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[BUD_Genious]

So the gf wants to be "raped" and i have some ideas, but not many.

I am not sure what all i need. i know i need rope, something to blindfold her with, and earplugs.

i also need a way to keep her body completely tied down, should i just tie her fully to the bed?

what position is the easiest to allow me to fuck her, and use objects on her?

i also have an idea for when im tired, and need something to eat, to tie a rope to the fan, turn the fan on low, and let the rope swing around and slowly graze her stomach just slightly, or maybe tie a vibrator to it and just let it dangle on her clit...

I also have some random plans to take those paper clamps that hold paper stacks together, and attach them to her nipples. and if i can find a weak one, maybe to her pussy.

what else should i do?

 

[lil_slave_rose]

So the gf wants to be "raped" and i have some ideas, but not many.

I am not sure what all i need. i know i need rope, something to blindfold her with, and earplugs.

i also need a way to keep her body completely tied down, should i just tie her fully to the bed?

what position is the easiest to allow me to fuck her, and use objects on her?

i also have an idea for when im tired, and need something to eat, to tie a rope to the fan, turn the fan on low, and let the rope swing around and slowly graze her stomach just slightly, or maybe tie a vibrator to it and just let it dangle on her clit...

I also have some random plans to take those paper clamps that hold paper stacks together, and attach them to her nipples. and if i can find a weak one, maybe to her pussy.

what else should i do?

eh? when you're 'tired and need something to eat' ??? i am so confused..she wants a 'rape' scene, i get that part..but what is with the whole fan thing while you take off and go get something to eat??

 

[save_marla]

Those clips that hold stacks of paper together are not meant to pinch flesh, and I've heard horror stories about the damage they've done to unsuspecting nipples. Try clothes pins, or splurge for some proper nipple clamps.

If you're not familiar with rope bondage, do some research first - there are places on the body that aren't fit to be tied. A safer alternative is to get the type of restraints that fit around the mattress (go to www.literotica.com/adult_store/ and search "restraints on bed") and use cuffs around the wrists and ankles.

I think you need to talk this one through with your girlfriend to find out what her expectations are and what her limits would be. How long does she want this fantasy to be played out for, for example. If you get lots of ideas from her, you can get a better understanding of what she's looking for, and still surprise her.

It's really not a good idea for you to leave her, when you get tired or need something to eat (bring snacks). If she's blindfolded, you can certainly make her believe she's been left alone, but to actually leave the room while she's tied up and helpless - not cool.

This is fantasy, not reality - she's putting you in charge, and you have the responsibility of taking care of her. It can still be very scary for her, but you want her to have the underlying knowledge that she is safe with you - otherwise, it could go badly very fast.

 

[myinnerslut]

i also need a way to keep her body completely tied down, should i just tie her fully to the bed?

what position is the easiest to allow me to fuck her, and use objects on her?

Sir once tied me down to the bed for the night, ropes over my arms, legs, and waist. i couldnt move at all, and it was great... unltill he tried to fuck me. the position i was tied in made it difficult for him to get to me. just be aware of how much room you need between her legs before you tie her down.

 

[FurryFury]

"Rape play" should not be tried with little or no research.

Likewise, it should NOT be done without talking with the lady a great deal to find out exactly what she means which may be VERY different from what you think. You should also share with her what you would like to do and see where your areas of common interest in this is.

Actually grabbing someone off a street can lead to legal problems.

Tying someone can be dangerous.

Leaving someone to go to another room when they are tied up can be dangerous both physically and emotionally.

You need to really think about this, not do it on a lark. One of the first things you need to think about is do YOU really want to do this at all??? Just because she has mentioned she'd like it doesn't mean you truly are into it and want to give that to a person.

If you decide to go ahead start slow, don't rush. Chris has a great point below!

That's my opinion.

Fury

 

[chris9]

I agree with everybody on the talking part. I'd also advise you to not to try and fit everything you, her, or both of you want to try into one night. She's your girlfriend, so supposedly you will see her a few more times. For example start with tying her, if all goes well and you both like it, think about adding a blind-fold/earplugs. When you have tied her the first time, don't use all the toys you can think of. Start with a little pain, if she likes it, you can always do more the next time.

And because it can't be done enough: TALK WITH HER!

 

[BUD_Genious]

i am not gagging her so at anytime she can stop.

we have done blindfolding, and tying many times, but never everything at once.

 

[Chicklet]

actually something i might suggest is putting something in her mouth, but not binding it in... like, a sock, or a brush handle, or something she can spit out if she wants. but it'd give the impression of a gag and might be really exciting. one of my personal fetishes is having something in my mouth during play. maybe a whispered threat in her ear "don't you dare let this out of your mouth..." so she feels just slightly more helpless without giving up the ability to actually say "stop."

 

[Etoile]

Earplugs?

 

[myinnerslut]

maybe a whispered threat in her ear "don't you dare let this out of your mouth..." so she feels just slightly more helpless without giving up the ability to actually say "stop."

oooh.... i like that!

 

[Tuomas]

TALK .... TO .... HER.

I still don't see why you need "assistance" to "rape" her.... Just use your man strength

Earplugs?

My thoughts exactly...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Earplugs?

my guess is sensory deprivation (sp?) the thing i'm trippin on is the ceiling fan thing..what is with that???

 

[Etoile]

my guess is sensory deprivation (sp?) the thing i'm trippin on is the ceiling fan thing..what is with that???

I thought of that too, but who ever heard of sensory deprivation in a rape scene?

 

[Quint]

..............

