ladies do you think I Should I start dating again?

[Guest]

I miss a woman to hug, and to hold to let me make her happy while I was married I did
wash dishes
laundry
cook---homestyle cooking no micro-wave stuff
help keep the house clean
kept the yard done
take out the trash
help take care of the kids while they were home
watch the kids so she could go out and be with her friends
give her money when she needed it
bought a home--es it is paided for
bought her a car every year

so what did I do wrong/

 

[just pet]

Maybe it's all the women you have been kissing...

 

[Guest]

Maybe it's all the women you have been kissing...

I didn't start to do that till after she went back to Japan and she went back 7 months ago


I started kissing the gals here on lit this week

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

 

[Killswitch]

Theres only a few girls here who I would want to kiss if I was single......one of em's from L.A.





Dark, sensual, sexy, eeeeeesh....ya drive me crazy.

 

[Guest]

so I take it I shouldn't start dating again by the answers her

 

[Ms_Lilith]

if you feel you're ready for the dating scene, then go for it. Just come scouting in BC!

*grin*

 

[DiamanteBella]

Although I know it's hard...you do have to get back out there. You can't let it bring you down and hold you there.

Just start out slow...

 

[H'venlee]

I miss a woman to hug, and to hold to let me make her happy while I was married I did
wash dishes
laundry
cook---homestyle cooking no micro-wave stuff
help keep the house clean
kept the yard done
take out the trash
help take care of the kids while they were home
watch the kids so she could go out and be with her friends
give her money when she needed it
bought a home--es it is paided for
bought her a car every year

so what did I do wrong/

Mmmmm...I would date you.

Heck, if I wasn't attached already, I would marry you!!!

Dreamguy...if you feel the need to find someone, then go for it. We all need someone else at times. It is not necessarily a bad thing.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

... so what did I do wrong/

You just gave an itemized list of what you did wrong. You can be nice, but unfortunately there exists among some women the idea of being "too nice." I have no fucking idea how someone can be too nice to you. But, I've heard women complaining that this man or that was indeed too nice.

 

[Gusty Wind]

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[Gusty Wind]

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[Cheyenne]

I miss a woman to hug, and to hold to let me make her happy while I was married I did
wash dishes
laundry
cook---homestyle cooking no micro-wave stuff
help keep the house clean
kept the yard done
take out the trash
help take care of the kids while they were home
watch the kids so she could go out and be with her friends
give her money when she needed it
bought a home--es it is paided for
bought her a car every year

so what did I do wrong/

Perhaps there is a list of things you didn't do, too? Sex?

Or there is a list of stuff you did do other than the one above?

You seem nice, but we can't really know that just from your initial posts here.

As to the question about dating again, go for it. If you want to date, then date.

 

[Tranquility]

If you deciede to start dating again make sure they are seeing you for you not what you do for a living and the spotlight that can be cast upon them by assoscation with you. I know it sounds cold and callous but working with MLB I saw ALOT of women flaunt themselves at players simply to say "ya know I dated or did so-so from so-so team" same with alot of sports and sports entertainment personalites I am sure. I saw a interview with DE Jr once in playboy and he was saying how hard it is to date because of who he is and what he does. I have noticed that NasCar and CTS ppl don't have very many issues and if they do they aren't brought to the public eye unless of course you are Brooke Gordon and trying to take ole Jeff for everything and his underwear. Of course this is just MHO....good luck if you do deciede to date again though I know I wouldn't want to start over again its scary out there

 

[BgMma]

I agree that there is such a thing as too nice, but from what I see, you are more than willing to lend a hand, and to me, you would be a lifesaver!

Now, I will tell you this.....if you kick me out of my kitchen I will hurt you.

But sure, date, have fun. Only you can tell if you are ready.

 

[ksmybuttons]

If you are divorced, go ahead. If you are not, get divorced then date.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: ladies do you think I Should I start dating again?

Perhaps there is a list of things you didn't do, too? Sex?

Or there is a list of stuff you did do other than the one above?

