Just a thought....

[monique1971]

It's interesting that many posters to this thread assume that women who are larger, plumper, curvier or whatever (and it's all subjective anyway) are somehow easier to get along with, less demanding and more loving.

I mean, I'm rather curvy myself, and I'm a pain in the ass.

 

[bellinda69]

It's interesting that many posters to this thread assume that women who are larger, plumper, curvier or whatever (and it's all subjective anyway) are somehow easier to get along with, less demanding and more loving.

I mean, I'm rather curvy myself, and I'm a pain in the ass.

I know what you mean!! some men assume we're happy with just any ol' guy who comes along and we will settle for second best. Maybe they just haven't met curvy gurls like us. Yes i am loving and easy to get along with, but once someone pisses me off i'm a bitch. And yes i am demanding but only when i'm with thre guy i am dating.

Thanx for stopping by my thread monique. I was starting to think i was the only one that thought so (what u said).

xx BeLL

 

[Mansa Musa]

It's interesting that many posters to this thread assume that women who are larger, plumper, curvier or whatever (and it's all subjective anyway) are somehow easier to get along with, less demanding and more loving.

I mean, I'm rather curvy myself, and I'm a pain in the ass.

IME, smaller women are far more likely to be bitchy that their more voluptuous counterparts. Coincidentally, the few bitchy women of size that I've had the "pleasure" of knowing, were once of the stereotypically beautiful "toothpick with two olives" template. And that's another benefit of the fuller-figured women: they aren't wrapped up in their looks/didn't have the entire world thrown at their feet for conforming to the "Paris Hilton" standard of beauty. Unfortunately for many of them, it leads to low self-esteem, which means that you have to spend years telling them that they're beautiful before they're willing to believe it.

 

[bellinda69]

IME, smaller women are far more likely to be bitchy that their more voluptuous counterparts. Coincidentally, the few bitchy women of size that I've had the "pleasure" of knowing, were once of the stereotypically beautiful "toothpick with two olives" template. And that's another benefit of the fuller-figured women: they aren't wrapped up in their looks/didn't have the entire world thrown at their feet for conforming to the "Paris Hilton" standard of beauty. Unfortunately for many of them, it leads to low self-esteem, which means that you have to spend years telling them that they're beautiful before they're willing to believe it.

You might be right.....but then again i think it's up to the woman. I used to have low self esteem myself when I was younger, but luckily i got over it and accepted myself as what i am... Its sad when a beautiful woman can't see herself as beautiful just coz of society's portrayal of beauty and size....

as always., thanx my ever wise friend...

 

[ivantheterrible]

i;m sort of in between. i've met and seen plenty of women who are "big" but they are big as in lots of curves and no belly. but they still have confidence, see themselves as sexy, feel sexy, and dress in a way that enhances what they've got. there's nothing worse in my eyes, a large women trying to squeeze herself into clothes that are too small for her. does she look in a mirror before she leaves the house?
i don't mind a woman with a bit of a belly as long as it isn't a saggy belly. they just look a few months pregnant. but there are limits to this because i know they are not pregnant.
mostly, it all comes from inside. they are confident, feel sexy, and look sexy.
i've seen plenty of women who have the so called perfect body, but have absolutely no confidence what so ever and they just look, act unsexy as hell.
like a miner trodding off to work, or act scared all the time trying to hide themselves from the world.

 

[Mansa Musa]

You might be right.....but then again i think it's up to the woman. I used to have low self esteem myself when I was younger, but luckily i got over it and accepted myself as what i am... Its sad when a beautiful woman can't see herself as beautiful just coz of society's portrayal of beauty and size....

as always., thanx my ever wise friend...

I'm always right, LOL

And you're a good example of what I was trying to say in my post. You know that you're beautiful, even though the media force feeds us this image of sticks and bones as the archetype of female beauty.

