Just a thought....

[phelon]

rambling thoughts

my rambling thoughts on size..

first.. the size matters in different ways.. looking vs. actual sex...
not to mention that BBW is a open definition, i have seen some scary places that seem to think that a size 12 is big..
i think the first step is... finding a common definition to work from...
personally i think less than 8 is skinny.. 8 to 16 is average 16 -20 is full sized, and 22+ is starting to get into the big...
even there.. a 5' tall woman vs. a 6' tall woman can make a 2 size difference in that...
in general I like women based on overall package, slim or not, with all of my relationships having been with larger women..
i will admit there are some positions and things that size matters for, but overall... i'd still take any of them over someone whos ribs stick out or who has no ass..

 

[bellinda69]

my rambling thoughts on size..

first.. the size matters in different ways.. looking vs. actual sex...
not to mention that BBW is a open definition, i have seen some scary places that seem to think that a size 12 is big..
i think the first step is... finding a common definition to work from...
personally i think less than 8 is skinny.. 8 to 16 is average 16 -20 is full sized, and 22+ is starting to get into the big...
even there.. a 5' tall woman vs. a 6' tall woman can make a 2 size difference in that...
in general I like women based on overall package, slim or not, with all of my relationships having been with larger women..
i will admit there are some positions and things that size matters for, but overall... i'd still take any of them over someone whos ribs stick out or who has no ass..

Think you're right bout that.....(the rambling thoughts on size)

by ur personal definition, im average then.... go figure. hahahhaha

But thanx for the input. I liked hearing it.

 

[Mansa Musa]

would i like to be what? squirty?
(maybe)

xx BeLL

Why are all of the hottest women in Canada?

 

[bellinda69]

Why are all of the hottest women in Canada?

LOL... cause we all decided to migrate here to explore the untamed Canadian land....

Why are al the hot men out east, when im stuck in the west? Fuck.

 

[Chapter 6]

Does Size Matter?

To a certain extent but it shouldn't mean that instantly one is turned on, or off. Size is relevant in the reverse too, there can be girls who are too skinny.
The overwhelming attraction to a woman, of any size is do they feel sexy in their own skin? A woman's pure sexiness exudes to us men in a greater way than we know, if she is sensual, comfortable, and feels sexy. For e.g. there are plenty of seriously good looking women in london with major attitude problems, so after the intial wow, they are in fact not wow, because of the way they feel.
Lets take belinda, an incredibly sexy woman because to my eyes she looks as they she feels sexy herself, she enjoys the attention of course, but more than that she carries herself in the pics with a certain sensual air which declares that she is comfortable with herself. In all honesty I never noticed anything about size just how damn gorgeous she is!

 

[bellinda69]

To a certain extent but it shouldn't mean that instantly one is turned on, or off. Size is relevant in the reverse too, there can be girls who are too skinny.
The overwhelming attraction to a woman, of any size is do they feel sexy in their own skin? A woman's pure sexiness exudes to us men in a greater way than we know, if she is sensual, comfortable, and feels sexy. For e.g. there are plenty of seriously good looking women in london with major attitude problems, so after the intial wow, they are in fact not wow, because of the way they feel.
Lets take belinda, an incredibly sexy woman because to my eyes she looks as they she feels sexy herself, she enjoys the attention of course, but more than that she carries herself in the pics with a certain sensual air which declares that she is comfortable with herself. In all honesty I never noticed anything about size just how damn gorgeous she is!

I love how u define a woman's sexiness. You're right bout having to be comfortable in your own skin, no matter the size. Loving yourself is important, because how you feel bout yourself is seen by others.....

And that comment bout me: why, Chp 6 i didnt know u found me to sexy! thank you! i used to have body image issues but thanx to this place (and of course the men) im loving my body a bit better these days.

As always Thanx for the input!!!!

BeLL

 

[Dreamliner]

For me it is not so much the actual body, rather the overall package....and I wait until I have heard her speak and how she speaks.

The curves..the flow in a sensual delight topped off with whit and brain capacity...you have a winner.

 

[bellinda69]

For me it is not so much the actual body, rather the overall package....and I wait until I have heard her speak and how she speaks.

The curves..the flow in a sensual delight topped off with whit and brain capacity...you have a winner.

Its true....u need wit,and a brain (in my opinion) to be sexy...

So u wait til u hear a woman speak before deciding if she's sexy or not?

