Just not interested...

[Black_Bird]

Did you ever reach a point in your adult life where you just were not interested in sex, relationships, or love? A time in your life when you were just happy to be yourself, living your life?

I think I've reached that point; I just don't really feel the urge for it. Yes, I feel the need for emotional connection with other humanbeings, and especially females, but I don't feel the need to be romantic or sexual.

Is that odd?

 

[KillerMuffin]

No, that's not odd. I feel that way a lot myself.

 

[Guest]

 

[His_kitty]

No.


I think what it means is that at this moment your happy and content with who you are and you don't feel the need to move into a relationship.


Btw from what I've seen with myself and others, this is when you'll end up meeting someone terrific. Because you aren't actively seeking her... just enjoying your life.

 

[SouthernBellea]

Naw...not odd. I have those times myself.

Southern Belle
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Monazwx]

Not odd at all.
It's a great time to take a step back from yourself and enjoy what you have.
And to find out what more you want.

 

[aly*]

Not sure. I feel like that a lot, too. I have also been called odd though.

 

[Black_Bird]

Thanks guys; I needed to know this was normal.

 

[roxanne69]

The Gods have put you here to torture me for all eternity

 

[SpiceCake]

Did you ever reach a point in your adult life where you just were not interested in sex, relationships, or love? A time in your life when you were just happy to be yourself, living your life?

I think I've reached that point; I just don't really feel the urge for it. Yes, I feel the need for emotional connection with other humanbeings, and especially females, but I don't feel the need to be romantic or sexual.

Is that odd?

Nope - I know just what you mean.

 

[Black_Bird]

The Gods have put you here to torture me for all eternity

Not for all eternity; I'm bound to get horny sooner or later.

 

[Silverlily]

Thanks guys; I needed to know this was normal.

It may be normal, you on the other hand...



(we all need our space at some point or another)

 

[Black_Bird]

It may be normal, you on the other hand...

Okay, so I'm not normal... at least I'm regular.

 

[MissTaken]

I was like that for a while.


I called it Marraige!

Hmm wonder if there is a connection between that and my attorney's fees?

*joking, okay!*

But no, it isn't abnormal, but then , look at who you are asking.

I am ont sure litsters would rate high on any sexuality scale in terms fitting the norm.

 

[Silverlily]

Okay, so I'm not normal... at least I'm regular.

Sweetheart, your fiber intake is TMI.

 

[Black_Bird]

But no, it isn't abnormal, but then , look at who you are asking.

I am ont sure litsters would rate high on any sexuality scale in terms fitting the norm.

No, they wouldn't; Listers are generally unusually horny and randy folk... which is why I figure if *those* people experience times when sex becomes a non priority, then it MUST be a normal thing.

 

[MissTaken]

Good point.

I am not there, now. I want the sex, love and relationship. I want someone to cuddle with because I am too damn cold and to take this sliver out of my finger and help me find the hanster. Hmmm I am not sure that really fits into this conversation.

Anyway, I want it all and I aim to have it.
Then, with my luck I will slip back into my skin when I find it and scare the poor dude away!

 

[roxanne69]

I was feeling like that until you got here

 

[Black_Bird]

Sweetheart, your fiber intake is TMI.

You infered that I was not normal, and I admitted as much; I needed to demonstrate that I was at least normal in one sense of the word...

 

[Guest]

 

[Black_Bird]

I was able to be comfortable in my skin for about 3 minutes. I can't seem to not panic at the thought of growing old by myself or being alone. I am up right now because I don't like to sleep alone or be home at night alone. I need people.

The only problem is that once I find someone that might be willing to commit... I'm pushing them away. I don't want anyone too close. Too close = too much information which leads to my heart breaking eventually.

I wear my heart on my sleeve and yet I keep it from being taken. I dont know that I've had a real moment where I was comfortable with being me. I'm my worst enemy.

I think part of growing up is learning how to be comfortable being vulnerable. We all hurt, and we are all afriad, but if we allow pain and fear to control our lives, we will never know what it feels like to be free of them.

 

[Georgia Girl]

I would consider it to be quite normal.

You can't love another or be comfortable with them until you can be comfortable in the stillness with yourself.

By the way.......hi gorgeous, its been a while.

 

[Lost Cause]

I'm there...

It's fun to realize the difference between a want and need. I like being with myself, running with scissors, leaving the lights on, drinking out of the milkjug. When the time comes, I'll balance it more with a relationship, but right now I enjoy the vacation!

 

[Lasz]

I do reach phases for a a week at a time where I feel that way.

That is usually when I get the most studying and other non-sexual activities done.

 

[Guest]