knot_sweet
mmmm rope...
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It is not ok to make your partner feel insecure, even unintenionally.
It's NOT ok.
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Stella_Omega
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That is NOT OKAY.
Stella_Omega
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Gitcher arse into the kitchen. Rattle them pots and pans.
Salenku
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My cooking is for select company... I'll think about it.
Sir_Winston54
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Stella is pretty damn select company. I wouldn't presume to inflict *my* cooking on Stella, or probably anyone else here. My reputation wouldn't be damaged; it would be destroyed.My cooking is for select company... I'll think about it.
Salenku
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Dinner at mine, then? I throw a good party...
Artemis1991
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It's not okay to think those into BDSM are insanely abrnormal and to judge those into things you are not.
Stella_Omega
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I can love me some really good food, but my days as a gormay type food snob are long behind me.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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It is NOT ok that the insurance company has STILL not fixed my HVAC after our fire FOUR MONTHS AGO.
I'm fucking freezing here... *thaws out her fingers to draft a letter to the NC Insurance Commission*
I'm fucking freezing here... *thaws out her fingers to draft a letter to the NC Insurance Commission*
DVS
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It's not OK for two older sisters to use Thanksgiving day to gang up on their brother, just because the two of them felt like he was favored by mom and dad, when you all were kids.
It's not OK to bring up your brother's childhood of acting like a normal little boy, just because you have an unequal advantage. He wasn't alive when you were young and acting like normal little girls. Mom and dad are dead, so your secrets are safe.
It's not OK to bring up an argument settled 40 years ago and act like it happened yesterday, just because your side didn't win, especially now that you have a two against one advantage. It's not his fault you can't accept the truth from your no account brother.
It's not OK to rehash old crap as if it's new and then not believe your brother's explanation just because it makes you look bad. Nothing has changed with time. It was your fault then, and it's still your fault, now.
It's not OK to laugh all the way through the day, as if it's just a friendly joke among siblings. The brother knew if he didn't go along with the laugh, he would be the bad guy, not knowing it was just a little fun his sisters were having at his expense.
It's not OK to use Thanksgiving day like this. Maybe you two feel better, but your brother is seriously rethinking the Christmas get together.
It's not OK to bring up your brother's childhood of acting like a normal little boy, just because you have an unequal advantage. He wasn't alive when you were young and acting like normal little girls. Mom and dad are dead, so your secrets are safe.
It's not OK to bring up an argument settled 40 years ago and act like it happened yesterday, just because your side didn't win, especially now that you have a two against one advantage. It's not his fault you can't accept the truth from your no account brother.
It's not OK to rehash old crap as if it's new and then not believe your brother's explanation just because it makes you look bad. Nothing has changed with time. It was your fault then, and it's still your fault, now.
It's not OK to laugh all the way through the day, as if it's just a friendly joke among siblings. The brother knew if he didn't go along with the laugh, he would be the bad guy, not knowing it was just a little fun his sisters were having at his expense.
It's not OK to use Thanksgiving day like this. Maybe you two feel better, but your brother is seriously rethinking the Christmas get together.
DVS
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What the hell kind of pizza has cream cheese on it?
DVS
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mayo???
Stella_Omega
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I am sure you have people who value more than that.
Red Sonja
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Feels grateful to have only witnessed the cream cheese on pizza... UGH.
Shankara20
Well, that is lovely
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Shankara20
Well, that is lovely
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poppaslittlewhore
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poppaslittlewhore
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It's not ok to be completely rude to the people who are serving you at a restaurant.
It's not ok in the real world for a man to push and push after a woman says she's not interested.
It's NEVER EVER ok to relieve yourself on the floor or in the sink or on the wall or in a chair. That's just nasty!!!!!
And for the love of all that is good in this world it is NEVER ok to vomit all over the place and then leave it for someone else to clean up.
(If you can't tell I work at a restaurant with a lot of drunk assholes for customers.)
It's not ok in the real world for a man to push and push after a woman says she's not interested.
It's NEVER EVER ok to relieve yourself on the floor or in the sink or on the wall or in a chair. That's just nasty!!!!!
And for the love of all that is good in this world it is NEVER ok to vomit all over the place and then leave it for someone else to clean up.
(If you can't tell I work at a restaurant with a lot of drunk assholes for customers.)
Sir_Winston54
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It is okay to realize that you don't really like family members (and that apparently, they don't really like you), whether y'all *love* one another or not.
It is also okay to decide that your holidays should be enjoyable, and if that means spending them by oneself, or with friends, or with strangers, that's okay, too.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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It's NOT OK to feel this conflicted.
DVS
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I'm not saying I'm perfect, because I'm not. One sister is so extroverted that she is always there for whatever needs done, even if she's not asked. She goes to hospitals to visit extended family who never came to her Thanksgiving or Christmas dinners when they were invited, usually because they didn't want to drive 60 miles (90% or our extended family lives within 10 miles of each other).
They all came in one car one year, and they all talked about how long the drive was, for the WHOLE dinner. We would always go up there for the day, just to visit with these relatives. It was the only time we would ever see them. Of course, because they all lived close, they would often see each other.
My sisters often complain about how our relatives act...the long drives they don't like and always inviting us up there for dinners, instead. I guess it makes sense for us to be the ones to drive up, instead of all of them driving down, but they do fit into one car and could all come together. But, when they complained so about the LONG drive that one time, my sister gave up inviting them. We no longer go up there, either, so maybe she feels an obligation to visit them when they are in the hospital, just to keep family ties?
And now that we don't have the relatives to complain about, I guess my sisters decided to pick on me. Maybe they just have to complain about something or someone. I had a brother, but he died of SIDS before I was born. He was a year older than me. Now that would have made for a much more equal battle...the boys against the girls. Just like my two older sisters are only a year apart, my brother and I would have been just a year apart. Damn if life doesn't deal us some strange hands.
They all came in one car one year, and they all talked about how long the drive was, for the WHOLE dinner. We would always go up there for the day, just to visit with these relatives. It was the only time we would ever see them. Of course, because they all lived close, they would often see each other.
My sisters often complain about how our relatives act...the long drives they don't like and always inviting us up there for dinners, instead. I guess it makes sense for us to be the ones to drive up, instead of all of them driving down, but they do fit into one car and could all come together. But, when they complained so about the LONG drive that one time, my sister gave up inviting them. We no longer go up there, either, so maybe she feels an obligation to visit them when they are in the hospital, just to keep family ties?
And now that we don't have the relatives to complain about, I guess my sisters decided to pick on me. Maybe they just have to complain about something or someone. I had a brother, but he died of SIDS before I was born. He was a year older than me. Now that would have made for a much more equal battle...the boys against the girls. Just like my two older sisters are only a year apart, my brother and I would have been just a year apart. Damn if life doesn't deal us some strange hands.
