Is this true?

[Silverlily]

My husband and I were talking the other night about men and women and flirting. He contends that men face a much greater chance of regection than women and that any women willing to give no-strings-attached blow jobs will never be regected.

I don't buy this. So guys, tell me, if you found yourself in that scenario and knew no negative consquences would come of it, would you spend time with a woman simply because she was going to suck your dick?

Be honest, there are no extra points for being noble, the oral sex would be her idea.

 

[Purple Haze]

I'd buy her a pizza.

 

[StondTmplPilot]

No, it would have to depend on who it was...I just don't hop into bed with any stranger, and I'm not going to let just any stranger give me head. HE may think this way, and I am sure there are others, but not all of us think this way.

 

[alexandraaah]

I'd buy her a pizza.

I'd grab a slice and sit back to enjoy the show.

 

[Silverlily]

HE may think this way, and I am sure there are others, but not all of us think this way.

I never said all men do either. I'm pretty sure he was being facetious, the conversation started over another couple we know that swings. She is more successful than he is at finding playmates. It did make me wonder, does anyone still hook up just for sex?

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Men can separate and compartmentalize sex acts very easily. It's a blow job. We like them. There's no emotion involved. It's not "cheating". It's, basicaly, self abuse with someone else's mouth because we can't reach ourselves. It's an easy shrug.

Of course men can do it. (Not all. But even those of us who won't because we're married, wouldn't consider such a thing a big deal. It's a quick "off".)

It's great to be a man. We can pee standing up, too.

 

[Purple Haze]

Okay, there'd be exceptions........

What am I saying? No there wouldn't.

Is this a trick question?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

When I was in my teens and early twenties, I'd have said yes, it's true. But now I would agree with STP.

But I must confess, I've never lived in a world where the women give out no-strings-attached blowjobs to strangers....

~H~

 

[rexfelis]

I agree that this would garner attention for her, but not in all cases would she be taken up on her offer.

I would not take her up on the offer simply because it would do me no good to. I can't enjoy it if I can't relax, and I can't relax unless I trust her and feel comfortable with her. And that takes time. For me to have an orgasm that way means I trust her - a LOT.

If she approached me out of the blue with such a proposition, I would not hold out much hope of getting to know her first, either.

 

[Andreina]

this is why i like you so much


Halo

 

[rexfelis]

this is why i like you so much


Halo

Why, because I write things that are ridiculous and I don't realize it until you say that it's why you like me? lol

I meant I wouldn't hold out much hope of getting to know her at all.

Or, is it that I prefer to know my lovers before I share myself?

 

[Black_Bird]

I don't buy this. So guys, tell me, if you found yourself in that scenario and knew no negative consquences would come of it, would you spend time with a woman simply because she was going to suck your dick?

I would be too suspicious... but I suspect if I was just a little less then sober, I might agree.

That's right girls - a sure way into my pants is three drinks...

 

[bored1]

When I was younger and a little bit more shallow I would have and did spend time with women just for the blow job,But I can no longer do that as I would find it emotionally unfulfilling so why do it.I think when a couple swings the women will always have more oppurtunities than the man as she controls the triangle.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------As you wonder on through life brother,Whatever be your goal keep your eye upon the donut and not upon the hole.

 

[Mensa]

Better try a Gummie Bear

Why is she offering? After all, she has teeth and me in a vulnerable position. Dangerous waters there<theme from Jaws>

I would buy her Binaca.

 

[Thumper]

Blowjob? Negative consequence?

How can these two ever equate?

I would have to say no....simply because I would have already had an orgasm from her asking.

Hell yes I would.

It will never happen though....unless I am a character in a Penthouse letter.

I would expect a little cuddling afterwards.

Look at it this way....if a woman goes out with her sole purpose being getting laid, it will most likely happen.

If a guy does, as a lot of us do or have done in the past, the chances are slim at best. It has never happened to me...


Still quietly sitting at the end of the bar.



So What about the sugar?

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[kiwiwolf]

Personally I wouldn't be interested. I've managed some interesting bars where I've banned women (and men) for giving away free blow jobs in the toilets. You gotta think "Where has that mouth been?"

 

[plasticman33]

I'd have to turn it down! I agree with Kiwiwolf, "Where has that mouth been?" Please, darlin' don't kiss me either!

I prefer getting to know someone before we get into that.

 

[Thumper]

Gotta five spot?

Personally I wouldn't be interested. I've managed some interesting bars where I've banned women (and men) for giving away free blow jobs in the toilets. You gotta think "Where has that mouth been?"

I can tell ya where it hasn't been.

So could she stay if it wasn't free?

 

[kiwiwolf]

Re: Gotta five spot?

I can tell ya where it hasn't been.

So could she stay if it wasn't free?

Thumper you grotty bugger... It would have to depend on what my cut of the action would be... Just call me Pimp Daddy.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I don't buy this. So guys, tell me, if you found yourself in that scenario and knew no negative consquences would come of it, would you spend time with a woman simply because she was going to suck your dick?

Be honest, there are no extra points for being noble, the oral sex would be her idea.

Nope. if I just met her? hell no.

If i had feelings for her? mabey (that's a big mabey though)
I'm not saying this to be noble, i'm saying it cause it's the truth.
I think of more then just sex, and girls or people not sex objects to me.

If a girl aproched me and asked if I want my pole waxed, I'd actualy take it as a nervis way of brakeing the ice and not serious.

 

[KillerVanity]

I studied this in my biology of sex class in college. Supposedly what your husband says is true, and his opinion is supposed to be shared by most male members of the population.

 

[seXieleXie]

Re: Re: Is this true?

I would be too suspicious... but I suspect if I was just a little less then sober, I might agree.

That's right girls - a sure way into my pants is three drinks...

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alright let's fuck

 

[rexfelis]

I do like your sense of humor, Lexie!

 

[Siren]

Well lets just say this...........