In the end.......!

bbubbles

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The other day i was talking to a few girl friends about the different forms of sex taking place in the world, and asked each one whether they would try anything. Each in turn said there were things that they wouldn't do.

Talking after a few drinks, their tongues loosened somewhat, they ALL confessed to talking in chat rooms mainly about doing the things they claim they wouldn't do for real!

Is cyber sex so different? Do we lose ourselves so much in the cyber world that the real world doesn't stand a chance? After these probing questions, one took me home to try what she said she would never do...and found out that it was OK and that she would do it again.

I found this to be the best converstaion starter i've come across, and its amazing the results that come at the end.......i've done many things i thought i would never have the chance to try.....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!
 
Here we go again...

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Seeing as how you seem to be new Bbubbles, I'll go a head and answer. I am probably the most open, out, and secure sexual being you or anyone at Lit will run into. And the thing is, I am the same in "real life" as I am online. A good percentage of my "real life" friends I have MET online. :) Anyway, welcome to the board and HAVE FUN! http://smilecwm.tripod.com/legionxs/wavey.gif

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mmmmmmmmmmmm!

Well thank you everyone for posting against my very first thread.

TIGGS, really? It would be more that interesting having a conversation with you I'm sure......mmmmmm...maybe sometime!
I am always willing to learn.....
 
I try to be me as much as possible.BUt it seems that I have more chance to be open. On who I am ,and what I want to say on line ....Sooooooooo just be you as much as you can, and The rest will work its self out:) BUt as far as cyber sex I want the real thing .I want to feel my lover blowin' his wad!!:p

HAve a good one!!
DL
 
Re: mmmmmmmmmmmm!

bbubbles said:
TIGGS, really? It would be more that interesting having a conversation with you I'm sure......mmmmmm...maybe sometime!
I am always willing to learn.....

Gather around, my child, and I will tell you a tale! lol
 
Well, I think people are more likely to do/say things on line, or cybering for the same reason we read books; because we can in a way experience these things without having to actually commit to them. If someone has a rape fantasy, they can try it out annonomously, they don't really have to get raped, but it gives them a way to kind of live that experience. (you dig?) Like if you want to try out domination or something like that, you can, without the risk of getting involved with someone who's going to go psycho on you. Also, with cyber, if it's with some random person, you can just log off if you don't like the way things are going.
 
goddess_euphoria said:
If someone has a rape fantasy, they can try it out annonomously, they don't really have to get raped... Like if you want to try out domination or something like that, you can, without the risk of getting involved with someone who's going to go psycho on you.

I would like to start by saying I don't totally agree with you. I have a rape fantasy and I am involved in the D/s lifestyle. No, I have never actually been raped before, and I don't try to glamorize the act in any way. I have ROLE PLAYED it before though (yes, in RT sex acts) many times. I have gotten as involved as to have a safe word so I can say things like "no" and "stop" but not have to mean it. Anyone who is even remotely interested in D/s should understand what I am talking about.

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I guess all I'm saying is that those of us who aren't so brave to try it, or don't feel like you know anyone you could trust, or maybe someone you can trust, but who you don't want to let in on this one little thing; anyway, I'm just saying it's a completely safe way to try things out.
 
I think this holds true in other aspects of life. Why are titty bars so successful? Because that is where a man can go and tell a real live girl some of his darkest fantasies and not be humiliated. His wife would probably freak out if he told her these same fantasies. Of course the stripper acts as if shoving a tampon up a guys ass was perfectly normal. He has the money, she wants it!

P.S. I'm a lot more open about my foot fetish here and in e-mail than I am with my wife.
 
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