Just don't know

[CottonForMe]

Am very confused. Over 50, male.
Don't know - some times I want to the fucker, sometimes the fuckee.
Sometimes love wearing plain bra and panties, sometimes cool mens underwear, or even lace mens undies.
Sometimes want a gurl, other times want a bear type, then again a twink would be nice.
Have messed with tampons, pads butt plugs.......
Sometimes want pussy, sometimes cock, to suck or fuck.
A japanese schoolgirl look is neat too.
Man sex, would love to.
But am also scared of hurting the one I love. If she knew, about the above and more, it would probably crush her.

 

[Chrissi]

Cotton send me a PM if you would like.

And in the meantime, a big HUG for you
Topher

 

[bluesky496]

Am very confused. Over 50, male.
Don't know - some times I want to the fucker, sometimes the fuckee.
Sometimes love wearing plain bra and panties, sometimes cool mens underwear, or even lace mens undies.
Sometimes want a gurl, other times want a bear type, then again a twink would be nice.
Have messed with tampons, pads butt plugs.......
Sometimes want pussy, sometimes cock, to suck or fuck.
A japanese schoolgirl look is neat too.
Man sex, would love to.
But am also scared of hurting the one I love. If she knew, about the above and more, it would probably crush her.

you must decide if these are just fantasies or something you really want and if it is really something you want you could probably just open a conversation with the one you love and raise the topic of fantasies and ask her if she has any first and see where it leads.

 

[LucyH]

I know the feeling. I should have been born a shape-shifting alien, like Odo from Star Trek, but sadly, I wasn't. Or sometimes I think my boyfriend and I ought to be able to swap parts like potato head people.

 

[Stella_Omega]

But am also scared of hurting the one I love. If she knew, about the above and more, it would probably crush her.

How sure are you of this? I'm asking with respect-- you certainly know more about your SO than any of us do. But we often underestimate the people around us.

 

[Dyslexicea]

How sure are you of this? I'm asking with respect-- you certainly know more about your SO than any of us do. But we often underestimate the people around us.

I might also add it can be surprising just how much we don't know about our partners. We all hide sexual ideas and fantasies that we may think are unacceptable to our significant other. Getting up the courage to discuss your desires can be hard but at least in my case, it really did shock me because not only was she willing to fulfill my desires and fantasies she also had similar desires.

I also feel that if you're in a relationship you owe it to your partner to discuss anything you feel she/he may be hurt by if you do go behind her/his back.

 

[Learningboy]

I really feel ya...I'm the same in many ways ....
Arrergggghhhh!!!

 

[Learningboy]

Agree

I really feel ya...I'm the same in many ways ....
Arrergggghhhh!!!