I'm afraid I won't be tight afterwards.

[cumslut4u]

My friend wants to use a big inflatable dildo on me. He wants to see how much I can handle. I want to do it so badly. Thinking about being stretched to my limit gets me hot. (Not to mention, I'd like to prove him wrong, I'm pretty sure he thinks I won't be able to handle much) Anyway, Right now he fingers me with three fingers. I've had his cock and also other toys that fill me nice and tight. My concern is being loose afterwards. I like being nice and tight down there

So, is this a valid concern?

The size I'd like to try and take is like this... Regular size: 9 inch circumference, 15.75 inch insertable length.Inflated size: 13.5 inch circumference, 16 inch insertable length.

 

[cumslut4u]

I was looking at that fisting thread some posted, thinking I might find my answer there. That one went way off topic. Hilarious..but off topic

 

[will1939]

My friend wants to use a big inflatable dildo on me. He wants to see how much I can handle. I want to do it so badly. Thinking about being stretched to my limit gets me hot. (Not to mention, I'd like to prove him wrong, I'm pretty sure he thinks I won't be able to handle much) Anyway, Right now he fingers me with three fingers. I've had his cock and also other toys that fill me nice and tight. My concern is being loose afterwards. I like being nice and tight down there

So, is this a valid concern?

The size I'd like to try and take is like this... Regular size: 9 inch circumference, 15.75 inch insertable length.Inflated size: 13.5 inch circumference, 16 inch insertable length.

Being a male I might be the wrong person to give you advice because of course I can't speak from personal experience. I do have some female friends though who assure me that you will go back and not be loose afterwards (unless you were to insert something that big every day for a very long time). However, if it is your first time with anything that big it could stretch you enough to hurt; you might be better off starting with something a little smaller first and working your way up. Your best bet I think would be just to stop if it does begin to hurt or feel uncomfortable.

 

[njlauren]

Everything I know about female anatomy says that unless there is some sort of physical condition, that any stretching is temporary. Think about it, women give birth through there to a human baby head and come back to normal for the most part.

I suspect if it isn't like one of the stories on lit where a woman uses huge dildos all the tie or had sex several times a day with incredibly well hung guys, you would be fine. I agree with others, take it easy doing this, you don't want tearing down there or other problems. Be careful, give it time to recover, and you will be fine.

 

[GrrlFriday]

The muscles that are at play here are the PC muscles (labelled 'pelvic floor' in this diagram) - I gather that if you spend some time trying to consciously get in touch with them (Kegels, etc.) so that you can flex and relax the muscle as you might flex and relax an arm or leg muscle, you may have an easier time relaxing them to accommodate large items, and in 'tightening up' after.

You may also wish to read this thread and this thread from the Blank Manual.

 

[SweetErika]

The vagina is elastic enough to snap back after having a 10-pound (or so) baby. Yours will snap right back after using a large dildo, or having lots of sex, provided you don't do serious damage (say, tear muscles, your vaginal wall or perineum) with those activities. It's certainly smart to make sure you're as prepared as possible with plenty of lube, arousal, warm-up and strong PC-muscles, and it might take a little time to get back to normal, but you'll be just fine if you listen to your body and don't push it beyond its limits. Just as with anal, an important part of that is not using anything (drugs, alcohol, numbing cream/lube) that could mask pain before play.

 

[cumslut4u]

Thank you all for responding.

He did said he would work up to that. it's good he wants to use an inflatable so it can slowly be pumped up.

As far as being uncomfortable or feeling some pain...I should just stop?? I'd definitely like to feel some discomfort. Weird.. I know :/

 

[Lord Pmann]

He wants to work up to inserting one human head, doesn't he?

 

[box13]

I've used fingers a few times and noticed that there are folds of skin, "rough" I guess, and I realized it was that feeling so good, and (OK, sounds like blame, I admit) probably some of why I don't last too long in certain positions.

So I guess, in summary, I'm going to take a guess that women who have given birth are probably more sexually enjoyable than those who haven't yet, and not because of "tight" but because of the additional sensation from how the vagina changes after being stretched...several times.

That's my story anyways.

And the "I want to try this" is pretty hot. I just can't imagine it making sex with you less enjoyable for any reason.

