Kinks - how open are you about them?

[Michael_Keaton]

I don’t suppose many would consider this a kink, but here goes. I don’t give men oral very often, unless it’s part of a longer and full sexual encounter, but when I do, I like to do it after he’s finished and pulled out, so I can taste myself on his shaft.

Weird or what?

Lucy xx.

One of my favorite things to do is to fuck for a dozen or so strokes, then pull out and lick her pussy for a minute, then repeat, then repeat, then repeat..... .

Is that any weirder than your 'kink' (which I don't think is weird at all unless you think HOT! = Kink). She's never let me taste the creampie (which may be yet another kink) but I can hope!

 

[Ladyluck4cc]

I'm a bi F so my kinks are prob diff from most! I do think the older I get the more open I am.

 

[9to5]

what makes it different then most?

 

[AriesAngyl]

I am with a lot of people here. I have kinks from mild to wild…and for the softer ones it’s not such a big deal and they wouldn’t bother most people. I do have a few that I keep more secretive as they would probably bother some people.

As long as both people are consenting, I say have a good time and enjoy the moment.

 

[TinaG_2023]

I can't say that I have many "kinks" but I am always willing to try things suggested to me. lol

 

[9to5]

I can't say that I have many "kinks" but I am always willing to try things suggested to me. lol

at least your open to trying. not like some others I have known

 

[BossingBoy88]

I am with a lot of people here. I have kinks from mild to wild…and for the softer ones it’s not such a big deal and they wouldn’t bother most people. I do have a few that I keep more secretive as they would probably bother some people.

As long as both people are consenting, I say have a good time and enjoy the moment.

I really think you shouldn't feel your partner would be bothered. The biggest complimented a partner can give me is opening up about all their fantasies and letting me know about all their desires. It is so fulfilling to see them feel good about themselves while being themselves

 

[BossingBoy88]

I can't say that I have many "kinks" but I am always willing to try things suggested to me. lol

Its like there were some kinks I had never thought about. But once I got to try them after suggestion from my partner in the past. They kinda turned into my own

 

[TinaG_2023]

Its like there were some kinks I had never thought about. But once I got to try them after suggestion from my partner in the past. They kinda turned into my own

Now ya' know!!

 

[CuriousOneHere]

The longer I am on this earth the more open I have become.

 

[Beth_Anne90]

I can't say that I have many "kinks" but I am always willing to try things suggested to me. lol

Really Tina?

 

[Dashabout]

Yes kinks can develop at any particular age or I should say rather than develop come to the forefront. Kinks may already be there in our head but probably some particular event just brings them out.

So very true.

Hub is not only supportive, he's worse than me. Same with my friends. Who wouldn't be amused is my mum-in-law.

Not sure how my mother in law would have reacted she passed away years ago, but my own mother has come around to skinny dipping and some other "kinks" (I'm not real sure what is considered a kink or a lifestyle choice). Mom enjoys her nudist time here at the lake and the relations she developed with some friends here. She's opened up over the last several years since her second husband passed too.

As for being open about my life, some friends and family know, even coworkers, Seems as I've aged I care less what others think and I live for myself and my husband. He's been more than supportive since we met and I'd have to say quite the instigator for many things.

 

[Beth_Anne90]

I don't really know what's kinky about anything I do or enjoy! I just love sex! Always have since, well as far back as I can remember. I often think it's just my need to be pleasured and there have always been those that are willing to be at my beck and call.

 

[9to5]

I don't really know what's kinky about anything I do or enjoy! I just love sex! Always have since, well as far back as I can remember. I often think it's just my need to be pleasured and there have always been those that are willing to be at my beck and call.

so you enjoy the orgasm no matter what your doing?

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

It depends, every situation is different.

 

[Honeysuckleboi]

Pretty private about my kinks in daily life, but a few friends might know the more vanilla ones that have been brought up in casual talk.
I come across as a pretty bland, reserved guy in my day-to-day, and only really like to share in safer places like this, or with someone that I Know is also a kinkster. I had a long-distance partner that I discussed a lot of my naughtier kinks with and she was very supportive and fun with it! It really opened up the door for me to discover I enjoyed a lotttt more kink than I'd thought!

