Kissing

[HRE]

Well, I got my first kiss a couple days ago...which led to a long session of deep kissing, and then fondling of breasts, and then licking and suckling of breasts...

Which led to her orgasming and then a couple more hours of kissing and holding.

Now, I know her to be completely honest, in good times and bad.

She stated that I was very good at what I had done -- the second best she had ever had, and the first had been practicing for three years.

My question:

How do I get that first position? What makes a good kisser a great kisser? What can I do (above the borderline) to make her even happier?

 

[Volomon]

Hair fondling, caressing, massaging, pretty much all the touchy feeling stuff that you can possibly think of. Every woman is different. Best to just ask sometimes though some woman won't exactly tell you cause they "expect" you to just do it.

The hair thing works, btw.

 

[Cathleen]

Well, I got my first kiss a couple days ago...which led to a long session of deep kissing, and then fondling of breasts, and then licking and suckling of breasts...

Which led to her orgasming and then a couple more hours of kissing and holding.

Now, I know her to be completely honest, in good times and bad.

She stated that I was very good at what I had done -- the second best she had ever had, and the first had been practicing for three years.

My question:

How do I get that first position? What makes a good kisser a great kisser? What can I do (above the borderline) to make her even happier?

Welcome to Lit HRE, and what a sweet post.

For me the difference is about the heart actually. When the feelings grow the kisses change, everything changes really. Take your time with kissing, some long slow wet kisses and then some really deep and passionate ones too.

I will respectfully disagree with Volomon, I do not 'expect' a man to just do it. It takes two people to make a great kiss. The suggestions made are nice though.

Congratulations on your first ~ here's hoping you'll have many more.

 

[HRE]

Right...now I have a big (embarassing) problem.

I've been hard for three days non-stop looking forward to the next I'd be with her...which happened to be today.

She showed up, we started making out and so forth...and I got soft.

She had her shirt off, was tonguing me, deep-throated my fingers, dry-humped me, masturbated me, titty-fucked me, and even gave me a deep blowjob...and I stayed soft the whole time.

Embarassing, to say the least.

I'm a teenager -- I'm supposed to be horny 24/7!

What happened?!

 

[rchriss]

Im assuming this is the furthest youve been with a girl? I had the exact same thing with my current SO, happened twice which wasnt great for the old confidence. Try again, its just nervs.

 

[Guest]

 

[LeahLo519]

Being a great kisser has a lot to do with the feelings invested in the other person. I think that my guy is the best kisser in the world, but it's partly because he's just awesome at it and partly because we have so much chemistry. As for what happened to you, try not to let it bother you too much! That happens to many guys (especially adolescent ones) for a variety of different reasons. I'm guessing you were just nervous about your second meeting with her. Just try to relax next time.

 

[EJFan]

yup. nerves.

and it's not helping that you're thinking about "that number one spot"... combined with having to live up to the expectations you set for yourself with this magical kissing session. in other words, i think you're trying to become the number one kisser AND be a better sex partner than kisser on top of that.

take it slow, relax and enjoy it for what it is. no contests here.

 

[Guest]

 

[SnoopDog]

Well, I got my first kiss a couple days ago...which led to a long session of deep kissing, and then fondling of breasts, and then licking and suckling of breasts...

Which led to her orgasming and then a couple more hours of kissing and holding.

Now, I know her to be completely honest, in good times and bad.

She stated that I was very good at what I had done -- the second best she had ever had, and the first had been practicing for three years.

My question:

How do I get that first position? What makes a good kisser a great kisser? What can I do (above the borderline) to make her even happier?

You lucky guy. I got my first kiss a couple of days ago and since then the realtionship has been downhill.

(At least she said I was good but maybe that was just B_S.)

No groping, fondling or licking though.

