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Harastal
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Well, but, symbolic functioning make the world go round... Money controls just about everything.
I try to keep thing in perspective. And that means realizing that these are molecules, made of atoms, made of Protons, Neutrons, and Electrons, the first two of which are made of Quarks, held together with a force which becomes stronger with distance. So, I am aware of that all the time. It keeps me fascinated about how stuff happens.
Did I do that?
I hope I didn't.
I get what you're saying. I just don't think that it is a real solution for repeated and constant abuse. You're suggesting misdirection, which is fine. It's very Tai Chi and works for you. It's cerebral and it's funny. It's more my approach. It works on a verbal level and on a board level.
But if you were in that bar, it would just result in a brawl, not the guy drawing his brows together and starting to think about it.
That approach doesn't work for other people. Zumi himself has said that he's terribly tired of the cerebral, the turn the other cheek and the funny. To him, it's affected his life enough that he's not interested in playing with the idea any more. And that doesn't mean he's being controlled by words, that means that he's had too much experience with one form of aggression and he is not playing around, and that the cutesy or smartassy will just lead to more aggression anyway. The people who say these things do not think in cerebral and funny ways and can't be dealt with that way.
Yes, online is different. But in reality, you'd just get your ass kicked harder.