Intellect and Orgasm

[islandman]

You would be amazed at how many girls in a college town get tired of cafeteria and dorm food, don't get enough money from home, and enjoy the company of an older guy who will wine and dine them and take them places. They call us sugar daddies.

And what do they call you?

 

[Labe_Lover]

Smoke

And what do they call you?

They call me Smokehouse......cause there's so much meat hanging.

LOL!! Boy, did you open yourself up for that one. I've waited years to use it.

 

[girlsmiley]

They call me Smokehouse......cause there's so much meat hanging.

LOL!! Boy, did you open yourself up for that one. I've waited years to use it.

*groan*

 

[PrincepsCyberius]

I haven't read this entire thread, so this may have already come up, but I'd suggest sex with smarter people is better simply because, by definition, smarter people put more thought into what they do. Some brute may just pound his woman until he comes, not considering if she had an orgasm. A refined gentleman will not only put intellectual effort into enhancing his own experience, but also in maximizing his partner's pleasure for the satisfaction that brings them both.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

and yet, the final response is as primal as a person can allow.

ok, he said "pound."
I'd better have coffee before I work on my resume today.

 

[Recidiva]

Smart is one aspect, for me funny is another aspect.

Smart because I think that has to do with someone's attention span, attention to detail and capacity to learn or be creative.

Funny because comedy is all about timing, and so is sex.

You can have smart people that are socially dull or funny people that are just mean, but get the right kind of smart and funny, add generosity of spirit, and that's someone to have excellent sex with and then excellent conversations after.

 

[Conager]

I haven't read this entire thread, so this may have already come up, but I'd suggest sex with smarter people is better simply because, by definition, smarter people put more thought into what they do. Some brute may just pound his woman until he comes, not considering if she had an orgasm. A refined gentleman will not only put intellectual effort into enhancing his own experience, but also in maximizing his partner's pleasure for the satisfaction that brings them both.

What if he is smart enough to listen to her, and her stated desire is for him to pound her until he comes?

I find some very smart chicks dig that. The "being listened to" part.

 

[suckonsimon]

I didn't know about this thread, GG! I'll read back some day!

My first thought, I guess stated way back on here: A man has to have his faculties fine tuned to 'read' a woman; to understand where her 'build' is at and what will take her up a level; and when she's in an upper orbit of bliss, what it is that's sustaining that and giving her more.

Yeah. A man's pleasuring of a woman takes mental subtlety in large measure.

 

[Ajax_Prime]

I haven't read this entire thread, so this may have already come up, but I'd suggest sex with smarter people is better simply because, by definition, smarter people put more thought into what they do. Some brute may just pound his woman until he comes, not considering if she had an orgasm. A refined gentleman will not only put intellectual effort into enhancing his own experience, but also in maximizing his partner's pleasure for the satisfaction that brings them both.

I didn't know about this thread, GG! I'll read back some day!

My first thought, I guess stated way back on here: A man has to have his faculties fine tuned to 'read' a woman; to understand where her 'build' is at and what will take her up a level; and when she's in an upper orbit of bliss, what it is that's sustaining that and giving her more.

Yeah. A man's pleasuring of a woman takes mental subtlety in large measure.

I am going to refine both of these. Simply put, intelligent people pay enough attention to figure out what works, and what doesn't.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

I think youre fulla dum shit.

 

[Lia Monde]

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

Like anything, intellect carried to extremes is not good. On a date, I once had a guy explain to me the neurological aspects of an orgasm. Worse seduction ever. I may have ended the evening with a better understanding of physiology, but neither of us had an orgasm.

Wit is intellect applied in a charming way. Thus, better brainpower when used in the right way can be flirtatious and alluring. So the edge can go to a higher IQ over a drooling Cro-Magnon [except of course when I want to play cavegirl.].

 

[Noor]

I like bright, playful, considerate, kind and creative lovers.

 

[Lia Monde]

What makes sex with smart people so much better?

I generally prefer someone with a curious, and therefore stimulating, mind because they can bring so many different insights to any activity, including sex. But, it is situational. A recent physical connection was electric and mind-shattering. And, this wonderful person had the curiosity and intellect of a stump.

 

[jezzilee]

What makes sex with smart people so much better?

I generally prefer someone with a curious, and therefore stimulating, mind because they can bring so many different insights to any activity, including sex. But, it is situational. A recent physical connection was electric and mind-shattering. And, this wonderful person had the curiosity and intellect of a stump.

but the "stump" was good, yes??

 

[Lancecastor]

Nice old thread.