Snoopy

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

The Very Best Kisses

It is almost summer and the temperatures are rising. If you want to make hers do the same try this the next time she has on a neck and back bearing tank top, halter, etc.
Come up behind her and if she has her hair down pull it up in your hand giving it a gentle tug as you begin softly kissing her neck. Work your kisses down across the shoulder blade as you take your hands and place them on her hips pulling her ass into you.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

One thing that I'll definitely repeat here is to put your hand in her hair and just hold her head while you're kissing her. And if you want to really send her over the edge, give her some smaller kisses on her neck (like under the ears). Don't go trying to give her a hickey, just to kinda nuzzle her neck a little while you do it.

As for the going soft thing, just relax. It happens. And the next time you're with her try not to think about what is goign to happen next. It'll all just happen.

 

[sexyjenn]

I second the neck-kisses they really get me in the mood but every girl is different so try and find out what she likes since she did do all that for you, are you going to eat her out next time you see her? keep us informed enjoy yourself and remember safe sex

 

[SweetDevil1977]

From HRE:
Well, I got my first kiss a couple days ago...which led to a long session of deep kissing, and then fondling of breasts, and then licking and suckling of breasts...

Which led to her orgasming and then a couple more hours of kissing and holding.

Now, I know her to be completely honest, in good times and bad.

She stated that I was very good at what I had done -- the second best she had ever had, and the first had been practicing for three years.


My question:

How do I get that first position? What makes a good kisser a great kisser? What can I do (above the borderline) to make her even happier?
From Snoopy
You lucky guy. I got my first kiss a couple of days ago and since then the realtionship has been downhill.

(At least she said I was good but maybe that was just B_S.)

No groping, fondling or licking though.

Snoopy



Ok I'm not trying to be insensitive or a total bitch (really I'm not) but I have a burning question in the back of my mind...Exactly how old are you guys??

I was under the impression that since this was a porn board that you needed to be at least 18 to post on it per U.S. law. If this is my mistake please someone feel free to bash me in the head and tell me to shut up.

On to my sweeter side... if indeed you are 18 or older (both of you), why did you choose to wait so long for your first kiss?? I think I experienced my first kiss when I was like 8. I am intrigued by people who wait so long for things like this. Maybe it's because I was introduced to sex at a very young age (long story for another time).

As for technique, grabbing my by the nape of my neck (which is right under her hair) and planting a long, deep kiss on me is the way to go. Makes me all jiggly in the knees.

 

[rcuhljr]

Ok I'm not trying to be insensitive or a total bitch (really I'm not) but I have a burning question in the back of my mind...Exactly how old are you guys??

I was under the impression that since this was a porn board that you needed to be at least 18 to post on it per U.S. law. If this is my mistake please someone feel free to bash me in the head and tell me to shut up.

On to my sweeter side... if indeed you are 18 or older (both of you), why did you choose to wait so long for your first kiss?? I think I experienced my first kiss when I was like 8. I am intrigued by people who wait so long for things like this. Maybe it's because I was introduced to sex at a very young age (long story for another time).

As for technique, grabbing my by the nape of my neck (which is right under her hair) and planting a long, deep kiss on me is the way to go. Makes me all jiggly in the knees.

Dunno, that's not bad for the painfully shy, 21 here.

 

[deadlock32]

Sometimes it isn't exactly a choice to "wait" for your firsts. Through highschool I never met a girl that was attracted to me beyond being friendly (plus I was a goofy looking fat kid). It wasn't until senior year that I fooled around with a girl a little bit. It wasn't exactly my choice to "wait", but it worked out that way.

Also, it is definately a two way street with the kissing thing. I don't know if I'm any good, but I have experienced the good to not so good.

 

[SnoopDog]

From HRE:
Well, I got my first kiss a couple days ago...which led to a long session of deep kissing, and then fondling of breasts, and then licking and suckling of breasts...

Which led to her orgasming and then a couple more hours of kissing and holding.

Now, I know her to be completely honest, in good times and bad.

She stated that I was very good at what I had done -- the second best she had ever had, and the first had been practicing for three years.