 

[SirLicksAalot]

What about you . . . do you have preferences. All else being equal, would you go with the average fit guys, or those slightly heavier ones?

 

[bellinda69]

my preference...

What about you . . . do you have preferences. All else being equal, would you go with the average fit guys, or those slightly heavier ones?

Well for me i do have preferences.... everyone has. my preferences is towards the bigger guys, the tall, solidly built guys (i am gonna start sounding shallow right bout now!). Guess its coz being a bigger gurl myself, they kinda seem like a ideal choice. There'sjust somethng about a bigger guy (for me) that makes me feel protected, and wide shoulders, a nice chest and big hands drive me crazy. Im also a sucker for guys with accents.... I'd go for an average fit guy, dunt get mewrong. but given the chance, id go for the bigger guy. Thats just me.

So there's my preference. But at the end of the day,preference or not, it boils down to the person,not just how he looks. True physical attraction is important at first, but its how he treats me and makes me feel that makes or breaks the relationship....

xx BeLL

 

[Kazoora]

Judging from your pics, I wouldn't consider you a BBW. I agree with one of the previous posters -- it's such an all-over-the-place definition.
But everytime I start 'defining' a woman, I take a look in the mirror. I'm nice, but I'm no Playgirl centerfold.

 

[bellinda69]

Judging from your pics, I wouldn't consider you a BBW. I agree with one of the previous posters -- it's such an all-over-the-place definition.
But everytime I start 'defining' a woman, I take a look in the mirror. I'm nice, but I'm no Playgirl centerfold.

Well it kinda got boring when ppl askmeto describe myself.And yes i've been told a size 14 doesnt qualify as a bbw.So what am i? chubby? plump? curvy? Guess bbw (size 14) was the easiest way to describe myself.

BUt ur right bout defining a woman. I hate the labels "skinny", "average" "plus size" and my personal hated one "fat"....

As always thanx for sharing!!!!

xx Bell

 

[DaveMan]

Well it kinda got boring when ppl askmeto describe myself.And yes i've been told a size 14 doesnt qualify as a bbw.So what am i? chubby? plump? curvy? Guess bbw (size 14) was the easiest way to describe myself.

BUt ur right bout defining a woman. I hate the labels "skinny", "average" "plus size" and my personal hated one "fat"....

As always thanx for sharing!!!!

xx Bell

Well, to be honest I don't think I would tack any of those labels on you. If I really had to pick a description, it would be curvaceous, if only I could spell it But even then, that word is probably too often used as a euphemism for being overweight, and I definitely don't see you that way in the wonderful pictures you've posted in your other thread. How does "full-figured" sound? Not sure I like that one either)

It's not that there would be anything wrong with being chubby or plump or any of those other terms, as long as you feel sexy in your skin then that is what matters. I'ts just that I don't think they apply to you.

 

[biskuit]

my rather simple attraction to cuddly women is basically caused by the fact that once your "in" (in an 'in their often highly guarded" trust book kind of way), they dont usually have as many hang-ups and know what they want and arent prepared to ask for it... or my personal fave... demand it!!! but breaking down that "vision of herself" barrier ometimes requires more efoort than its worth! and usually those are the size 12ish type who just do the whole "i'm fat" so they can have their ego boosted by some guyteling them they arent!

if that makes any sense.... lol

 

[Kazoora]

Well it kinda got boring when ppl askmeto describe myself.And yes i've been told a size 14 doesnt qualify as a bbw.So what am i? chubby? plump? curvy? Guess bbw (size 14) was the easiest way to describe myself.

BUt ur right bout defining a woman. I hate the labels "skinny", "average" "plus size" and my personal hated one "fat"....

As always thanx for sharing!!!!

xx Bell

*kiss* You are one of the sexiest women on Lit!

 

[bellinda69]

*kiss* You are one of the sexiest women on Lit!

oww....thanxx for saying that...but im not, not even close.....

 

[bellinda69]

hmmmm.....

Well, to be honest I don't think I would tack any of those labels on you. If I really had to pick a description, it would be curvaceous, if only I could spell it But even then, that word is probably too often used as a euphemism for being overweight, and I definitely don't see you that way in the wonderful pictures you've posted in your other thread. How does "full-figured" sound? Not sure I like that one either)

It's not that there would be anything wrong with being chubby or plump or any of those other terms, as long as you feel sexy in your skin then that is what matters. I'ts just that I don't think they apply to you.

