Ladies, is 5'8, 165 lbs. too small for a guy to you?

[The Next Big Star]

Hi Ladies. Totally random question, but I just wanted to get some individual feedback since there's not one answer for the entire female gender.

I'm a 32 year old male, 5'8 165 lbs., (167-170 on a good day, but pretty much 165). I'm not a total gym rat and don't have washboard abs, but I'm not totally fat an out of shape either. As it pertains to you personally, am I a perfectly good size for a guy or at my size, would I be a little too small to garner any serious "checking him out" looks from you if you saw me at the mall or beach or park or wherever in general public?

 

[warrior queen]

For the most part, jockeys are cool people.
Except they all have high-pitched voices, which is annoying.

Do you have a high-pitched voice?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Hi Ladies. Totally random question, but I just wanted to get some individual feedback since there's not one answer for the entire female gender.

I'm a 32 year old male, 5'8 165 lbs., (167-170 on a good day, but pretty much 165). I'm not a total gym rat and don't have washboard abs, but I'm not totally fat an out of shape either. As it pertains to you personally, am I a perfectly good size for a guy or at my size, would I be a little too small to garner any serious "checking him out" looks from you if you saw me at the mall or beach or park or wherever in general public?

How much can you bench press?

 

[The Next Big Star]

For the most part, jockeys are cool people.
Except they all have high-pitched voices, which is annoying.

Do you have a high-pitched voice?

No, I actually have a deep voice, which you wouldn't think coming from a guy my size.

 

[The Next Big Star]

How much can you bench press?

Embarrassingly, I'm going to choose to be honest on this and say MAYBE 120 lbs., if that.

 

[blobfish]

Do you represent any guilds, perhaps of the lollipop variety?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Embarrassingly, I'm going to choose to be honest on this and say MAYBE 120 lbs., if that.

What's in your wallet?

 

[warrior queen]

Every little man I've ever met has some form of 'little man syndrome'.
Do you have little man syndrome?

 

[parodyluvr75]

Talking height/weight, no. Why worry, you're taller than most women. You using 'an' instead of 'and' would be more of a turn off.

 

[cleaver]

I'd let you mouth my junk. I'd have to see your mouth first.

 

[parodyluvr75]

Do you represent any guilds, perhaps of the lollipop variety?

Stop being a tootsie pop.

 

[Disgustipated]

VatAss' wife would think you were a giant!

 

[unregistered]

 

[blobfish]

Stop being a tootsie pop.

I have four inches on this guy, and I rarely get a chance to feel superior. Don't take that away from me.

 

[parodyluvr75]

I have four inches on this guy, and I rarely get a chance to feel superior. Don't take that away from me.

My bad, I'll cease.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

What's in your wallet?

THAT really is the important question.

But I digress. OP? Your height and weight are average unless you want an amazon or a chubby chasing chick. Based on my huge fund of knowledge and experience with women consider this: Any man is better than no man, and expect her to try and trade up when someone better comes along; its not personal, its what they do. In the meantime focus on creating the life that appeals to YOU, and the right one will come along and think youre heaven. Always remember: A bachelor is a man with little appeal to any woman. If she wants you she'll come get you.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Every little man I've ever met has some form of 'little man syndrome'.
Do you have little man syndrome?

Youre fulla more shit than Santas sleigh.

 

[thelovingsadist]

Hi Ladies. Totally random question, but I just wanted to get some individual feedback since there's not one answer for the entire female gender.

I'm a 32 year old male, 5'8 165 lbs., (167-170 on a good day, but pretty much 165). I'm not a total gym rat and don't have washboard abs, but I'm not totally fat an out of shape either. As it pertains to you personally, am I a perfectly good size for a guy or at my size, would I be a little too small to garner any serious "checking him out" looks from you if you saw me at the mall or beach or park or wherever in general public?

I'm 5'7, and I don't have any problems.

Just be confident. You are who you are. You are what you have to offer. Some people will like it and some people won't, but you shouldn't let either influence your confidence. True confidence comes from within, and is not ruled by the whims and moods of the people around you.

Every little man I've ever met has some form of 'little man syndrome'.

You have officially met a little man that does not have "little man syndrome." Nice to meet you.

 

[blobfish]

My bad, I'll cease.

I'm sorry if I was short with you.

 

[JohnnySavage]

 

[blobfish]

Never forget the "view post" feature, grasshopper.

 

[warrior queen]

I'm 5'7, and I don't have any problems.

Just be confident. You are who you are. You are what you have to offer. Some people will like it and some people won't, but you shouldn't let either influence your confidence. True confidence comes from within, and is not ruled by the whims and moods of the people around you.



You have officially met a little man that does not have "little man syndrome." Nice to meet you.

I've considered that this syndrome may be particular to Australian men.
They all have to be blokey-blokes, and if that means walking around like a chest-puffing rooster who believes he's an emu, then that's how they go.
It's interesting..... go to almost any pub here, and you will witness the smallest guy in the room taking on the biggest guy at some point during the night

 

[parodyluvr75]

I'm sorry if I was short with you.

How's the weather up there?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

You're not a very fast typist.

 

[thelovingsadist]

I've considered that this syndrome may be particular to Australian men.
They all have to be blokey-blokes, and if that means walking around like a chest-puffing rooster who believes he's an emu, then that's how they go.
It's interesting..... go to almost any pub here, and you will witness the smallest guy in the room taking on the biggest guy at some point during the night

Hah, I've known guys like that too. I have a cousin like that, even.

But I, personally, enjoy being over looked and underestimated. Being a martial artist, it's a mental strategy thing. If I look and act average, people won't pay much attention to me, and thus I won't get in as much trouble as I will otherwise get in. And, if someone does push me into a corner that I can't talk my way out of, I always have the advantage of trained skill and experience hidden under average looks and behavior. Being underestimated by cocky assholes and "bullies" is a strategic advantage, and it's one I like to have.