I've been outed. Partially.

[cloudy]

Grrr. Perhaps I could shove her into the carpet face first and cause pain until she gives up.

channel your inner child, babe.

(that kind of thing is EXACTLY like what I used to do to my younger brother)

 

[SeaCat]

Alice -

Please don't apologize for offering advice! That's one of the reasons I started this thread. (That, and the need to vent, and the need to trash talk my baby sis just a bit.)

It is a terrific suggestion and your letter is excellent. I think I should confront sis first and try to elicit what she told our parents. Maybe she'll be forthcoming. Maybe not, but at least it gives me a place to begin.

I am wondering - what if she denies the entire thing? Then what?

Grrr. Perhaps I could shove her into the carpet face first and cause pain until she gives up. Hey - she's lactating, but her baby's four months old. It's not like I'm beating up on a pregnant woman!

(And yes - I am going to hell. First the porn, now I'm pounding a new mom into the carpet)

Well if she's lactating and the child s four months old, might I suggest rug burns to areas other than her nose?

Cat

 

[SeaCat]

channel your inner child, babe.

(that kind of thing is EXACTLY like what I used to do to my younger brother)

Same here, except that my parents grew worried when he started wimping out. They worried that I would permanently injure him. (It was at about this time they started ignoring at least half of what he said.)

Cat

 

[cloudy]

Same here, except that my parents grew worried when he started wimping out. They worried that I would permanently injure him. (It was at about this time they started ignoring at least half of what he said.)

Cat

When my brother and I both had gotten bigger than my mother (which was fairly early - she's only 5' 2"), she would just go in her bedroom, and close the door until the dust cleared.

 

[BlackShanglan]

It is a terrific suggestion and your letter is excellent. I think I should confront sis first and try to elicit what she told our parents. Maybe she'll be forthcoming. Maybe not, but at least it gives me a place to begin.

What an excellent idea. No need to dwell on uncomfortable topics with the parents any more than wholly necessary, and might as well make your sister own up to her actions. Good luck!

 

[Guest]

What an excellent idea. No need to dwell on uncomfortable topics with the parents any more than wholly necessary, and might as well make your sister own up to her actions. Good luck!

Thanks, Shang.

Do you know when sister and I first started having serious difficulties I asked one of my pastors what to do about it. She said, "Apologize."

I said, "What????"

She said, "I know. I know. But it will open up the lines of communication."

Now I wonder. If I had, would this be any different?

Nahhh. She still needs to be bitch slapped.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thanks, Shang.

Do you know when sister and I first started having serious difficulties I asked one of my pastors what to do about it. She said, "Apologize."

I said, "What????"

She said, "I know. I know. But it will open up the lines of communication."

Now I wonder. If I had, would this be any different?

Nahhh. She still needs to be bitch slapped.

Oddly enough, it works- under many circumstances. Of course, if your sister is a psychotic, miserable bitch who will seize on any apology you make as an abject admission of surrender- then, no. A tank of sharks is your best bet.

But most people aren't psychos, dispite what they've said about you... And, yes, starting with an apology will get you into a conversation , and, if you're careful, you can get some real licks in....

 

[BlackShanglan]

But most people aren't psychos, dispite what they've said about you... And, yes, starting with an apology will get you into a conversation , and, if you're careful, you can get some real licks in....

*laugh*

Remind me never to argue with you - or worse yet, let you apologize to me!

 

[Stella_Omega]

*laugh*

Remind me never to argue with you - or worse yet, let you apologize to me!

I got another kind of lickin' in mind for you...

 

[Guest]

I got another kind of lickin' in mind for you...

So naughty.

 

[BlackShanglan]

Why does "partially outed" sound so very tantalizing?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Why does "partially outed" sound so very tantalizing?

A good point!

Here, you lick one side of her, and I'll lick the other...

 

[Guest]

Why does "partially outed" sound so very tantalizing?

Why does that make me giggle?

Oh, right. I've been drinking.

 

[BlackShanglan]

A good point!

Here, you lick one side of her, and I'll lick the other...

And we'll meet in the middle ...

 

[BlackShanglan]

Why does that make me giggle?

Oh, right. I've been drinking.

Why stop now when we're having fun?

 

[Pure]

Sorry to hear that, SSS.

I myself prefer not to publicize this area of writing.

You didn't make it entirely clear, but it seems your parent (and sister) may have only a general idea. Lots of 'erotica' is semi respectable.

Perhaps you could try to insure their views stay that way; people like to fool themselves.

I'm glad your pennames and locations of stories are not 'out.' Perhaps that can be kept.

So sis may lose in not getting to read your fine stuff! (if I understand the situation correctly).

I do agree that having some 'straight' stories would help, if people are going to have to be given more info. Also you might consider letting people know (or misleading them) that it's for money. As you know many authors churn out porn for extra funds-- Anais Nin, for example. So then you'd appear to be in good company, and as a genuine literary person, instead of one among the degenerates we know and love.