 

[bellinda69]

I'm always right, LOL

And you're a good example of what I was trying to say in my post. You know that you're beautiful, even though the media force feeds us this image of sticks and bones as the archetype of female beauty.

maybe... not100% proven.

 

[Mansa Musa]

maybe... not100% proven.

Sit on my lap, and we'll see who's right and who's wrong.

 

[bellinda69]

Sit on my lap, and we'll see who's right and who's wrong.

yeah? what happens to me if i sit on your lap?

 

[Big Ben IV]

I just think women with curves are sexy, what have skinny girls got to look at?

 

[bellinda69]

I just think women with curves are sexy, what have skinny girls got to look at?

LOL...very well put Big BenIV....they have nice long legs and a flat tummy to look at.

 

[Christopher1983]

Well

I wouldn't say that I have a preference for either type of woman to begin a relationship with. Unless we're talking drunken episodes than anything can and usually is fair game. I think all of us might have had this experience at least once in our lives.

Anyway enough about that. If a woman can get me for me then the rest is usually the easiest part. Sex is nice but is isn't a fundamental building block to build a relationship on. Well I guess it is but it's not one of the first laid down.

Although if you want an answer out of me for the sake of it. I do enjoy the curves of a woman. Specifically the waist and thick thighs.

 

[eddie03]

I would have to say that I like women of all shapes & sizes. The only real turn offs are the extremes. However I do tend to prefer women on that are heavier rather than lighter. Seeing rib cages is not a turn on to me. And as other have said I prefer curves over bean poles (not that there aren't beautiful bean pole women out there).

 

[bellinda69]

I wouldn't say that I have a preference for either type of woman to begin a relationship with. Unless we're talking drunken episodes than anything can and usually is fair game. I think all of us might have had this experience at least once in our lives.

Anyway enough about that. If a woman can get me for me then the rest is usually the easiest part. Sex is nice but is isn't a fundamental building block to build a relationship on. Well I guess it is but it's not one of the first laid down.

Although if you want an answer out of me for the sake of it. I do enjoy the curves of a woman. Specifically the waist and thick thighs.

Arent u an easy man to please? If a woman can get you everything else is easy??? now where do i sign up?

I would have to say that I like women of all shapes & sizes. The only real turn offs are the extremes. However I do tend to prefer women on that are heavier rather than lighter. Seeing rib cages is not a turn on to me. And as other have said I prefer curves over bean poles (not that there aren't beautiful bean pole women out there).

I dun't think the thinner beautiful women would appreciate being called bean poles.... i think all women r beautiful, no matter shape. BUt too extreme is disturbing.

As always, thank for the input!!!! BeLL

 

[mummys dirty angel]

there is nothing better than devouring abundant boob flesh....

 

[Big Ben IV]

LOL...very well put Big BenIV....they have nice long legs and a flat tummy to look at.

Nothing wrong with long legs though as long as they arent twigs. I dont want to be worried im gonna hurt a girl when I fuck her...lol not that I havent hurt a few bigger gals but thats a different story completly...lol

 

[Mansa Musa]

yeah? what happens to me if i sit on your lap?

They get a surprise...

 

[bellinda69]

Nothing wrong with long legs though as long as they arent twigs. I dont want to be worried im gonna hurt a girl when I fuck her...lol not that I havent hurt a few bigger gals but thats a different story completly...lol

Well i like to think with bigger gurls you van be a litle bit rough when the occasion calls for it...

Maybe if ur worried bout breaking a gurl, you should let her be in charge!!!

 

[preggolover]

I love big bellys and round asses

 

[theweescotsman]

personally don't prefer any body type over another.....I just love women full stop.

 

[bellinda69]

personally don't prefer any body type over another.....I just love women full stop.

and so u do my delectable scot... with all ur female fans,think its wise u are that way bout us women.
BeLL

 

[Christopher1983]

Arent u an easy man to please? If a woman can get you everything else is easy??? now where do i sign up?



