CrimsonMaiden
Pretty in Pink
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- Jul 10, 2004
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BlackShanglan said:Or sexual, one hopes?
Whether it's fair or not, math is on Dar's side. If one wishes to change oneself, there's one individual to work on. If one wishes to change others, there are a great number of them. Generally, it's better to work on oneself unless the issue is extremely vital and there's no other way to deal with it.
That's really hard to do when you don't know what it is about yourself that makes you invisible in the first place.

