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Going back through old threads again...
(You knew I was lying when I said I don't have that much time on my hands, didn't you...?
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I found this one:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/sho...&perpage=20&highlight=piercedboy&pagenumber=1
I'm not bumping the thread, because it goes off track after the first two pages or so... but I am interested in this discussion.
In fact, I'm hoping to convince lavender to come back and post on it some more.
Short summary: (please go back and read the whole case, which lavender was kind enough to post on the original thread.)
A man and woman meet online. After some (somewhat) ambiguous talk about kinky sex, they meet in real life.
They go back to his apartment. The watch a movie, and spend some more time talking. At some point, he gets some strips of cloth out and puts them next to her on the futon they're sharing.
Her testimony:
The man was originally convicted, but the appellate court overturned the decision (meaning he'd be tried again) because of what it considered a misapplication of the rape shield law of the state. (The trial court had redacted - discarded - parts of the evidence under the rape shield law.)
(One of) my interests in this case has to do with the issue of "consent."
My understanding is that consent is always a defense (well, technically, lack of consent is an element of the crime, that has to be proven by the state) in rape cases. I also believe that consent is a defense to most assault offenses. (Certainly a defense in Texas, and probably a defense in other states. I'll have to rely on others for this, since I'm too lazy to go look up the laws in all fifty states.) (Much less other countries.)
Consent is determined (in criminal cases) by the "reasonable belief of the defendant," or language similar to that effect. In other words, it's not a question of whether the complainant "really" consented, but whether the defendant reasonably believed that she had.
On the other hand, a person has the right to withdraw consent to anything at any time for any reason.
I'm curious if anybody has any thoughts on this, or on anything I've said here, particularly if you think I've got it wrong. I acknowledge that I'm especially anxious to hear from anybody with a legal background or knowledge, but welcome any comments at all.
Final note (this is clipped from one of cym's posts on the subject:
I believe (or at least hope) Ms. Wright was wrong about Judge Wetzel's instructions to the jury in this case, and am curious if anyone else has any information about this.
(You knew I was lying when I said I don't have that much time on my hands, didn't you...?
I found this one:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/sho...&perpage=20&highlight=piercedboy&pagenumber=1
I'm not bumping the thread, because it goes off track after the first two pages or so... but I am interested in this discussion.
In fact, I'm hoping to convince lavender to come back and post on it some more.
Short summary: (please go back and read the whole case, which lavender was kind enough to post on the original thread.)
A man and woman meet online. After some (somewhat) ambiguous talk about kinky sex, they meet in real life.
The complainant's e-mail to Jovanovic on November 20, 1996 asked "So Oliver, you keep mentioning film after film, but where pray tell am I supposed to find them?" She also indicated an intense desire to know more about him, and spoke of "too many taboos surrounding the questions I want to ask". Two hours later he replied "Taboos are meant to be broken. <g> ... You'll simply have to ask more questions. Of course, that way lies dismemberment. <g>" Soon after that, still on November 20, 1996, she e-mailed back, "I think you may just be toying with the idea of dismemberment" and told him that she has to push herself, see how far she can take it, testing her limits. She also warned, "arms and legs are not toys" and that "It could get sick. And just may."
They go back to his apartment. The watch a movie, and spend some more time talking. At some point, he gets some strips of cloth out and puts them next to her on the futon they're sharing.
Her testimony:
When he introduced the subject of good and evil, the complainant told him that she did not believe that evil existed. He looked stern, and in a voice she also characterized as "stern", told her to take off her sweater. He then repeated this directive in a louder voice. The complainant testified that she did not know what to do, thought it was a joke, but nevertheless removed her sweater. Then he told her to take off her pants, and she complied. He instructed her to lie down, and he tied her legs and arms to the frame of the futon, one limb to each corner; she explained that she did not protest because she did not know what to think.
The man was originally convicted, but the appellate court overturned the decision (meaning he'd be tried again) because of what it considered a misapplication of the rape shield law of the state. (The trial court had redacted - discarded - parts of the evidence under the rape shield law.)
(One of) my interests in this case has to do with the issue of "consent."
My understanding is that consent is always a defense (well, technically, lack of consent is an element of the crime, that has to be proven by the state) in rape cases. I also believe that consent is a defense to most assault offenses. (Certainly a defense in Texas, and probably a defense in other states. I'll have to rely on others for this, since I'm too lazy to go look up the laws in all fifty states.) (Much less other countries.)
Consent is determined (in criminal cases) by the "reasonable belief of the defendant," or language similar to that effect. In other words, it's not a question of whether the complainant "really" consented, but whether the defendant reasonably believed that she had.
On the other hand, a person has the right to withdraw consent to anything at any time for any reason.
I'm curious if anybody has any thoughts on this, or on anything I've said here, particularly if you think I've got it wrong. I acknowledge that I'm especially anxious to hear from anybody with a legal background or knowledge, but welcome any comments at all.
Final note (this is clipped from one of cym's posts on the subject:
April 21, 1998
Dear Editor,
Judge Wetzel instructed the jury of the Jovanovic trial that consent is not a defense for assault. Yet if consent is given, how can it be assault? In this case, the alleged assault included candlewax, biting, and the use of a baton. These activities are often included in consensual sex games. If the woman consented to these activities, then it can't be assault. Only if she withdrew consent, by saying no or safeword, then those acts would become assault.
Would Judge Wetzel claim that "consent is not a defense for rape"? Of course not. If both parties consent, then it's sex, not rape. If both parties consent, then sexual activities that include candlewax and biting are also sex, not rape or assault.
The courts have already acknowledged that consent is considered a defense when it comes to contact sports. Consent is only denied as a defense in this case because it involves sexual behavior. It reveals how deeply sex is stigmatized in this country, when it's considered legally "assault" even if everyone involved is ready, willing and eager to have fun.
Susan Wright
Executive Director
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
I believe (or at least hope) Ms. Wright was wrong about Judge Wetzel's instructions to the jury in this case, and am curious if anyone else has any information about this.