I dun't think the thinner beautiful women would appreciate being called bean poles.... i think all women r beautiful, no matter shape. BUt too extreme is disturbing.

As always, thank for the input!!!! BeLL

Heh, I wouldn't say easy but I'm not so horrible to get along with. Although if you're interested in signing up. ~Produces a binding contract.~

 

[bellinda69]

Heh, I wouldn't say easy but I'm not so horrible to get along with. Although if you're interested in signing up. ~Produces a binding contract.~

signs on the dotted lines with flourish*..... now when do i begin?

beLL

 

[Ekserb]

As a photographer, I've shot a lot of models who are typically thin and healthy. I don't know where this idea of "skinny bitches" comes from, but most women (of any size) are pretty normal. The men posting here would have you believe that they like bigger women and because of that they're more open-minded, but then they go on to slander all thin girls by calling them shallow and conceited. Doesn't seem fair.

I would like to shoot with more full-figured models, but women who are not model-thin are typically too worried about their body to get in front of a camera. Especially here in Miami where looks and vanity are so important.

Also, what's known in the industry as a "plus-sized" model isn't even close to what we're talking about here; those models would probably be considered too skinny to many of the men who've posted here. (The one I worked with had a killer body, but couldn't get regular work in this town because of her size.)

A few years ago I was on the local nude beach and saw a girl who had to be over 250 pounds, and she was a goddess. The way she walked and carried herself was just amazing. I would do anything to get her in my studio. She also had a great smile and that means a lot to me.

Paris Hilton is the epitome of what I hate about some women. Not because she's thin (I can appreciate a thin girl), but because of her vapid, shallow attitude. She's dumb and proud of it. I fucking hate that.

At the other end of the scale there is a very young model that I worked with a few times. Curvy body to die for and the most beautiful face I've ever shot, but dumber than a bag of hammers. After reading a few of her leet-speak texts and error-ridden emails, I was completely turned off. Dumb equals ugly.

 

[bellinda69]

As a photographer, I've shot a lot of models who are typically thin and healthy. I don't know where this idea of "skinny bitches" comes from, but most women (of any size) are pretty normal. The men posting here would have you believe that they like bigger women and because of that they're more open-minded, but then they go on to slander all thin girls by calling them shallow and conceited. Doesn't seem fair.

I would like to shoot with more full-figured models, but women who are not model-thin are typically too worried about their body to get in front of a camera. Especially here in Miami where looks and vanity are so important.

Also, what's known in the industry as a "plus-sized" model isn't even close to what we're talking about here; those models would probably be considered too skinny to many of the men who've posted here. (The one I worked with had a killer body, but couldn't get regular work in this town because of her size.)

A few years ago I was on the local nude beach and saw a girl who had to be over 250 pounds, and she was a goddess. The way she walked and carried herself was just amazing. I would do anything to get her in my studio. She also had a great smile and that means a lot to me.

Paris Hilton is the epitome of what I hate about some women. Not because she's thin (I can appreciate a thin girl), but because of her vapid, shallow attitude. She's dumb and proud of it. I fucking hate that.

At the other end of the scale there is a very young model that I worked with a few times. Curvy body to die for and the most beautiful face I've ever shot, but dumber than a bag of hammers. After reading a few of her leet-speak texts and error-ridden emails, I was completely turned off. Dumb equals ugly.

wow...you couldn't be more right ekserb!!!! I know its unfair when people oin the term skinny bitch beause some women are lukier than others. Me i don't have a problem with skinny women, i have loads of friends who are skinny, and i love them just as much. No woman should be alled a bith, unless she really is one.

And about the so called "plus size" label in the modeling industry. Size 8 is not a plus size, its normal. Its a shame that more average size women are photographed,but i guess to change an entire industry would be hard. Whenever i see a poster of a 'plus sized' model, i want schoff because what the industry depicts is unreal.

As always thanx for the input, nice to hear from someone who works in suh lose proximity to beauty on a daily basis.

~beLL~