 

[Eilan]

After four vaginal deliveries, the only difference that I notice is that when I do Kegels or squeeze/clamp down on my husband, I can't feel it as much. He, on the other hand, can feel it just fine.

That said, I'm wary of fisting (though I have done it before and my husband has smallish hands) and large insertions because I had an episiotomy with my oldest and the scar tore during deliveries #2 and #4, so there's obviously a weakness in that area. While I know that anything I might insert into my vagina wouldn't be the size of the 7-lb babies I delivered, I'm still paranoid. Plus, I don't want to have to go to the ER and try to explain what happened to the medical staff, even if they have seen it all before.

 

[englishkev]

Plus, I don't want to have to go to the ER and try to explain what happened to the medical staff, even if they have seen it all before.

fwiw... we have, and that's not even considered freaky.

 

[Eilan]

fwiw... we have, and that's not even considered freaky.

Yeah, my medical acquaintances have assured me that this is the case.

 

[Duracell10]

I must say that as a guy, all this talk of inflatables and giving birth is making my eyes water.

 

[GrrlFriday]

I must say that as a guy, all this talk of inflatables and giving birth is making my eyes water.

Try being a girl and having 'the talk'... ( 'I'm expected to push a WHOLE BABY through my WHERE? ' has definitely crossed my mind at times)

 

[cumslut4u]

Thank you!

 

[klippert]

MrsK gave birth aw'natural...and still as tight as the first time we fucked. Though sore for several weeks...after giving birth. she went righ back to being tight. though her inside are more elastic.. if that makes sense

 

[PhilGarlic]

I guess

I have given birth twice, the second time involving a healing process, and I would like to advise that sex feels no different to me than it did pre-children. My husband reports no difference either.

I guess the stock response to the above is,

No photo, not true

 

[Lord Pmann]

I guess the stock response to the above is,

No photo, not true

 

[Oo_Bugsy]

Think of it like getting 'plugs' in your ear. For those that want big holes in their ears.
Need to start off small and work your way up, as you've mentioned.

If you go right for the big ones you'll hurt yourself and most likely be turned off the idea.

Good luck though

 

[Que]

He wants to work up to inserting one human head, doesn't he?

Well, Duh!!! (Who wouldn't?)

 

[norfolklad]

I find that a woman's openness (or lack of it) is more a function of her arousal than anything else. I adore love-making sessions that last for an age, with lots and lots and lots of foreplay (both ways). By the end of this the woman will usually - without going into gynaecological detail - be amazingly open. Surprisingly, deliberately not touching her pussy but skirting around it in the earlier stages of foreplay seems to make her even more open. It must be the anticipation effect.

There is a downside to this, of course. I have only an average-sized cock (as must be the case, by definition, with most males) and the more open the woman, the less sensation for me when I'm inside her and, I suspect, her too.

The solution, I have found, is that this lengthened foreplay must end with a superb orgasm for her. A really good orgasm seems to result in the woman suddenly tightening up - I'm no medical expert, but I guess that her reproductive system assumes that such an orgasm must have been the result of a very good fucking and she contracts in an effort to keep the man's (non-existent) cum inside her to increase her chances of getting pregnant. Entering her when she's in this tightened but still very wet state is a fantastic experience.

So, to the OP, if you want to take a lot inside you, whether human or artificial, make sure that your partner gets you thoroughly, absolutely thoroughly aroused first but not to the point of cumming. Let me know if my experience works for you too.

 

[gypseywolf]

Hey

Do you know what kegals are? I do them almost all the time, they are great for getting elasticity and building the muscles in your pussy..also my mid wife told me to drink a glass a day or red raspberry leaf tea, it promotes good feminine genital health, started drinking is three years ago, and I notice it combined with my kegals everything is great. I had a baby 3 years ago and now I am tighter, but more elastic, I have surprised my self with what I can handle...I would go slow though, to much to fast can do a lot of harm, also b sure to use lost of lube even if you think you won't need it, better safe than an trip to the er and trying to explain your activities.lmao..

 

[bigboy2485]

My girlfriend had given birth to three baby's before I met her, if she hadn't told me she'd had three kids I wouldn't have known as she was still nice and tight.
I'm sure theres more than a few on here would love to see the pics of you being stretched.