Smart as a word has such fluid positive boundaries that it's impossible to accurately quantify.

The best sex i never had was with a woman i dated twice.

Each date lasted 18 hours.

We never kissed, we never touched. At all.

But we were within an inch of each other the whole time, in whispers.

She never spoke to me again, though i tried for years.

I eventually found out why, but its a bit tragic, and not germaine.

The point is, i felt so strongly attracted to her particular intellect that just being around her was also sexually transcendent.

 

[LostSeeker13]

What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

I think an intelligent partner is better, to be sure, and I think there are many reasons for that.

First, intelligence requires a certain degree of flexibility. It adapts well. As much as we'd like romance, sex, anything really, to always go as planned, it rarely does. In my experience, those who are more able to roll with things as they come, or cum, tend to be more satisfied, and satisfying, lovers.

Second, intelligence is borne from curiosity, and few things kill great sex like stagnation. Well, save for a small population of particular fetishists. We don't judge. But for me, and most others, especially those who've found their way to this little part of the internet, changing it up, exploring new parts, outside and in, is a tantalizing necessity.

Third, the truly intelligent consistently seek growth, to be better, to learn. They aren't bogged down in notions of being "the best" at anything, as they know there's always room to grow, that sex by numbers is rarely a recipe for a good time. They want to learn themselves, learn their partners, be better.

Finally, at least for me, if I'm not stimulated mentally, I'm rarely satisfied physically. I like to play the long game, to build things up. There's definitely something to be said for a hard, fast fuck now and then, but I like the banter, the clever flirtations, of two minds going at it before the bodies do. But maybe that's just me.

 

[AlotLikePsyche]

Nice old thread.

Smart as a word has such fluid positive boundaries that it's impossible to accurately quantify.

The best sex i never had was with a woman i dated twice.

Each date lasted 18 hours.

We never kissed, we never touched. At all.

But we were within an inch of each other the whole time, in whispers.

She never spoke to me again, though i tried for years.

I eventually found out why, but its a bit tragic, and not germaine.

The point is, i felt so strongly attracted to her particular intellect that just being around her was also sexually transcendent.

^This is why the ladies never stop looking for Lance.

Intellect attracts me in a sexual way because I like to learn, evolve, grow, follow, be taught. There is an enthusiasm, an energy, an arousal, an opening, that often accompanies a change of heart, a change of mind. Maybe it’s a realization. Or a recognition. You can physically FEEL the reaction in your body, the tingle, the ache, the itch. Personally, my body always knows when it’s in the presence of a powerful mind. And it responds accordingly in anticipation of a partner willing and able to lead, teach, persuade, offer.

 

[txgent101]

On The Other Hand...

https://78.media.tumblr.com/744cf489ba7e99ade96358c751b58c77/tumblr_p38bdkCtCr1x1x355o1_540.jpg

(was reminded of this by a recent new Lit friend..thanks D)

 

[AlotLikePsyche]

That having been said, assuming I had to pick just one, and if smart and kind were mutually exclusive, I’d pick kind over smart every time, and twice on Sunday.

 

[Amoebah]

What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

Smart is sexy
online
Maybe because
the other senses
are blocked
so it's enhanced
the way blindness
enhances scent

in person
the things
unspoken
unseen hormones
scent
have greater sway
than brains
for making o's

 

[suckonsimon]

Never saw this thread in my years on Lit! Nicely!

My range of personal experience is very limited indeed but nonetheless I can say this: my woman is very smart, and her orgasms are to die for. Sometimes I nearly do. But, really, they are the most joyous delight in my life.

I'm aware that a big part of what I bring to a great climax for each of us is my intellect. In two senses: the hot commentary appropriate to her mood as I perceive it to be; the focus I have on what I consider to be art in action, in terms of what the man can bring to the coupling.

That's my opener on this thread - seven years later!

 

[AnneSexton]

Intellect attracts me in a sexual way because I like to learn, evolve, grow, follow, be taught. There is an enthusiasm, an energy, an arousal, an opening, that often accompanies a change of heart, a change of mind. Maybe it’s a realization. Or a recognition. You can physically FEEL the reaction in your body, the tingle, the ache, the itch. Personally, my body always knows when it’s in the presence of a powerful mind. And it responds accordingly in anticipation of a partner willing and able to lead, teach, persuade, offer.

Damn. I bet you’re great in bed. That’s a pretty sexy mind you have there.

 

[Saint Peter]

The smart ones never fall for lines like "is that a mirror in you pocket because I can really see myself in your pants."



Sucks.

 

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