Ladies: Watch Out For Wolves Disguised As Gentlemen!!!

[dragonhearted]

...they may come off as being intelligent, shy, sensitive types. They may claim to want a commitment, they may even say they love you. But if you make a mistake...oh god...the relationship is in danger...Or god forbid you should misunderstand something they say and breakup with them. You call them later on....and find out what they said is NOT what they meant...and you try to patch it up....suddenly they have to THINK about it....

Then...you try to talk about it. Suddenly the issue is they are afraid you will never truly trust them....when you know darn well they are the ones who can't trust you. You cry buckets over them...and they don't seem to care? Well my sisters...they DON'T! They used you, then looked for the opportunity to be rid of you....and when you broke up....there it was! Be glad you are rid of them, because they don't have the guts to be HONEST!!!


Thanks for listening!

 

[just pet]

I'm so sorry you had such a bad experience
It's so hard sometimes to know what another feels
And sometimes our feelings change and it is difficult to tell the other our true feelings
We try to avoid hurting another and in not being totally truthful may cause even more bad feelings
My heart goes out to you

 

[dragonhearted]

It reallys sucks........

cuz it was so public here.....everyone knew how happy WE were...and now....no matter how much I have tried to talk about it with him....it is plain he just does not want me.

 

[just pet]

Re: It reallys sucks........

cuz it was so public here.....everyone knew how happy WE were...and now....no matter how much I have tried to talk about it with him....it is plain he just does not want me.

I don't know the whole story
I don't follow the Lit romances
It is so difficult to translate online to real life
What is perfect on paper may never fly and yet the fat fuzzy bumblebee does the impossible in getting off the ground and airborne. Love never makes sense.

At some point perfection turned into "just not quite right". No one's fault, and each is still perfect... just not for each other.

 

[dragonhearted]

That may be so J.P.

....but one should be honest right from the beginning. I was.

 

[Guest]

Hehehe, even when men are Honest, they aren't really fully honest, I think they believe what we don't know won't hurt us. How wrong they are. They are so dangerous to us becasue they don't understand them, and they don't understand them, doomed from the begining, but oh so temting.

 

[lauralealoves]

that previous message should read as:

Hehehe, even when men are Honest, they aren't really fully honest, I think they believe what we don't know won't hurt us. How wrong they are. They are so dangerous to us becasue they don't understand us, and we don't understand them, doomed from the begining, but oh so tempting.

I wasn't allowed to edit it lol

 

[dragonhearted]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

that previous message should read as:

Hehehe, even when men are Honest, they aren't really fully honest, I think they believe what we don't know won't hurt us. How wrong they are. They are so dangerous to us becasue they don't understand us, and we don't understand them, doomed from the begining, but oh so temting.

I wasn't allowed to edit it lol

The dangerous types masquerading as gentlemen..may be tempting....but it is because of the masquerade that we should be evermore cautious! We are just so turned on by the allure....

 

[lustforlife74]

Re: Re: It reallys sucks........

I don't know the whole story
I don't follow the Lit romances
It is so difficult to translate online to real life
What is perfect on paper may never fly and yet the fat fuzzy bumblebee does the impossible in getting off the ground and airborne. Love never makes sense.

At some point perfection turned into "just not quite right". No one's fault, and each is still perfect... just not for each other.

Pet your right. You say it truthfully and eloquently.

There are also wolfs that are gentleman and gentleman that are wolfs.

I've met pelenty of folks that are gentleman on the outside, but shitheads on the inside and vis a versa.

Wolfy Gentleman

 

[lauralealoves]

Sis, hehe, and what would the "wolf" we have in common say if he ever saw my post?

 

[lustforlife74]

that previous message should read as:

Hehehe, even when men are Honest, they aren't really fully honest, I think they believe what we don't know won't hurt us. How wrong they are. They are so dangerous to us becasue they don't understand us, and we don't understand them, doomed from the begining, but oh so tempting.

I wasn't allowed to edit it lol

Ha...ha...ha... Just forget yourself and live and love.

 

[dragonhearted]

With all due respect Lust.....

Ha...ha...ha... Just forget yourself and live and love.

Some of us tried to forget ourselves...even to come out of ourselves a bit...try something new. But when someone stomps on our heart, it is hard to move on and love again.

 

[lustforlife74]

Escape may be a Prisoners Pipe Dream.

The wounds in your heart can heal over time. I know you won't believe this at this moment, but they can. Travel or do something you've never done before.

