Ladies: Have you ever been to a swinger's club?

[inside_out]

I'm in the middle of the longest dry spell of my life and have been considering checking one out. It's horrible

I looked in the area and saw a few, but can't figure out how to tell if it's legit or not.

What was your experiences as a single lady? Creepy? Just because I'm there to play doesn't mean there can't be a creep factor from a guy...

 

[davenjenn]

I'm in the middle of the longest dry spell of my life and have been considering checking one out. It's horrible

I looked in the area and saw a few, but can't figure out how to tell if it's legit or not.

What was your experiences as a single lady? Creepy? Just because I'm there to play doesn't mean there can't be a creep factor from a guy...

I did it a couple of times with a friend when we were quite young. It was kind of fun the first time, not something I need to do again though

 

[cookiecat]

Going alone would be tough. My experience is it's more couples. Honestly, the few we went to without knowing anyone felt like a sad high school prom where the cool kids who all knew each other congregated together and the rest of us hung out awkwardly on the perimeter.

A guy I dated said he went to a couple parties and they were ok. Goal of getting fucked was accomplished but he said he felt pretty creepy after. And this guy was super dirty...

 

[Kittyscave]

My husband and I used to go. I'd suggest checking out a lifestyles page like Swing Lifestyle (sls.com) or Couples4Play (c4P.com) and getting to know people first. Everyone is looking for a single lady. I know many people who started their relationships through a lifestyles site. They're like every other club - what you make of it is how much fun you'll have.

 

[mmarfox]

My wife and I have only gone once, but it was quite recent. My opinion is go on a night that single men are not allowed. Every single guy there was super creepy and/or lonely. Not sure what you're looking for sexually, but it sounds like you want to avoid creeps, so there's my advice.

 

[Islander55]

I'm a married female and have gone to clubs alone many times. Usually clubs my husband and I have previously been to so I already know I will feel comfortable. I've also been alone to clubs neither of us have been to. Look for their website and club photos. Park outside for a little while and see what type of crowd is going in.
Once I'm tipsy and in the mood I am not picky at all so the type of crowd doesn't matter much to me as long as it's an on-premesis club.

i know what you mean. I generally do not get tipsy but if I am horny, I am not too picky either. Assuming he has groomed recently.

 

[Islander55]

I don't care if they're ungroomed as long as their hygiene is good. And their attitude. Lol

At my age there attitude is not as important as a good hard cock.

 

[Veeweewee]

We go to private parties regularly, but have gone to establishments. I can only echo most of the above. The thing is to figure out beforehand what your boundaries and expectations are, because there are all sorts of different dynamics at these places.

Some are pretty straightforward, others more into kink. Plus do you want to have sex with one guy and go home, or have sex with several men? Do you want F on F action as well?

All stuff you should really think about before you go.