My question:

How do I get that first position? What makes a good kisser a great kisser? What can I do (above the borderline) to make her even happier?
From Snoopy
You lucky guy. I got my first kiss a couple of days ago and since then the realtionship has been downhill.

(At least she said I was good but maybe that was just B_S.)

No groping, fondling or licking though.

Snoopy



Ok I'm not trying to be insensitive or a total bitch (really I'm not) but I have a burning question in the back of my mind...Exactly how old are you guys??

I was under the impression that since this was a porn board that you needed to be at least 18 to post on it per U.S. law. If this is my mistake please someone feel free to bash me in the head and tell me to shut up.

On to my sweeter side... if indeed you are 18 or older (both of you), why did you choose to wait so long for your first kiss?? I think I experienced my first kiss when I was like 8. I am intrigued by people who wait so long for things like this. Maybe it's because I was introduced to sex at a very young age (long story for another time).

As for technique, grabbing my by the nape of my neck (which is right under her hair) and planting a long, deep kiss on me is the way to go. Makes me all jiggly in the knees.

No reason to get rude here. Really. You know there are some other people out here that might not be as fortunate as you to have experienced things like that early. Maybe you take some time to consider what you're going to say before you actually open your mouth and start babbling.

Snoopy

 

[HRE]

Like they said...it isn't exactly a choice...most of us didn't want to wait this long...

I've always just been very shy around members of the opposite sex that I'm attracted to...

And I have an extraordinarily bad and embarassing record with dating...but that is for another time.

 

[xxxKyleB]

Why did you choose to wait so long for your first kiss??

Hahaha... wait?!? You seriously think somebody chose to wait a long time to have their first kiss?
Now, I'm not going to spend a long time on this, but I do believe I can clear up an important issue that most women don't seem to understand. The point is that girls get chased, and guys have to fend for themselves, because ever since girls start growing tits they get offered all kinds of shit, and unless you're the most attractive guy on the planet, you don't get offered shit, lol.
Now, I got my first kiss when I was 12, but I'm 18 now and I haven't gone a whole lot further since then, and that's simply just the luck of the draw i guess, lol.

 

[Eilan]

On to my sweeter side... if indeed you are 18 or older (both of you), why did you choose to wait so long for your first kiss??

I was 19, and it was because nobody wanted to kiss me.

 

[SweetDevil1977]

No reason to get rude here. Really. You know there are some other people out here that might not be as fortunate as you to have experienced things like that early. Maybe you take some time to consider what you're going to say before you actually open your mouth and start babbling.

Snoopy

Ok really I was not trying to be rude at all.

I also don't consider myself to be fortunate to have experienced things like that.

I have a VERY fucked up perspective on anything sexually related.

I was just curious as to why it took so long. Me personally I was abused from the time I was 8 until I was about 11. I was not a cute child growing up either. But if I had the opportunity to make the decision I would have waited for everything.

I am truly sorry, I didn't mean to offend anyone. I was just trying to understand because in this day and age you really don't hear of this too often.

 

[phoenix1224]

I am truly sorry, I didn't mean to offend anyone. I was just trying to understand because in this day and age you really don't hear of this too often.

You have to keep in mind though that, for every 10 people that are out there enjoying dating/fooling around/ fucking, there's at least one that ISN'T so lucky... Sad, but true...

 

[bisexplicit]

Ok really I was not trying to be rude at all.

I also don't consider myself to be fortunate to have experienced things like that.

I have a VERY fucked up perspective on anything sexually related.

I was just curious as to why it took so long. Me personally I was abused from the time I was 8 until I was about 11. I was not a cute child growing up either. But if I had the opportunity to make the decision I would have waited for everything.

I am truly sorry, I didn't mean to offend anyone. I was just trying to understand because in this day and age you really don't hear of this too often.

I don't think you need to apologize. I was kindof curious as to how old the person was myself - I didn't have a first real "make out" sortof kiss until I was sixteen; and I always assumed that I was late.
I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you as well.