Jealousy

[Phil333]

Jealousy is the weirdest thing. My gf and I broke up, about a week ago. We've remained very close and it's nice. However, I am still very jealous. I don't want to be and I know I shouldn't be, but it happens anyway. She goes out with her friends a lot and I feel like I compete for time with her. This was while we were going out and now. But the thing is, she talks to me a lot, spend a good amount of time with me and tells me I'm very important to her. But for some reason I am still jealous.

Maybe It's because she is the #1 thing in my life and I don't go out a lot. But even when I go out, I'm just thinking that shes out having this great time. I don't know why or what and I don't want these feelings, I know I shouldn't have them but I do anyway.

Bah.

-Phil

 

[MissTaken]

A week isn't really very long to cope with a break up.

Give it time.

Jealousy is natural, especially when we are looking at someone that we had a good thing with, who is available to make it with someone else.

 

[Laurel]

I hate jealousy. If there's one emotion I wish I could remove from my repertoire, that would be the one. It's an awful feeling.

 

[Jim_Henson]

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=24030

 

[Phil333]

A week isn't really very long to cope with a break up.

Give it time.

Jealousy is natural, especially when we are looking at someone that we had a good thing with, who is available to make it with someone else.

I understand, except she has stressed to me thats shes not interested in dating for a while and that this was going on when we dated as well. It's what annoys me. Maybe it was because I dated this woman and I love her but I guess I just feel lonely. I have never been anyones best friend. Now that's not to say I don't have friends, or have had girlfriends or have had friends who I was really close with. But no one has ever said, "Phil is my best friend". I guess with Hollie I was hoping for that. Never a reality, she has several best friends, and while I am very important to her and one of her closest friends, I will never be like some of her others. And I don't want to be like them, I guess I just want to feel so loved, and while I am by many people, I guess I am still searching.

Does this sound awfully strange to any of you? Am I being rediculous?

 

[Guest]

Give it time.

I definatly aggree. All you need to do is get comfortable with everything again. But I know what you mean about being jelous. I'm so jelous of my best friends new bf. He (my best) used to spend all his time with me, and for the past few months it is like I don't exsist to him anymore. It blows!