In a bad spot

[Absoluthoyt]

I dated this girl for a year and we were very much in love and kinda stopped dating shes been dating this other guy for 4 or so months having alot of trouble and shes decided its cause of me cause shes still attached to me were still very good friends and still love one another so what do i do? she doesnt want me to dissapear from her life but i dont see any other way to accomplish what she wants which is the attachment to me gone so she can concentrate on her new bf whos a fuck sadly but whatever

 

[girl]

This isn't your problem. It's hers. If she needs to go away from you for awhile, that's something she has to decide is going to happen. It's not up to you to fix her life.

girl

 

[Quiet_Cool]

This isn't your problem. It's hers. If she needs to go away from you for awhile, that's something she has to decide is going to happen. It's not up to you to fix her life.

girl

Nail on the head...don't over involved yourself in her life, but let her make the decisions. Question: If you're in love, why did you break up? Just curious, don't expect an answer on this one...