I've gotten some of the gear to experiment alone with BDSM, especially the bondage aspect, but I'd probably be too nervous or shy to engage in some of the riskier kinks, like public sex or breeding, especially with a stranger. Kinks I can hide under my clothes in public can help, like lewd body writing, or plug in my ass and some lacy panties on under my shorts while I go shop.

 

[RozayTrell]

I’m actually not that open about my kinks . Which can be tough seeing as that I’m here on this site. I wish I had consistent friends I can talk and share kinks with but I see that probably won’t happen . It’s been good to be anonymous and just say what comes to mind freaky wise or even read some kinky things beside stories

 

[captainhedy]

one person's kink is another person's standard behaviour. I grew up in a religious household where everything was kinky, only they never knew the word.

 

[Mike130]

I’m actually not that open about my kinks . Which can be tough seeing as that I’m here on this site. I wish I had consistent friends I can talk and share kinks with but I see that probably won’t happen . It’s been good to be anonymous and just say what comes to mind freaky wise or even read some kinky things beside stories

Same here. I have no friends that I share my kinks with. They would definitely think I was a pervert. Here, on Literotica and being anonymous, I can be more free with my kinks.

 

[MtrFmd]

Seems like when I was younger, say even until maybe age 40ish or older I wanted to cum, to ejaculate...I was kinky, yes, and enjoyed it, but not the way I do today. Back then the main thought in my mind was orgasm...as of late I'm not so much concerned with cumming, I just like to play.

That's interesting. I feel like I'm heading that way, too. I'm now 45 and I long for the "playing" part more and more. That's probably why I'm here. Gives me a chance to explore this, at least in my head.

 

[MtrFmd]

I'm not even open about my kinks with myself.

No, not really, but it took me a while to turn my porn queries from "milf" to "mature", and only recently to "gilf". Somehow I don't want to admit to myself where I'm going.

I'm pretty open with my wife. She is not judgemental and even practices some of my kinks with me. However, she doesn't like to talk about sex and our sex life is not really evolving anymore.

That's why I'm here. Otherwise I don't really talk about it with anyone.

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

I'm not even open about my kinks with myself.

No, not really, but it took me a while to turn my porn queries from "milf" to "mature", and only recently to "gilf". Somehow I don't want to admit to myself where I'm going.

I'm pretty open with my wife. She is not judgemental and even practices some of my kinks with me. However, she doesn't like to talk about sex and our sex life is not really evolving anymore.

That's why I'm here. Otherwise I don't really talk about it with anyone.

That’s a kink, but Lit has taught me there are a lot of people into that.

 

[MtrFmd]

That’s a kink, but Lit has taught me there are a lot of people into that.

True. Sometimes it's surprising to me how mainstream some kinks seem to be. Foot fetish, for example.

Equally, I'm surprised how rare other kinks are. As you pointed out, mature is a fairly established genre. However, what I'm into in particular, seems to fall through the cracks of several genres, making it hard for me to find a suitable category.

 

[AZsurfer45]

I’m in the online dating pool and I try to make it known early on I do prefer sex in the kinky side as opposed to being vanilla.

Doesn’t mean I get into graphic details. There is an art towards being subtle. But I’m very open in making them aware and if they want steamy details I’m happy to share more.

I’m very confident/sex positive and the way I see it, any partner of mine needs to be also or else it won’t work for me. So letting them know I might be a little more of a freak than most is my way of weeding out dead ends.

 

[Wildfly11]

I don’t suppose many would consider this a kink, but here goes. I don’t give men oral very often, unless it’s part of a longer and full sexual encounter, but when I do, I like to do it after he’s finished and pulled out, so I can taste myself on his shaft.

Weird or what?

Lucy xx.

Nothing weird about that...reverse cream pie And just how many times to you work it back to a hard erection?