Inviting Another Couple

[situation1586]

Hello, I've been lurking here for years and find it a very supportive and interesting community, so thank you all of you for making this the place that it is.

I'm finally able to share something and hope I might get some responses.

This may well go no further than a very vivid and exciting fantasy for me, but you never know, I might be emboldened to take things further.

I'm fascinated and wildly turned on by the thought of my wife and I engaging in love making with another couple. My wife likes the thought of this too and I would like to hear from anyone who shares this fantasy, or perhaps someone who has made it a reality.

How did you bring the matter up? Who with? Is it best with a couple you know and trust, or with total strangers? How did things turn out? is this a common fantasy? Why does this turn me on so much?

Very grateful for any answers. thank you.

 

[PreggoBitch]

I was at a party with my hubby and whispered that his mate's wife was hot and she over heard us. She brought it up with my hubby while her hubby brought up the matter with me. We gave it a shot and never looked back, not only are they both fantastic in bed (on floor lol) but we became good friends too

 

[Dickstroker81]

Hello, I've been lurking here for years and find it a very supportive and interesting community, so thank you all of you for making this the place that it is.

I'm finally able to share something and hope I might get some responses.

This may well go no further than a very vivid and exciting fantasy for me, but you never know, I might be emboldened to take things further.

I'm fascinated and wildly turned on by the thought of my wife and I engaging in love making with another couple. My wife likes the thought of this too and I would like to hear from anyone who shares this fantasy, or perhaps someone who has made it a reality.

How did you bring the matter up? Who with? Is it best with a couple you know and trust, or with total strangers? How did things turn out? is this a common fantasy? Why does this turn me on so much?

Very grateful for any answers. thank you.

We have been enjoying sex with the couple next door since they moved in over ten years ago. We (me, my wife, and our daughter)were sitting naked on our back patio and they and their daughter invited themselves over(all also naked). It just started from there

 

[Dakotacpl]

We have been fortunate enough to find a perfect match for us as well. We met them at a guesthouse with a nude pool area in Key West. They happened to live a few hours from us and we spent a lot of time with them on the trip. Nothing took place on the trip but they invited us to their house for a weekend a month or so later. Its been awesome!

 

[Sans Tache]

My situation is a bit different from yours. My ex-wife and I had both been previously divorced and single and both had done quite a bit of experimenting. Upon meeting we discussed our pasts and discovered that we both enjoyed multiple partners as well as bi sex. So it just seemed natural, for us, to delve into swinging and all it's particulars.

We began with meeting other couples at adult parties. There was no pressure and it was just more of a natural means of introducing ourselves to others...everyone was of the same mindset. There are no expectations and no one is offended if the response is no.

Discussing sexual interests is not embarrassing because everyone knows that's the theme of the party.

Yes, I believe this is a normal FANTASY...but not sure how many people act it out.

Doing this with a couple you know can be tricky, even if you know for sure they are open to the idea. There can be issues of jealousy, just for starters. All partners have to be very secure in their relationships. It's best to start with strangers so friendships wont be hurt.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

We have found it better to meet friends in the lifestyle, rather than try to convert friends to the lifestyle. Sometimes it works out, but more often it's a recipe for disaster. At lifestyle clubs, parties, and websites everyone participating is on the same page, or at least reading from the same book. Your friends--probably not.

 

[Abida]

Inviting another couple

We have been fortunate enough to find a perfect match for us as well. We met them at a guesthouse with a nude pool area in Key West. They happened to live a few hours from us and we spent a lot of time with them on the trip. Nothing took place on the trip but they invited us to their house for a weekend a month or so later. Its been awesome!

Hi, we are a very lucky family. When me and my wife felt that our sex life has become kind of routine and there was not much attraction between us , my wife's sister intervened and suggested that we adopt nudist style of living . but we were reluctant . however we started to wear skimpy clothes. One day some 8 years before my wife's sister came with her hubby and daughter to our place . As we were chatting over snacks she came and stripped my wife nude and the pulled down my bermudas. I was not wearing any inners .surprisingly I felt a great surge of horniness. she too removed her clothing as her hubby and daughter became nude in front of us . we were astonished . then she made us feel at ease and enjoyed a fine sexy afternoon. From then on we join together on most week ends and swing . our daughter who have grown up into beautiful young things too join with us now and we love our uninhibited togetherness. Abid and Shahida.