I think too many words have been used by society to label ppl who don't fit into their set idea of beauty and acceptable sizes. i dunt think curvaceous is a euphemism for overweight, i think its still possibly the only word i'd consider n accept to describe us bigger gurls. I think labels should be put away, a woman should just simply be called a woman.
But you are right, no matter what your size, the only thing that matters is that you are comfortable in your own skin and love yourself for what you are, not what society deems as beautiful and acceptable. but i think ur wrong to say chubby or plump doesn't apply to me. i think they do.

my rather simple attraction to cuddly women is basically caused by the fact that once your "in" (in an 'in their often highly guarded" trust book kind of way), they dont usually have as many hang-ups and know what they want and arent prepared to ask for it... or my personal fave... demand it!!! but breaking down that "vision of herself" barrier ometimes requires more efoort than its worth! and usually those are the size 12ish type who just do the whole "i'm fat" so they can have their ego boosted by some guyteling them they arent!

if that makes any sense.... lol

makes a bit of sense.
i think you've over generalized us bigger women. we are not easier than the rest of the female species. u make us sound like we're happy for any man, and will settle for second best. or maybe its cause we're surprised a guy is actually interested in us, so we go a bit easier on him. But i think no matter the size of a woman, being wit a bigger woman is not any easier than being with a thinner woman. It depends on the person...

As always, thanx for the input guys....

BeLL

 

[Mansa Musa]

Well it kinda got boring when ppl askmeto describe myself.And yes i've been told a size 14 doesnt qualify as a bbw.So what am i? chubby? plump? curvy? Guess bbw (size 14) was the easiest way to describe myself.

BUt ur right bout defining a woman. I hate the labels "skinny", "average" "plus size" and my personal hated one "fat"....

As always thanx for sharing!!!!

xx Bell

I like the term "zaftig"/"saftig. It's German for "full of juice", and you look like a very juicy woman!

 

[bellinda69]

I like the term "zaftig"/"saftig. It's German for "full of juice", and you look like a very juicy woman!

zaftig/saftig... i kinda like that....

 

[DaveMan]

... but i think ur wrong to say chubby or plump doesn't apply to me. i think they do.

Hehehe I suppose I should suggest that you should show us lots and lots more evidence to help us decide ...

And seriously, what I love about your photos more than anything else is the sense that you convey that you know just how desirable you are. Nothing can be more sensual than that ...

 

[bellinda69]

Hehehe I suppose I should suggest that you should show us lots and lots more evidence to help us decide ...

And seriously, what I love about your photos more than anything else is the sense that you convey that you know just how desirable you are. Nothing can be more sensual than that ...

Don't i show u guys enuf????? hmmmmm....maybe i should start doing full frontal nudity,or take pics from less flaterring angles.

xx BeLL

p.s: i didnt know i was conveying that know im desirable..... lol. i actualy feel oppposite.

 

[Mansa Musa]

zaftig/saftig... i kinda like that....

I thought that you would.

 

[Melodiosa]

As far as I'm concerned, a body is beautiful whether it is fat or thin. It's all a matter of perspective. It seems like people are so quick to judge, that they forget to really see the simple yet complex beauty of the human body. There are advantages and disadvantages on either side. While a willowy, thin woman might be a bit more asthetically pleasing to the eye, a short, curvy woman is often more pleasing to the touch. Personally, I like to see (and touch!) curvy women. Comfort, warmth, and bone-deep sensual appeal.

 

[Mansa Musa]

As far as I'm concerned, a body is beautiful whether it is fat or thin. It's all a matter of perspective. It seems like people are so quick to judge, that they forget to really see the simple yet complex beauty of the human body. There are advantages and disadvantages on either side. While a willowy, thin woman might be a bit more asthetically pleasing to the eye, a short, curvy woman is often more pleasing to the touch. Personally, I like to see (and touch!) curvy women. Comfort, warmth, and bone-deep sensual appeal.

I love your AV.

 

[bellinda69]

As far as I'm concerned, a body is beautiful whether it is fat or thin. It's all a matter of perspective. It seems like people are so quick to judge, that they forget to really see the simple yet complex beauty of the human body. There are advantages and disadvantages on either side. While a willowy, thin woman might be a bit more asthetically pleasing to the eye, a short, curvy woman is often more pleasing to the touch. Personally, I like to see (and touch!) curvy women. Comfort, warmth, and bone-deep sensual appeal.

well i can't agree more!!!!

Its always nice to hear from a woman, and as always thanx for the input.

xx BeLL