Henry Miller (author) left the States with 10 dollars in his pocket to go to Paris during the depression. He was banned in the States into 1961.

Hell, my true story is not pretty.

 

[Guest]

ummmmmmmmm it is an online relationship, correct? And you are crying over it...and dwelling on it?

 

[dragonhearted]

nooooooooooo

ummmmmmmmm it is an online relationship, correct? And you are crying over it...and dwelling on it?

We met, talked and FUCKED in real life....so Mr or Ms Sensitive...get a clue will ya?

 

[dragonhearted]

Re: Escape may be a Prisoners Pipe Dream.

The wounds in your heart can heal over time. I know you won't believe this at this moment, but they can. Travel or do something you've never done before.

Henry Miller (author) left the States with 10 dollars in his pocket to go to Paris during the depression. He was banned in the States into 1961.

Hell if you want to know my true story let me know. It's not pretty.

Darlin'...I am a 38 year old mother of two little girls...my eldest being a 6 year old with special needs. With no childcare and the child not able to cope with drastic changes or my absence...I am tied to where I am. But thank you for the suggestion!

 

[Guest]

long distance relationship?

 

[dragonhearted]

Uhhhhhh

long distance relationship?

No....he lives just two hours from me. He also goes to school, lives with parents who demand alot of his attention. I don't know why he even BOTHERED to pursue me, to be quite honest!

 

[lustforlife74]

Re: Re: Escape may be a Prisoners Pipe Dream.

Darlin'...I am a 38 year old mother of two little girls...my eldest being a 6 year old with special needs. With no childcare and the child not able to cope with drastic changes or my absence...I am tied to where I am. But thank you for the suggestion!

My respect, Dragon. It's getting ugly. A female friend of mine is homeless with four kids in Cali and I don't think I can help her.

 

[just pet]

I do feel for you, Dragon
It is disappointing that it didn't work out
Is it possible he meant all he said at first and then changed his mind? As I get to know someone sometimes, I fall out of lust with them and I lose interest. He may be a royal ass but he may have found he was not ready or interested in a relationship.

 

[dragonhearted]

if that were the case...........

I do feel for you, Dragon
It is disappointing that it didn't work out
Is it possible he meant all he said at first and then changed his mind? As I get to know someone sometimes, I fall out of lust with them and I lose interest. He may be a royal ass but he may have found he was not ready or interested in a relationship.

then why did he not tell me long before I had let him go? And this caring too much about me crap does not fly. I have seen men let women go that they weren't interested in...for one reason or other....and they were not the least bit worried. The man is a coward. He was waiting for ME to break it off. I am sorry J.P. to sound like this....I am hurt, pissed......bitter. Things like this make me wonder why I bother with men at all EXCEPT I know there ARE decent honest UP FRONT men out there. In fact, I have been engaging in some rather interesting phone conversatons with one

 

[just pet]

Re: if that were the case...........

then why did he not tell me long before I had let him go? And this caring too much about me crap does not fly. I have seen men let women go that they weren't interested in...for one reason or other....and they were not the least bit worried. The man is a coward. He was waiting for ME to break it off. I am sorry J.P. to sound like this....I am hurt, pissed......bitter. Things like this make me wonder why I bother with men at all EXCEPT I know there ARE decent honest UP FRONT men out there. In fact, I have been engaging in some rather interesting phone conversatons with one

The healing is already taking place
Good for you
Enjoy it while it is good. Stay in the moment. Don't wander into "is he the one" and creating expectations for tomorrow. Each moment is precious. And all those moments together create history.
Good luck.

 

[dragonhearted]

Re: Re: if that were the case...........

The healing is already taking place
Good for you
Enjoy it while it is good. Stay in the moment. Don't wander into "is he the one" and creating expectations for tomorrow. Each moment is precious. And all those moments together create history.
Good luck.

No actually when we do the phone thing...we wish we were actually together so we can REALLY fuck each other's brains out... Right now...sex is the only thing on my mind....cuz I have not had it in over a month!

 

[just pet]

Re: Re: Re: if that were the case...........

No actually when we do the phone thing...we wish we were actually together so we can REALLY fuck each other's brains out... Right now...sex is the only thing on my mind....cuz I have not had it in over a month!

It looks like you have a focus and a willing partner
Good for you
Enjoy

 

[Sovok123]

I know that you are hurting right now. But this to will pass. You will find someone to share your feeling with in the future. But remember that the boards are just like real life , just at a faster pace ,be careful.



Sovok123