I'm afraid to masturbate

[sb2009]

It's been a week and one day since the piercing. And I still can't manage to do it. Nothing hurts, I'm just....chicken. But I also am a bit...tense. I'm used to doing it every day, a few times a day if I get the privacy.

The piercing guy said that when it doesn't hurt to touch, i can play with it LOL

I told my husband last night he needed to come here, tie me up and force me to get past my obvious mental block!

 

[PhilGarlic]

just do it

You are such a wimp,

 

[hd8001]

I am guessing you got a clit piercing? Is it a verticle or horizontal?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Hang on, piercing? Wha?

What piercing did you get done?

And yeah, it can be a bit scary to dive in the first time after you get it done. Just go gently at first, build the confidence back up.. you'll soon realise it doesn't hurt. Just do go getting all crazyhorse rough on yourself!

 

[BiBunny]

When I had mine done years ago, it was completely healed in two weeks. As in, could just take the damn thing out and leave it out for long periods of time without the hole closing up. If you're gentle with it, you should be fine.

 

[sb2009]

I had a vertical piercing, but with a ring in it. I had it done last Wednesday.

So maybe I should wait a week. I did a little gentle rubbing, not direct but enough to get me aroused, but I was thinking about getting back on the horse.... and then a friend called to vent about her miserable life and it killed the mood ;-)


Poor Mr. Hitachi is feeling neglected.

 

[neci]

wait a week woman! practice some orgasm control! really. the last thing you want is an infection. you can hold off. hehehe.

 

[where]

wait a week woman! practice some orgasm control! really. the last thing you want is an infection. you can hold off. hehehe.

what she said.

When I had mine done, the piercer said no touching for 6 weeks. even said it on the hand out.

I lasted nearly a month and when I asked him. he said nobody will wait the two to three weeks it takes to heal if you tell them no touching for 2-3 weeks and then he gets grumpy bints in the shop with infections. sexual frustration is way better than an infected clit hood

 

[sb2009]

ok..no touchy. Maybe my house will get super clean. Blech.

 

[DVS]

maybe you should tell us when you finally get ready to do it. You know...just in case there's an earthquake, land slide, avalanche or tsunami, etc.

I mean really, going that long without Mr. Hitachi? That first time could be quite an eruption!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Mr Hitachi is NOT the most gentle guy in the world, which might be useful right now.

Try him on top power, but not directly on your clit-- like against the back edge of your vag. The residual vibrations working their way up might be just the perfect way to get that very sensitive new piercing ringing like a bell.

 

[graceanne]

You can't masturbate?

So this would be a bad time to start talking about spankings and bondage and orgasms?

 

[PrimoTat]

Whenever I read Mr. Hitachi I always envision Pat Morita.

 

[midwestyankee]

Whenever I read Mr. Hitachi I always envision Pat Morita.

@SB, perhaps you could adopt a "wax on, wax off" motion that would suffice.

 

[sb2009]

Mr Hitachi is NOT the most gentle guy in the world, which might be useful right now.

Try him on top power, but not directly on your clit-- like against the back edge of your vag. The residual vibrations working their way up might be just the perfect way to get that very sensitive new piercing ringing like a bell.

Now THAT was some good advice! I'm going to try that once I get the kids to bed. Damn kids, ruining my masturbation time.

 

[where]

Mr Hitachi is NOT the most gentle guy in the world, which might be useful right now.

Try him on top power, but not directly on your clit-- like against the back edge of your vag. The residual vibrations working their way up might be just the perfect way to get that very sensitive new piercing ringing like a bell.

this.


as long as you DON'T TOUCH THE CLIT!!!!!!!!

 

[sb2009]

I just read that in this horribly paniked voice DON"T TOUCH THE CLIT WHATEVER YOU DO, FOR GOD'S SAKE, KEEP AWAY FROM THE CLIT! and then started giggling.

 

[where]

I just read that in this horribly paniked voice DON"T TOUCH THE CLIT WHATEVER YOU DO, FOR GOD'S SAKE, KEEP AWAY FROM THE CLIT! and then started giggling.

pffft! call yerself a sub?


the plus side is when it is properly healed, the pay off is huge until the sensitivity goes.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I think I waited a couple of weeks with mine, from memory... however, mine's underneath, so I was able to play with my clit gently without irritating the piercing too much.

And being a horizontal bar, I was just having enough trouble with the edges getting caught and snagged if I moved the wrong way.. ouch.

It did take me a good while to play 'normally' with myself though.. I'd hold back for a long while, till one day I pretty much forgot to.

 

[sb2009]

Well, I at least know now that I am not a true masturbation addict! I am going to wait a few days, then try Stella's suggestion. Boy, am I big fat wimp!!!!

I am sort of torturing myself by thinking very arousing thoughts though, that's sort of fun.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, I at least know now that I am not a true masturbation addict! I am going to wait a few days, then try Stella's suggestion. Boy, am I big fat wimp!!!!

I am sort of torturing myself by thinking very arousing thoughts though, that's sort of fun.

Suppose it turns out that you can't... quite... get there... without that last touch of pressure...

Which you are not allowed to apply.


hahaha...

 

[Abraxas Winterlight]

a hitachi is a terrible thing to waste.......

 

[sb2009]

OK!!!! I did it. It's like falling off a bike....or whatever.

I did a gentle cupping of my pubis and that was all it took..and some dirty thoughts. It was a fucking intense orgasm for not much friction/pressure/stimulation. I'm very glad I don't have access to an actual penis (attached to a body and made of real flesh and blood) because I really do think that would be too much.

I'm sure I'll be good to go by Thanksgiving...

 

[radepor]

Good Heavens; get a grip

Literally,

get a grip.

If it hurts and you don't like the hurt, quit until it doesn't.

When pain goes away or even if it doesn't, if the pleasure overcomes any pain, go for it.

Personally, a 'little' pain does wonders for me; but, it's not everyone's cup of tea.

It's been a week and one day since the piercing. And I still can't manage to do it. Nothing hurts, I'm just....chicken. But I also am a bit...tense. I'm used to doing it every day, a few times a day if I get the privacy.

The piercing guy said that when it doesn't hurt to touch, i can play with it LOL

I told my husband last night he needed to come here, tie me up and force me to get past my obvious mental block!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Literally,

get a grip.

If it hurts and you don't like the hurt, quit until it doesn't.

When pain goes away or even if it doesn't, if the pleasure overcomes any pain, go for it.

Personally, a 'little' pain does wonders for me; but, it's not everyone's cup of tea.

How about a blood infection that starts in the tip of your penis?