I pretty much took care of everything Sex included always

a few things I did not list and will not list

If you deciede to start dating again make sure they are seeing you for you not what you do for a living and the spotlight that can be cast upon them by assoscation with you. I know it sounds cold and callous but working with MLB I saw ALOT of women flaunt themselves at players simply to say "ya know I dated or did so-so from so-so team" same with alot of sports and sports entertainment personalites I am sure. I saw a interview with DE Jr once in playboy and he was saying how hard it is to date because of who he is and what he does. I have noticed that NasCar and CTS ppl don't have very many issues and if they do they aren't brought to the public eye unless of course you are Brooke Gordon and trying to take ole Jeff for everything and his underwear. Of course this is just MHO....good luck if you do deciede to date again though I know I wouldn't want to start over again its scary out there

it is hard because of who I am thats why I am a little afraid to date

and she is now back home in Japan so what she saays wouldn't make the press here

 

[sxylegs]

You should feel comfortable in everything that you do. Even in dating......Just relax and you might just meet someone that you want to date and wants to date you......not just because of who you are or anything else superficial......

Good Luck.....

If in Indiana....look me up....

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Re: Re: ladies do you think I Should I start dating again?

it is hard because of who I am thats why I am a little afraid to date

I must have missed something. Are you famous or something that what you do would be newsworthy?

Don't answer that.

Find someone online that doesn't have a clue who (or what?) you are. Let them fall for you as you are, before they know you're famous, or rich, or whatever. Let that be one of the things you talk about last before you meet anyone you find in person.

 

[DiamanteBella]

Very good advice from the SmartyPants there
And if you're in Idaho I wouldn't oblige either...

 

[Luminary]

ladies do you think I should i start

I love the kissing bandit part of you
But I don't remember getting a kiss from you !!!

But I love your wit and sense of fun !!!
There is someone for everyone !!!
Get off the porch and get back into the game !!!!

 

[asenath]

I miss a woman to hug, and to hold to let me make her happy while I was married I did
wash dishes
laundry
cook---homestyle cooking no micro-wave stuff
help keep the house clean
kept the yard done
take out the trash
help take care of the kids while they were home
watch the kids so she could go out and be with her friends
give her money when she needed it
bought a home--es it is paided for
bought her a car every year

so what did I do wrong/

You were a sap. It's good to be nice... and good to be sappy and sweet... but it's not good to play slave. Well, it'd be good if you wanted a Domme... but, you know...

 

[tulip2lipservice]

Stalking dreamguy because you are

supposedly famous. I want to be your groupie. Swoon. Seriously if you were I would probably be intimidated by you and that is usually not in my make up and isn't a pretty picture. So putting the stalking idea aside here is some adivce added to the other good suggestions out there.

If you feel it is right to date again just do it. Again it all depends on your status if you are divorced or single. If you are attached wait because it will only add to the confussion and cause hassels. Take this time to clean out the cob webs and figure out who you are again and what you truly want.

If you are single you have nothing to loose in dating. From the sounds of it you sound lonely. Guess what we all feel that. It is not easy to go to sleep by yourself but at the same time it is not easy to sleep with another and feel alone.

You might just be in a transitional period and need time to date while you are healing from the past relationship. It all depends on many factors like how long the two of you were together and how long seperated for. At the same time you are probably questioning what you did wrong? Most of us do this for nobody likes to fail and that is how most interpret it instead of realizing it is more difficult to move on than to stay.

I have learned that there is always two sides to every story. I am sure you messed up with things as well as she did. Learn from it and remember all relationships and people are different. Sometimes people just grow apart and are unable to bond again. Just take this time to have a relationship with yourself right now.

OK jumping off my soap box. I know it is not easy and I wish you luck!

Peace,
Tulip

 

[Blackbich]

Re: Re: Re: Re: ladies do you think I Should I start dating again?

I must have missed something. Are you famous or something that what you do would be newsworthy?

Don't answer that.

Find someone online that doesn't have a clue who (or what?) you are. Let them fall for you as you are, before they know you're famous, or rich, or whatever. Let that be one of the things you talk about last before you meet anyone you find in person.

What the ever wise Cheyenne said!!

 

[DiamanteBella]

Seems like Chey knows her stuff since we are all just quoting her