I'm getting hooked on cheating

[lovedoublepenetration]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

Dont stop. U are gonna miss the best fucking in life. I am still cheating on my hubby. Am addicted in gangbangs and dps. Never gonna stop gangbangs. Ever.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

My wife and I started out having a lot of fun! We will watch porn together, play with each other in public places and could flirt with each other all the time. As the years went on, she didn’t wanna have sex anymore and thought pornography and, other than basic, sex was disgusting. I did a lot of flirting and touching at work. ended up having a quickie on the way home one night. If she had been more accepting of my drive we would still be married. People do change, whether it’s your point of view or your sex drive. I never gave up loving her, just couldn’t give up on sex.

Isn't that what I said ?

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Dont stop. U are gonna miss the best fucking in life. I am still cheating on my hubby. Am addicted in gangbangs and dps. Never gonna stop gangbangs. Ever.

Read your profile.

 

[GoNorth2Camp]

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[lifeis2short2b]

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Read who I quoted

 

[TonyF862]

My wife and I started out having a lot of fun! We will watch porn together, play with each other in public places and could flirt with each other all the time. As the years went on, she didn’t wanna have sex anymore and thought pornography and, other than basic, sex was disgusting. I did a lot of flirting and touching at work. ended up having a quickie on the way home one night. If she had been more accepting of my drive we would still be married. People do change, whether it’s your point of view or your sex drive. I never gave up loving her, just couldn’t give up on sex.

Probably the absolute most common story among couples - especially divorced couples

 

[GoNorth2Camp]

She used to love it all the time, but just started fading away. Now we are becoming one of the divorce statistics

 

[Nellie60]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

Never had an affair or cheated when in a relationship with someone I cared about, however two of my ex girlfriends have cheated on me,.

Yet I have had the thrill of been the "lover" with a few either married women or another man's girls. The danger aspect and knowing they were attached to another was the arousing part.

 

[Britva415]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this

The only one whose judgement matters is the one you’re cheating on

 

[CaptCharles]

Its the thrill and excitement of danger as well as new heat and lust is incredible to experience.

 

[ALovelyNudist]

Welcome to a really bad club… but fuck it.

 

[hulmule]

I find it different now that im older. Harder to find anyone to be a FWB. Seemed like it was easier when i was younger. Now im older in a sexless marriage (when younger my wife just couldnt give me enough so need some extra) Has its pro's and cons

 

[EmmAgain]

I don’t know how people can enjoy sex when they’re cheating. Swinging with consent - sure. It’s like a couple’s adventure.

But cheating on somebody you love enough to stay married with? I’d find it icky. And of course you will get found out and have to deal with a divorce, spousal support, maybe custody… Ugh.

 

[Nellie60]

Its the thrill and excitement of danger as well as new heat and lust is incredible to experience.

New and knowing she is with so and so, much like their past relationships is a turn on..

There again she maybe cheating with you but could be with blessings of her partner who will hear about her exploits later..

 

[CaptCharles]

New and knowing she is with so and so, much like their past relationships is a turn on..

There again she maybe cheating with you but could be with blessings of her partner who will hear about her exploits later..

That's a possibility

 

[Dreamer110]

I don’t know how people can enjoy sex when they’re cheating. Swinging with consent - sure. It’s like a couple’s adventure.

But cheating on somebody you love enough to stay married with? I’d find it icky. And of course you will get found out and have to deal with a divorce, spousal support, maybe custody… Ugh.

I totally agree. Luckily my wife doesn't have to cheat. But if she did that'd be a major problem.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Cheating sex…always better then romantic sex

NO WAY !!!!!!!

 

[neighborpipe]

Hilariously, both my partner and I have changed significantly in the fifteen years since we got together. We’re incredibly close and we don’t really have sex. I am at a point in my life where I am more sexually aroused than ever before and I don’t feel the need to apologize for that. I am especially put off by the amount of judgement a story about adultery posted on a site like Literotica would garner. Especially when I discover that people who have poo-poo’d a cheating scenario have also dabbled extensively in non-consensual content. Who’s battling the ethical quandary?

 

[Ava_Vava]

I've been sleeping with other people behind my husband's back for years. We basically live completely separate lives despite living together, so I doubt he'd even care if he found out. Still, it's exciting to sneak around.

 

[neighborpipe]

I've been sleeping with other people behind my husband's back for years. We basically live completely separate lives despite living together, so I doubt he'd even care if he found out. Still, it's exciting to sneak around.

It’s great. And not that difficult. You can be a respectful, engaged partner and still enjoy sneaking around for hot sex with consenting partners.

 

[nsa69kink]

It’s a lot more common than you probably realize.

I personally prefer everyone to be honest, but been with lots of married ladies who for whatever reason were not getting it at home.

One in particular married woman was just like you and loved the thrill. She would message me and say to her husband she was going to a certain store in my town. That was the code for she wanted it. She would come to mine first for a good seeing to and then go to the store, before returning home to her unaware husband

It’s a lot more common than you probably realize.

I personally prefer everyone to be honest, but been with lots of married ladies who for whatever reason were not getting it at home.

One in particular married woman was just like you and loved the thrill. She would message me and say to her husband she was going to a certain store in my town. That was the code for she wanted it. She would come to mine first for a good seeing to and then go to the store, before returning home to her unaware husband.

Yup, so true, somehow the male partners 4got their wives have needs n cravings, however most men rather hava few drinks than bang that awesome gal he's married to. On the other hand, who am I to decline. She's all grown, comfortable with herself n hungry as a teen that's just discovered the joys of sexual fulfilment

 

[amigayorbi]

Always tempted by the prospect!

 

[nsa69kink]

I've been sleeping with other people behind my husband's back for years. We basically live completely separate lives despite living together, so I doubt he'd even care if he found out. Still, it's exciting to sneak around.

True & of recent such a common occurrence ...... living separate lives

 

[Nellie60]

Yup, so true, somehow the male partners 4got their wives have needs n cravings, however most men rather hava few drinks than bang that awesome gal he's married to. On the other hand, who am I to decline. She's all grown, comfortable with herself n hungry as a teen that's just discovered the joys of sexual fulfilment

They have forgotten indeed how attractive their wives are to other men especially the younger ones who are ready and waiting for these very opportunities.

I had a brief relationship with a co worker who was in this situation who was older than myself and a very sexy woman. She was in one of those on and off relationships and need someone in between

 

[flameinsidesoul]

I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.

Let’s skip the judgment, you didn’t come here for that. You came to speak your truth, and we are listening.

What you’re describing isn’t just cheating, it’s a reclaiming. A reclaiming of your desire, your autonomy, the parts of yourself that routine and monogamy sometimes quietly bury. The sneaking around, the double life, the delicious tension of almost getting caught… it’s not just about sex. It’s about feeling alive.

That thrill, the risk, the deception, the power in being unseen yet fully felt, is a language few understand, but many secretly crave. You’re not just breaking rules; you’re rewriting them for yourself. And there’s something fiercely honest in that, even when it’s hidden.

But I have to ask, the one question maybe no one else will:

When you come home… look into your husband’s eyes… and he sees only the version of you he knows…What does it feel like to hold that secret inside? Not the guilt. The power.

You’re playing with fire. That part of you is hoping it burns.
I’m not here to judge that. I’m here to understand it.