It's odd..

[freakygirl]

She isn't even my mother in law anymore... but because of her I've been crying most of the day. My head hurts. My shoulders hurt. My body hurts.

She had a cerebral aneurysm that ruptured last night. They did surgery.. but it didn't help so they are doing more now as I type this.

They doubt she will ever recover. Before the second surgery she was in a vegetative state. They hope the second surgery helps.

She's 70 years old. She survived breast and colon cancer (so far, she's been cancer free for 2 years).

My ex just called.. second surgery went well (?)..but she isn't waking up yet.. and not on any sedetives (they say this isn't good).

The dr thinks she might have had a silent stroke..about 3 years ago. This vein that ruptured was trying to feed that part of her brain..

I'm not expecting any comments to this thread.. I'm just posting it for my own self. I think I needed to get this off my chest.

Fuck!

 

[*bratcat*]

 

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[KillerMuffin]

It doesn't matter if she's ex anything. If she was in your life and you cared, you always will. And you have a right to feel for her and to grieve for her because she's leaving your life and it will hurt.

 

[Bindii]

She doesn't have to be your current mother in law for you to care about her. I'm sorry that you have to go through this, cerebral aneurysm's aren't pretty but try to take comfort knowing that she isn't aware of what is happening - all the suffering is done by those around her.

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

Freaky,

You have my heart hon. I feel the same way about my ex father in law

They are a part of our lives. We love them.

Just because we divorce the children, we shouldn't have to divorce the parents. Your feelings are very valid and I am sorry that you're hurting. **HUGS**

 

[HeavyStick]

Best wishes to you fg.