Is this normal?

[VirginDebs]

Anytime my 'bloke' uses fingers inside me...I get a pressue as if I need a wee or sumthing. So I keep telling him 2 stop. I know I dont need the toilet but it just feels like it and I get uncomfortable. If its this bad with just fingers...what will I be like with a cock inside me?!

Is this normal? How do you get over the uncomfortableness?

 

[SweetErika]

He's likely hitting your G-spot. What you're feeling is completely normal, and it helps you relax if you go to the bathroom first. Usually, the initial feelings give way to a lot of pleasure, but some women find it just plain uncomfortable. Read this thread for more info: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

 

[hydrex]

Seems I have seen a lot of women telling men they want a G-spot orgasm but they don't even know what it is when they get one. Any idea why this might be?

 

[Ezzy]

Seems I have seen a lot of women telling men they want a G-spot orgasm but they don't even know what it is when they get one. Any idea why this might be?

It is because a lot of young women have not fully explored their bodies, and have not had experienced lovers, who could have taken the time to enlighten them.

The way sex education is taught in the school system, I am surprised that some folks have worked out how to pee.

 

[mikeofokc]

Seems I have seen a lot of women telling men they want a G-spot orgasm but they don't even know what it is when they get one. Any idea why this might be?

No one teaches us about sex is the reason. We have to learn either through reading many different books or articles or web sites like this or with practice with a patient, understanding and respectful partner. Everyone is different too and while Im sure every women can have any type orgasm, it depends so much on her mental processes as well as the subtle variations in technique.
Frankly we should be glad we have to discover these pleasures on our own and that its not ready made for us. Otherwise even though its pleasurable then sex and love making would become boring. Its great that we have so many wonderful pleasures to discover.

The G-spot web site mentioned above has some good suggestions and personal testimonies.

 

[Guest]

Anytime my 'bloke' uses fingers inside me...I get a pressue as if I need a wee or sumthing. So I keep telling him 2 stop. I know I dont need the toilet but it just feels like it and I get uncomfortable. If its this bad with just fingers...what will I be like with a cock inside me?!

Is this normal? How do you get over the uncomfortableness?

Aha! I just experienced this the other week with my incredible lover. At first, I was like, "Honey, stop, something is happening to me, like I have to pee, omg" and etc. I backed my body towards the top of the bed, scared to death that I was going to pee in his face, LOL! Obviously, it was the G-spot. I asked him to do it again at another time, and it excited me. So, let's hope this happens to you.

To answer your question (sorry to babble)

No, this most definitely doesn't feel like a cock.

 

[entitled]

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mikeofokc: hehe... Oobi!
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*ahem*

Yes, indeed, this is normal. Really! It's nothing like a cock, and (as far as i'm concerned anyway) a good thing. If you can stand it, have him keep at that spot and just relax. Easier said than done, but well worth it. That's how i found out i'm a squirter.

 

[VirginDebs]

I'll have to ask him to do it again though. But everytime hes done it so far I tell him to stop after a while so I hope that hasnt put him off!
I'll explain to him why I asked him to stop.
All I could think about was the fact I thought I was going to wee all over him, and that took over my thoughts and I panicked!
Sounds like it can be a very pleasurable thing once I get over the initial stages!
Glad that isnt what a cock does...I dont want him getting inside me then me telling him to get it out again! haha

 

[Imi]

I'll have to ask him to do it again though. But everytime hes done it so far I tell him to stop after a while so I hope that hasnt put him off!
I'll explain to him why I asked him to stop.
All I could think about was the fact I thought I was going to wee all over him, and that took over my thoughts and I panicked!
Sounds like it can be a very pleasurable thing once I get over the initial stages!
Glad that isnt what a cock does...I dont want him getting inside me then me telling him to get it out again! haha

IMHO, you are on the verge of a mind blowing O

 

[VirginDebs]

Damn, I've only ever experienced an orgasm from my own clitiroal stimulation and occasionally from him aswell.

He didnt come round yesterday but hes definitely coming round today, I'll let him carry on and will report back to you

 

[VirginDebs]

Update - I stopped him using fingers, it just felt too uncomfortable! But one GREAT thing...I am now no longer 'VirginDebs'!!!!!

 

[markkk]

i guess its normal

i guess its normal.. for those who are really virgins.. at first they really uncomfortable..

 

[Guest]

Update - I stopped him using fingers, it just felt too uncomfortable! But one GREAT thing...I am now no longer 'VirginDebs'!!!!!

Woo-fucking-hoo for you!!

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[RedIntense]

Run with it girl!

Just make sure you've peed recently and you won't have anything to worry about!

 

[Little Bird]

By the way it's quite the same with first anal-experiences: You have to get used to feelings known but meaning a different thing.