Intellect and Orgasm

but I DO want conversation... and right before he's about to fill me.. I want to look him in the eye and pose a question just so I can watch him struggle between the intellect and the primitive response growing within.. and then I want to whisper permission and beg for his release..

Ohh, that's nasty!

But I DO want the conversation

I DO know what you mean.... It's just that when I'm ready to mount, I'm ready (and my brain is temporarily disconnected!)
 
Sex can be fantastic with smart or with dumb people. However, to keep things interesting, long term relationships are much better with someone who's intellect is equal to, or greater than, your own. It's not so important at the beginning of a relationship when when you're main focus is getting your clothes off as fast as you can. However, coming home to someone who can't hold a reasonable conversation or can form a reasoned opinion does get old really fast.

The only downside to being with someone who is a lot smarter than you is that they are probably looking down at you intellectually :D
 
A long time ago . . .

at a web site far, far away.

(That's EYE-gor.)

;)

Just when I think it's safe for my son to run for president, there's another man who's probably seen me naked

hahahaha... I'm suddenly craving Italian food
 
What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

I don't know. My own anecdotal experience is that intellect and sexual prowess aren't closely correlated. Raw physicality is, in fact, sometimes inversely proportion to the scale of one's mental activities. I've had mind-blowing fucks given by bubblegum princesses as well as with an assoc professor of comparative religions.

Maybe your definition of "smart people" is too narrow.
 
my best orgasms happen when there are no thoughts in my head. by this reasoning, the fewer thoughts, the better the O? no?
 
my best orgasms happen when there are no thoughts in my head. by this reasoning, the fewer thoughts, the better the O? no?

I think you're on to something.

Have you ever been in stuck into a really good back and forth volley in, say, racketball or tennis, and then suddenly thought, "hey, this is going on really well..." But as soon as you actually start "thinking" about each stroke rather than simply existing automatically in the moment, you totally lose it?

Often, so-called "intellectuals" are so self-consciously aware and so self-analyzing of their every nuance that sheer existential physicality eludes them. In fact, any kind of spontaneity can become impossible if you think too hard about it...

Sex is one of the most living-in-the-moment activities a person can engage in, so is it really surprising that some one like Tiger Woods probably has a far better developed libido than say Barack Obama?
 
I think you're on to something.

Have you ever been in stuck into a really good back and forth volley in, say, racketball or tennis, and then suddenly thought, "hey, this is going on really well..." But as soon as you actually start "thinking" about each stroke rather than simply existing automatically in the moment, you totally lose it?

Often, so-called "intellectuals" are so self-consciously aware and so self-analyzing of their every nuance that sheer existential physicality eludes them. In fact, any kind of spontaneity can become impossible if you think too hard about it...

Sex is one of the most living-in-the-moment activities a person can engage in, so is it really surprising that some one like Tiger Woods probably has a far better developed libido than say Barack Obama?

i don't know about all that, but i know a bunch of stupid people that breed like rabbits.
 
What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

The 'blank out' is pretty much unique to the female orgasm. They even have studies and shit.

Ishmael
 
So dumb, inbred rednecks can't have good sex? I beg to differ. The only thing smart about smart people sex is they think they can have it guilt free.

Oh I'm not even going into it....waste of time just like the propaganda of so called Intellect and sex. Yeah, keep telling yourself what you want to hear. :rolleyes:
 
So dumb, inbred rednecks can't have good sex? I beg to differ. The only thing smart about smart people sex is they think they can have it guilt free.

Oh I'm not even going into it....waste of time just like the propaganda of so called Intellect and sex. Yeah, keep telling yourself what you want to hear. :rolleyes:

shit. dumb inbred rednecks be having so many o's, they qualify for government aid.
 
that wasn't funny. at all. i'm going back to look for porn. or sleep. or something else.
 
shit. dumb inbred rednecks be having so many o's, they qualify for government aid.

RIGHT! I mean I get the whole sex and brains thing sure, the biggest sex organ is the brain hellooooo! So if ya smart ya know the difference between 1st cousin and 3rd cousin ok I get that. Doesn't mean it's any better.
 
RIGHT! I mean I get the whole sex and brains thing sure, the biggest sex organ is the brain hellooooo! So if ya smart ya know the difference between 1st cousin and 3rd cousin ok I get that. Doesn't mean it's any better.

Unless 1st couz has a snapper.

Ishmael
 
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