Just a lesson you guys need to learn

[TheNiteSiren]

This is a number 1 pet peeve for me and several others on this site. Yes, this is a sex site, yes we come here to get off but just because we get online with you to do so doesn't mean we're ready, willing, able and on demand for you. Each one of us has a life and that life comes with complications. It is a part of being human. If you really want to get on good terms with the women here, maybe try listening to them for a little while and at least acting like you care.

We're more than just 'a heartbeat and a hole'. (Something that was just recently related to me.) The whole thing about leaving someone hanging in the air without even saying bye or a 'I'm sorry you're going through something' is really rude.At least say bye.

 

[C5MiGuy]

Yeah, because it's *just* the guys that do that.

 

[Davesmith42]

This is a number 1 pet peeve for me and several others on this site. Yes, this is a sex site, yes we come here to get off but just because we get online with you to do so doesn't mean we're ready, willing, able and on demand for you. Each one of us has a life and that life comes with complications. It is a part of being human. If you really want to get on good terms with the women here, maybe try listening to them for a little while and at least acting like you care.

We're more than just 'a heartbeat and a hole'. (Something that was just recently related to me.) The whole thing about leaving someone hanging in the air without even saying bye or a 'I'm sorry you're going through something' is really rude.At least say bye.

I agree with you and I try to conduct myself here as I would in real life.
I am a good listener but sometimes I listen to much and dont act in time.
Always say good bye before I leave
Bye and have a good day

 

[k_m_d_]

Nobody you're directing that message towards will actually bother reading it.

 

[TheNiteSiren]

Nobody you're directing that message towards will actually bother reading it.

Whether someone reads or not is their own choice. Whether I choose to express it or not my own choice. No matter the choice the reader makes to either read or not read, I feel better getting my feelings out there and expressing what I feel should be paid attention to.

 

[Dalbhach]

This is a common complaint from the women I talk to. Many guys, and some ladies would do well to listen and learn better. Some people don't care, and never will. But contrary to popular belief, some can be trained.

 

[C5MiGuy]

For the record, I view women as "a heart and THREE holes"....so there is that.

 

[subdued_passion]

For the record, I view women as "a heart and THREE holes"....so there is that.

Well you're a heart and 2 holes. Don't forget.

 

[subdued_passion]

Nobody you're directing that message towards will actually bother reading it.

Ha ha, look how wrong you were. We already got one to confess.

This is a common complaint from the women I talk to.

 

[C5MiGuy]

This is a common complaint from the women I talk to. Many guys, and some ladies would do well to listen and learn better. Some people don't care, and never will. But contrary to popular belief, some can be trained.

See, if you just quit talking to them, you won't have to hear them complain.

 

[subdued_passion]

See, if you just quit talking to them, you won't have to hear them complain.

Hear hear. And we wouldn't have How To threads in the personals.

 

[C5MiGuy]

Hear hear. And we wouldn't have How To threads in the personals.

Contrary to popular belief, I *do* have all the answers.

 

[subdued_passion]

But contrary to popular belief, some can be trained.

I think I'll be needing my whip again.

 

[subdued_passion]

Contrary to popular belief, I *do* have all the answers.

Only if you were the last living person. (was it person or creature I forget?)

 

[Dalbhach]

Ha ha, look how wrong you were. We already got one to confess.

-sigh- They don't complain about me. I am the very essence of gentlemanly decorum. Unless they want something else, then I'm that.


For some reason that doesn't sound right. I think.

See, if you just quit talking to them, you won't have to hear them complain.

I don't mind complaints about other people. Most men make me look good.

 

[Dalbhach]

I think I'll be needing my whip again.

This one stands ready to serve.

 

[MarkSand]

I've always found that on Lit as in real life, good manners--and good listening-- go a long way.

 

[subdued_passion]

-sigh- They don't complain about me. I am the very essence of gentlemanly decorum. Unless they want something else, then I'm that.


For some reason that doesn't sound right. I think.


I don't mind complaints about other people. Most men make me look good.

So are you like an agony aunt (but male) then?

 

[C5MiGuy]

So are you like an agony aunt (but male) then?

He's at the 50, 40, 30, 20, 10....Friendzone! Touchdown!

(non-Americans are going to be like WTF?!)

 

[subdued_passion]

(non-Americans are going to be like WTF?!)

Was that directed at me? Why do you men always have to make sports references??

 

[Dalbhach]

So are you like an agony aunt (but male) then?

Not precisely. I have learned one lesson that men never seem to: Most women don't want a man to fix their problems. They want a man to listen. Therefore, I listen.

 

[Dalbhach]

He's at the 50, 40, 30, 20, 10....Friendzone! Touchdown!

(non-Americans are going to be like WTF?!)

Too funny.

 

[Dalbhach]

I've always found that on Lit as in real life, good manners--and good listening-- go a long way.

Exactly.

 

[C5MiGuy]

Was that directed at me? Why do you men always have to make sports references??

We are men. It's what we do.

 

[subdued_passion]

We are men. It's what we do.

Why is it that it's always the guys who don't play that talk so much about sports?