Fetish does not have as many visitors.

 

[KinkStevens]

some arent on here every day, so its bound to happen.

 

[NatalieWouldToo]

I can't imagine..

being anything but thrilled if my guy were a bi-guy. Him getting naked with another guy wouldn't emasculate (demasculate?) him in my view at all. I adore bi-guys, and would totally dig it.

 

[laceNlthrgrrl]

I had a bi BF in college. It was fun cuz we could check out guys together. He found a BF for a while, but curiously it was the other guy who couldn't quite deal with me, not the other way around. Girls and their "parts" just creeped him out. After a few months I was dumped.

I think it would be really hot to fuck with two bi guys so there weren't any hangups.

 

[KinkStevens]

being anything but thrilled if my guy were a bi-guy. Him getting naked with another guy wouldn't emasculate (demasculate?) him in my view at all. I adore bi-guys, and would totally dig it.

where u been all my life

 

[LindsayRae]

But will she REALLY respect you if she has watched u suck cocks like a whore?

My answer is YES. If my fiancé was bisexual I'd love it. I think bisexual men are yummy. I love watching gay/bi porn (though don't get me started on any "plotted" or "story line" porn! lol) and seeing men pleasure one another.

That reminds me, Wednesday nights happen to be "gay night" at the local porno theater (where they show gay/trans/or bi male movies) and my man and I may be visiting for my birthday.

I'd love to see some live action there!!

 

[Guest]

A agree with most of the other ladies who have replied to this thread. I would adore it if my male partner were bi and wanted to play with other men; either with me or at least letting me watch. I wouldn't lose any respect for him for doing something that I enjoy, too. That would be beyond hypocritical. Now, if we found somebody who could top us both...

 

[KinkStevens]

soo sexy

A agree with most of the other ladies who have replied to this thread. I would adore it if my male partner were bi and wanted to play with other men; either with me or at least letting me watch. I wouldn't lose any respect for him for doing something that I enjoy, too. That would be beyond hypocritical. Now, if we found somebody who could top us both...

yes, pound us both. I prefer TS but if my friend is there to cheer me on, id go for it

 

[KinkStevens]

lucky guy

My answer is YES. If my fiancé was bisexual I'd love it. I think bisexual men are yummy. I love watching gay/bi porn (though don't get me started on any "plotted" or "story line" porn! lol) and seeing men pleasure one another.

That reminds me, Wednesday nights happen to be "gay night" at the local porno theater (where they show gay/trans/or bi male movies) and my man and I may be visiting for my birthday.

I'd love to see some live action there!!

absolutely awesome!

 

[Babeslady]

Of late my husband and I have been 'entertaining' a male friend who is exploring all sides of his sexuality. One of the hottest things I have experienced was being sandwhiched between the pair of them while they wanked each other.

The whole thing has nothing to do with dominance and there is no 'alpha male' in this situation. If there was it wouldn't work and I would be sad because I would miss all that yummy cock.

 

[Never]

How does she feel about her female friends who like to suck cock?

Unless she plans to have a long-term romantic relationship with them, that wouldn't matter. She's already indicated that it's fine if a friend or part-time lover does it.

I don't think it necessarily points to prudishness. We demand things of SO that we don't always need from our friends or flings. It's possible that she desires a dominant partner and wants that receptive role reserved for herself. I'd say there are a number of straight and bisexual women who only want boyfriends or husbands that act in what they perceive as an appropriately masculine manner.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Unless she plans to have a long-term romantic relationship with them, that wouldn't matter. She's already indicated that it's fine if a friend or part-time lover does it.

I don't think it necessarily points to prudishness. We demand things of SO that we don't always need from our friends or flings. It's possible that she desires a dominant partner and wants that receptive role reserved for herself. I'd say there are a number of straight and bisexual women who only want boyfriends or husbands that act in what they perceive as an appropriately masculine manner.

true-- also, OP did use the phrase "Sucks cocks like a whore."

Not just sucking a cock. Sucking more than one, and "like a whore."

It might not be a matter of masculinity as much as some restraint and proportion. And a fear of STDs...