 

[gabecky69]

Sounds like a great fantasy. I don't understand the earplus either. I would think she would want to hear the dirty talk and whispered threats.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Sounds like a great fantasy. I don't understand the earplus either. I would think she would want to hear the dirty talk and whispered threats.

agree,but like Quint said (i believe it was anyway) it sounds alot more to me like He is wanting to do an 'abduction' scene, than a just a 'rape' scene. though, i think the idea of leaving her with the 'ceiling fan' continuing His work for Him when He gets tired or hungry, is a bad idea..she shouldn't be left while tied up, etc...

 

[myinnerslut]

eh... rape, abduction.... its all semantics. he needs to find out what his girlfriend means by rape scene to know if she wants the quick unexpected fast and powerful scene or the tied down and tortured, against her will perhaps, scene.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

eh... rape, abduction.... its all semantics. he needs to find out what his girlfriend means by rape scene to know if she wants the quick unexpected fast and powerful scene or the tied down and tortured, against her will perhaps, scene.

heh..i think the two are actually quite different..and yes, He does need to sit down and talk to her and find out what they BOTH want from the scene.

 

[Tuomas]

Let me get this straight. He's going to have this lascivious girl tied to a bed, at his mercy for any kind of fun ...and he's going to leave her there and go into another room?? Wha...?

eh... rape, abduction.... its all semantics. he needs to find out what his girlfriend means by rape scene to know if she wants the quick unexpected fast and powerful scene or the tied down and tortured, against her will perhaps, scene.

Or TALK ... WITH ... HER.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Let me get this straight. He's going to have this lascivious girl tied to a bed, at his mercy for any kind of fun ...and he's going to leave her there and go into another room?? Wha...?


Or TALK ... WITH ... HER.

not only leave her, but use the ceiling fan to take His place while he is gone *shrugs* THAT is the part that lost me..not the ear plugs

 

[FurryFury]

Hey!

When you want something done right, have the ceiling fan do it!

That's the rule man!



LMFAO.

Seriously, if you step out of the room and I'm tied up, I'm done with you.

If you step out to eat and I am not offered anything I'm so done with you.

WTF?

Yeah so it's a different stokes thing maybe, and/or a safety issue in need of review. I dunno.

Fury

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Hey!

When you want something done right, have the ceiling fan do it!

That's the rule man!



LMFAO.

Seriously, if you step out of the room and I'm tied up, I'm done with you.

If you step out to eat and I am not offered anything I'm so done with you.

WTF?

Yeah so it's a different stokes thing maybe, and/or a safety issue in need of review. I dunno.

Fury

agreed on all 3. LOL..if Master tied me up, and left me , that would be it. ESPECIALLY if it was a scene like the one described by the OP'er...i don't think it's different strokes here, i think it comes down to safety and quite possibly her mental/emotional/physical safety.....IMO

 

[incubus'_sub]

Bud, you're trying too hard. Forget all the elaborate plans & props. Lose the idea of leaving her, ceiling fan or otherwise, that's a deal breaker for most of us.

Blindfold - good, gag (something handy like her panties) good. Ropes - maybe, but only if you think she wants a long, extended session because it takes a while to be safe & comfortable with ropes & as someone said you can get them all tied up & then find there's no access LOL.

I don't suggest a real knife, too easy to make a mistake when you're not experienced with them, but the cold steel of, say a spoon handle, on the throat is a very effective prop.

An ex of mine once took me out for a drive. Turned on the "cold, vicious" stare. Drove me to a deserted area, made me strip & forced me into the car boot (trunk?). Drove home, dragged me out & raped me, quite realistically, outside our back door. It works for the mindset. Another time he woke me from a deep sleep with a hand over my mouth & all his weight on me, knife (spoon) at my throat......took me a few minutes to realise it was actually him & not a real rapist, again, very effective. Unfortunately, these were the only 2 times in nearly 20 years he made an effort for my pleasure.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Bud, you're trying too hard. Forget all the elaborate plans & props. Lose the idea of leaving her, ceiling fan or otherwise, that's a deal breaker for most of us.

Blindfold - good, gag (something handy like her panties) good. Ropes - maybe, but only if you think she wants a long, extended session because it takes a while to be safe & comfortable with ropes & as someone said you can get them all tied up & then find there's no access LOL.

I don't suggest a real knife, too easy to make a mistake when you're not experienced with them, but the cold steel of, say a spoon handle, on the throat is a very effective prop.

An ex of mine once took me out for a drive. Turned on the "cold, vicious" stare. Drove me to a deserted area, made me strip & forced me into the car boot (trunk?). Drove home, dragged me out & raped me, quite realistically, outside our back door. It works for the mindset. Another time he woke me from a deep sleep with a hand over my mouth & all his weight on me, knife (spoon) at my throat......took me a few minutes to realise it was actually him & not a real rapist, again, very effective. Unfortunately, these were the only 2 times in nearly 20 years he made an effort for my pleasure.

agreed, very well written and i like both scenario's (your experiences) that you gave. i think alot of times we think too much about the scene, and it ruins the spontaneity (sp?) and for this kind of scene it's kind of all about that. yes i realize the scene needs to be negotiated, and discussed, worked out, whatever..but why so much thought into exactly how it's going to go. you talk about it together, decide what it is you both want out of it, make sure she knows her safe word, and then go for it *shrugs*

 

[Etoile]

Plenty of people DO incorporate leaving the sub alone as part of the play, though. It's supposed to be exciting for the sub to not know when the dom might come back. It's not for me, but lots of people do it.